More and more often couples go to psychologists so that they can tell them how to start feeling each other. A particularly relevant topic is the topic of sex. Young people are interested in what are the most common exciting postures that will bring pleasure to both partners.
What is it?
Sexual gestures are a way to express your sympathy without words. Our body says a lot about how we feel, just sometimes we don’t understand it, or rather, we don’t know how to understand it. Therefore, often there is a discord in the relationship between a man and a woman. You need to learn gestures and postures in order to better understand your partner. This will help to avoid unpleasant situations, attract attention and interest the opposite sex.
Women gestures
Sexual gestures are based on sexual characteristics. Usually a guy wants to please a true girl, but a lady, on the contrary, wants to like all the men around. There are a lot of gestures with a sexual promise.
For a woman, the following are characteristic:
- In order to attract attention, the girl freely makes a gesture with her hand, for example, stroking her hair, tucking it in her ear or straightening her clothes.
- Tilts the head to the side.
- The movement of the head, as it were, throws the hair sharply to the side or back from the shoulders to the back. In girls with short hair, this happens instinctively.
- When a girl walks, her breasts are directed forward, and her back is straight. At the same time, her gait is from the hip.
- When a girl or woman sits, smooth crossing and straightening of the legs occurs.
- Hand stroking body parts such as calves, hips and knees.
- Slow toe-to-toe.
- A girl who is passionate about her partner will be at ease showing her wrist.
- Straightened chest.
- Cupid look combined with a smile.
- “The look of the coquette” - smiles a little, then looks away.
- Wet lips.
- Half open mouth.
- Low soft voice.
- Stroking any rectangular object.
- If a woman is very interested in a man, she will try to sit next to him.
- When talking with a man leans forward a little.
- Eyes. If a woman caught fire with a man, she will look into his eyes and try to meet his eyes with him, thereby turning on her partner.
- To examine himself in the mirror in the presence of a man, so that he next looks at her.
- To paint lips in his presence.
Sexual gestures of men
For men, their sexual gestures are also inherent:
- At the level of instincts, men adopted from the primates the posture of widely spread legs (like a demonstration of genitals).
- A frank look, as if undressing a woman.
- Hands are on hips.
- Fingers stick out of a jacket pocket or trousers.
- Hand straightening your hair, items of your clothes.
- When a woman appears, the man straightens his shoulders, back.
- Goes back and forth.
- In the sitting position, the legs stretch forward.
General gestures
General sexual gestures for boys and girls:
- Hands on hips.
- The legs are spread wide.
- Long or short intimate look.
- If the pupils narrow, then you have no chance, but if they expand, then you really like the opposite sex.
- Eye-to-eye look lasts a couple of seconds, then rushes down.
- The guy evaluates the girl as a whole, and she, in turn, does it gradually.
- Rapid eye contact.
- The back is straightened.
- When partners like each other, they seem to be trying to sit opposite each other.
- Copy gestures.
Unconscious manifestation
The choice of these sexual gestures occurs unconsciously. Therefore, if you know them, you’ll better understand what the opposite sex wants from you.
So, we examined what kind of sexual gestures are, now let's move on to exciting poses. They will help diversify the intimate life of sexual partners. Because sometimes a moment occurs when passion fades away, and young people try to introduce a twist into their relationship. But the partners must come to this method together, so as not to offend each other subsequently. A woman should ask what poses excite a man, and vice versa. Thus, you show your second half that you respect her, and do not show your discontent. As the posture determines the style of sex, so our desires and sensations at this second determine the position.
What excites
Consider the most exciting postures that will appeal to both partners.
The first thing that matters is not the novelty in the poses, but the relationship between the partners. For a girl, the main thing is for the guy to be affectionate with her, but at the same time a little rude in sex, this turns her on. Then she wants to completely surrender to her partner. And for a man it is important to see the woman’s very desire, that she likes it, and most importantly, that she also try to subdue him in bed, and not lie like a log and expect only action from him.
Poses that men like
Everyone, at least once, was interested in what is the most exciting pose of a man and woman. It is on this subject that we will argue further. So what poses excite guys? These items include:
- "Classical". This pose is to the liking of a man, since in this position he is on top. That is, the whole process is controlled by the guy. For men, this is very important. In this position, partners have the opportunity to observe each other, to see emotions and passion on their faces. Also in this position, frequent kisses become possible.
- “Spoons” - a popular position is satisfied. She is also very popular with guys. The girl in this case is with her back to the partner. Therefore, in this position he sees something wild. The partner will be absolutely excited.
- "The reverse horsewoman." The guys really like the position. She literally drives them crazy. In this position, the lady sits on her man from above, with his back to him. Representatives of the stronger sex love this pose. Because at this moment they can relax and watch how their woman gives them pleasure.
