Not sure how to build a relationship with a girl? Around a man there are always many attractive people. They walk along the street, study with him on the same course, or work in a nearby office. There is no problem inviting the person you like on a date. But how to behave? This will be discussed below.
How to behave on a first date
Relations with a girl is a fascinating journey that will help a man to know himself better. At first, everything seems wonderful. The girl is attractive, attentive and intelligent. All her cockroaches will come out later. And they should not be sought. Perhaps they are few and they hide well. The beginning of a relationship with a girl always completely captures a man. But you invited the object of your adoration to a date, and how now to behave? The best advice you can give is to be yourself. What does this mean? Do not try to seem better than you really are. The truth will always come up. All people are imperfect. If you do not like to read, do not lie that you are fond of literature. After all, you also have strengths, and it is worth focusing on them. But in general, the attention should be paid not to you, but to the girl. Show interest. Ask where she studied and what she does. But do not do this for show. Listen to the answers and show interest with all your kind. Talking about him is always flattering a person. Therefore, the girl will be pleased to talk about herself. Do not rush to interrupt her if you find common interests. Mention, by the way, that you are also good at music or skiing.
Where to invite a girl on a date?
You started a relationship with a girl, and you already had several meetings? Now you need to hit your chosen one. Before the relationship moves to a new level, try to show yourself only in the best light. Do not drive a girl only to restaurants and movie theaters. This is too trivial. You should make sure that your companion, being near you, experienced strong emotions. So invite her to ride a horse or a boat. If you are dating a girl who loves music, invite her to a concert. If your lady loves art, call her to an exhibition or theater. Show her that you share her interests. But remember that you should not lose yourself. If you take a nap on a theatrical performance, this is unlikely to amaze the girl. Therefore, do not lead her to those places where you will be frankly bored.
How to behave with a girl who likes
The first stage of dating has been successfully completed, and the romance in the relationship is slowly disappearing? This should not be allowed. You have achieved what you wanted. Your chosen one belongs to you. But relations with a girl are not only walks, cafe visits and sex. If you want something more, try to add variety to your meetings. And you need to do this all the time. A girl should not be bored near you. Suddenly come to her house with cakes, have a non-trivial weekend. Invite her to a picnic in the forest or to a ski resort.
How to behave with a girl? Be open. Frankness in our time is an expensive gift. Do not hide your feelings and emotions. If you don’t feel like going somewhere, say so directly. Introduce the girl to your friends and go to parties and picnics together.
It’s not worth while hugging and kissing your beloved. This is only relevant in romantic films, but not in life. Remember that your personal life should always remain personal, and not become public.
Decide on a goal
To understand how to behave with a girl, you need to answer your question: what do you want? Thinking about starting a short romance, or aiming at creating a family? Yes, every person wants to find his soul mate. But not everyone succeeds in doing this on the first try. And this has its advantages. After all, only after going through several unsuccessful novels, a man can understand what he really likes and dislikes in women.
Serious relationship with a girl is a responsible decision. If you are aiming at creating a family, you can boldly and openly declare this to your chosen one. Of course, not on a first date. But her opinion about where your relationship will lead is important. After all, if you will position the girl as a bride, and she you - as the next lover, nothing will come of it. You can establish a long and strong relationship only with the person who also wants this.
Declaration of love
When a boy’s relationship with a girl moves to a new stage of development, love ends. And the man feels that his chosen one is not indifferent to him. How do you need to confess your love? It is not necessary to thoroughly approach this issue. Only in films, guys invite a girl to the roof, open champagne and talk about their feelings. In life, all the best moments happen spontaneously. Of course, you can realize a bold romantic idea. And the girl will appreciate this gesture. But she will also be pleased if you talk about your feelings, standing next to her on the bridge and admiring the river. You need to choose the right moment. If you are an amorous person, and are ready to make a declaration of love after a week of dating, wait a while with this. Modern girls are very circumspect. Your chosen one must first understand herself. The reciprocity of her feelings you can track by actions. And when you understand that she is ready to listen to your frankness, then go for it.
Be a man
To create a good relationship with a girl, you must be gallant. Any girl is pleased when she is opened the door and first allowed into the room. Also, do not forget to give your chosen one a coat and help her put it on. Carry a heavy bag and ask about her opinion. Girls like it when a man can come to the rescue, remember this. Therefore, if your chosen one calls you at 23.15 and asks her to pick up from a country cottage, be a knight, even if you have already made a bed to go to bed. You can also make a noble deed and help the girl in everyday problems. And even if she does not ask about it. For example, you know that your girlfriend is moving. Offer your help in transporting things. She will be pleased that you are a sensitive, caring and understanding guy.
Do not be henpecked
But do not cross borders. It’s one thing to help with what the girl herself can’t do, and quite another to go with her, for example, for shopping. The guys are not interested in looking at the next dress sitting on her lover. Therefore, directly tell about it. In order not to hurt her feelings, mention that you like the girl’s style and that you fully rely on her taste. Also, do not encourage laziness. If your chosen one asks you to call to the other end of the city to pick up the parcel, although she herself will be near the post office, do not agree. You are not a cabman. The difference between what is permissible and what is unacceptable should be understood.
Know how to listen
Men love with their eyes, and women with their ears. This is folk wisdom, which 100% reflects the real situation. Girls like to talk, and they want to be listened to. Therefore, you need to carefully monitor the thread of the conversation. It’s unpleasant to talk with a person who is in the clouds from time to time. If your chosen one decided to tell you about her problems, then they are important to her. Even if it's some kind of nonsense like a broken nail. Sincerely sympathize, do not laugh. After all, a girl will not condemn you if you complain about a scratched car. The ability to listen is the most important quality for a man. Therefore, if you do not have natural mindfulness, it will have to be artificially developed.