At the very beginning of the relationship between a man and a woman, a “fire” of feelings and emotions breaks out, which is impossible to calm down and difficult to control.
Over time, alas, the “flame” becomes calmer and it seems to partners that they receive less. If passion leaves the relationship completely, taking with it the sexual desire - there is a danger of family breakdown.
There is good news: passion, if it was, does not leave without a trace. It can be returned, however, some efforts will have to be made. But as the sages say, all truly valuable things do not come easily.
Look at yourself from the side
First of all, it is necessary to find the reason why passion has left the relationship. The most common is fatigue from each other. Many people need diversity, only then they feel interest, excitement, passion.
In the relationship of two, and so there is an element of monotony - this is a constant partner. If every day of life together is similar to the previous one, there is nothing inspiring and exciting - it is not surprising that mutual craving disappears.
In this case, the best way is to come up with something new and unusual. It can be a joint hobby that will be interesting for both, a new exciting project, the study of the art of erotic massage or positions from the Kama Sutra. In this matter, one can and should improvise and fantasize.
Another mistake people living together is that they stop monitoring themselves. Everyone likes well-groomed, beautifully dressed, sexy.
When a man and a woman are just meeting, they see each other exclusively in a favorable light, and later bathrobes, home leotards and pajamas appear. When you are at home, pay attention to your reflection in the mirror - how do you evaluate yourself? Attractive? If not, then urgently think about how to fix it.
Perhaps you should buy a new bathrobe or sleep without pajamas. Or use toilet water, and women do not rush to wash off cosmetics and wind curlers - this can be done when the partner does not see. It gives the effect of erotic underwear, which you can wear even if not every day, but a couple of times a week. In general, try to show your partner as unsightly as possible.
Many men notice that their wives changed after the wedding, lost their personality. If the bride was an interesting and versatile person, the “soul of the company”, then after a few years all her conversations and thoughts about children or everyday problems. A man is not interested in her, and she herself pays little attention to him.
Therefore, it is so important for a woman to have personal interests, perhaps her own business, as well as to develop spiritually and intellectually in order to be a worthy interlocutor.
Also, women should remember that in the first place should be a husband, not children. First of all, attention should be paid to him, only in this case the relationship will be harmonious and filled with warm feelings.
Bring romance back to your relationship
Rewind the “film of life” a little back and remember the beginning of your relationship. Excitement before dates, timidity and embarrassment, the thrill of first kisses and impatience to merge in a passionate impulse ...
Surely now you are missing these dear to your heart moments, which somehow quietly went away, and domestic issues took their place. A great way to revive a faded passion over time is to return to the beginning of a relationship, at least partially.
Even if you live together for many years, you have children and a lot of work, you can allocate a little time for a romantic date, for example. Remember the most striking of your meetings, during which you were overwhelmed with emotions and try to reproduce them. Have sex in the place where it was many years ago. Be sure to remember why you fell in love with each other. This will undoubtedly arouse feelings in you.
Do not forget about the signs of attention, which are so nice to receive. Give compliments more often, give presents - even minor trifles. Take an interest in each other’s affairs and admire achievements.
Try to say something pleasant every day, to confess your love, touch is obligatory - hugs, kisses. Unbeknownst to yourself, you will find that the partner literally “blossoms” - it becomes more attractive and desirable.
Have a holiday!
The best way to get away from everyday life is to arrange something bright and unforgettable just for you two. You can please each other with various surprises: a romantic walk or a picnic, weekends spent away from home, a trip that would remind you of a honeymoon.
A great way to “rekindle” passion is to arrange a “night of love”, which would begin with a light dinner with champagne and by candlelight, then an erotic massage that smoothly flows into sexual games. Only this should not be familiar proximity, but something enchanting. Strengthen and prolong the sensations will help the drug . There are also drugs for women, thanks to which sexual relations become more vivid.
Miss each other!
According to psychologists, usually we fall in love not with a person, but with his image, which we often invent ourselves. When does this image manage to form? In those moments when a loved one is not nearby, and we dream about him. The more we dream and miss, the more we fall in love. Thus, it turns out that another great way to “refresh” the relationship is to miss each other. In this case, it is desirable to make imagination work. For example, one of the partners goes on a business trip or on vacation, and in order to “warm up” the feelings of another, he flirts using means of communication (phone sex, dating on Skype). If you take a creative approach to solving the problem, then the "half" will soon begin to ask you to quickly return, and the meeting promises unforgettable moments.