- "Like a dog". After asking a man a question, what poses arouse, this list will definitely be included in this list. The new name is Doggy Style, or the man behind. Attracts a guy by the fact that he is behind and controls the process, feels his power over his partner, and also sees her beautiful back.
- "Rider". This is the most exciting posture in sex for a man, as he watches his woman give him pleasure. He sees her beautiful figure, which turns him on even more.
- “Standing” is an exciting pose. With it, you can have sex with your girlfriend anywhere, even on the street in the bushes, which makes the guy start up even more. In this case, the partner can be attached to his half both front and rear.
These are classic poses to get a man. And if a woman meets her partner after a hard worker in beautiful underwear, then this will please him even more. The lady can preview the photo poses. An excited man will follow her even to the ends of the world.
But do not forget that the girls have their own preferences in sex.
Poses that ladies like
So, consider the exciting postures for a woman:
- “Man on top” - a woman lies in a horizontal position, legs crossed on the shoulders of her man. First he must enter gently, then deeply with intermittent repetitions. A man enters several times, thereby allowing her to become even more excited, then the pace increases. If a partner loves a little more, then you can enter even deeper with intense speed. Moreover, if a woman is uncomfortable, then she must say at what angle she will be most pleased.
- “Face to face” - sitting opposite a friend. A man sits on his knees, legs pressed under his buttocks, while the woman rests her hands on the bed, legs spread wider, bending them at the knees. The pelvis is raised, and the man holds the buttocks. In this position, the penis enters the vagina as much as possible, thereby enhancing sensations.
- The third pose is perpendicular. The girl lies on the edge of the bed, her legs are apart and rest on the floor. A man is standing perpendicular to her knees. Both control the angle of entry of the penis. The movements may be different. In this position, a man stimulates the clitoris with his fingers to give maximum pleasure to his woman. You can also bring pleasure by caressing her breasts.
- The pose "heat" - this exciting pose, in fact, reminds everyone of the well-known pose "69". But it is not based on oral, but on vaginal sex. The man lies on his back, and the woman rests her elbows on the bed, connecting her genitals to the man. Mostly a woman moves. So she adjusts the angle of entry of the member, thereby it brings maximum pleasure.
- “Rider” - we have already examined how men like this pose. But for a woman, she is also important in that she controls the angle of entry, the pace. In this position, the girl can achieve orgasm, because the partner can hold out longer.
Men, you have no idea what a woman can do when she feels welcome, loved and inspired. This is affected not only by sex, but also by your attitude to it.
Views on quality sex
By what principles can you evaluate the quality of sex? Let's see what's what. Firstly, “emotional support”. Sometimes a man and a woman catch themselves thinking that high-quality sex can happen only with a loved one. In principle, a girl will not sleep with a guy if he does not attract her. At the same time, a man will not be able to sleep with a woman who is cold-blooded to him. Therefore, they should have sympathy for each other.
Secondly, the taboo on talking about the former. Few people like it when the topic of former partners comes up. There is little sense in this, because when you hear how it was with others, you will focus on it.
Third, sexual experience is not important. Men and women should be calm about this situation, because once you are together, you will share experience with your other half. Do not forget to voice your sexual fantasies. New ideas will only diversify your intimate life. Then you can both enjoy it.
Another important factor is the lack of complaints against your partner. This symptom is very important for men. The fact is, when a woman makes a claim in sexual terms, the guy can react sharply to this and withdraw into himself. Therefore, this problem should be approached very delicately, so as not to injure male self-esteem.
Tips for those who want to achieve harmony in an intimate relationship
When making love, try to maintain a balance between your desires and the needs of your partner. If you take, then be sure to give, and vice versa. For tenderness and affection, be extremely generous. For all this, do not let the partner infringe on you in return.
Try to play with your partner. Be sure to show each other your true desires. Bring them in words and gestures. Only in this way will you be able to motivate the sexual partner to respond to behavior. With proper communication, it will be much easier to achieve absolute understanding. Never be afraid of your desires! Even if it seems to you that they are too depraved. Only with your revelations can you surprise a loved one by evoking vivid emotions in him and giving his attraction a new power.
Experiment!
When making love, do it with the soul, completely spending energy and strength. Only in this way will you be able to fill sex with the most vivid emotions. Making love will turn into a fascinating exciting adventure, if there is pleasure, sincerity, new discoveries and an unselfish desire to improve for the good of a partner. Try not to be monotonous in your intimate life. It destroys attraction and turns passionate sex into a routine.
Remember that you are not a brother and sister, but a couple in love! Therefore, try to treat sex as the most important thing in your life. Allow yourself to open up to new sensations in the intimate area.
Little conclusion
Now you know what exciting postures are. Positions were examined in detail. Sexual gestures of men and women have also been described.