In the modern world, most members of the stronger sex live in a rather intense and fast pace of life. Constant worries, thoughts about additional earnings, sedentary work behind a laptop monitor - all this ultimately affects both men's health and male strength. As a result, many women are faced with such an unpleasant phenomenon as premature ejaculation. What to do if a beloved man cums quickly? Some people believe that Mother Nature has decided so and will have to put up with it, while others are trying to find answers and effective methods of struggle. This article is just for the last group.
Why does a man end quickly?
According to andrologists, on average, the duration of sexual intercourse should exceed two to three minutes. From the point of view of established views on this problem, it is customary to highlight several key factors that lead to premature ejaculation. It is curious that most of them bring the men themselves to their defense, which once again convinces them of their effectiveness. Below is an almost complete list of them:
- prolonged lack of intimacy;
- strong arousal of a sexual partner;
- emphasis on orgasm as the strongest experience and selfish disregard for the girl’s feelings;
- structural features of the female vagina, contributing to rapid ejaculation ;
- strong excitement from the sight of a woman, which a man simply can’t hold back.
Although it is difficult to argue with these statements, these are far from the only answers to the question “why does a man end quickly”. If you read what experts write on this topic, we can conclude that, until recently, male health experts believed that premature ejaculation was somehow related to psychological problems, in particular the inability to relax during sex. Of course, in many respects our doctors are right, but do not forget that they are people like us, and people, as you know, tend to make mistakes. Few people know, but not so long ago, Finnish and Swedish scientists made a discovery that gives a completely different answer to the question “why does a man finish quickly”. After a study of 1300 men, whose ages ranged from 18 to 45 years, a group of scientists who conducted these tests concluded that premature ejaculation is associated with a defect in the gene that controls the release of dopamine, which acts as a universal chemical neurotransmitter. Thus, now, doctors, in addition to antidepressants, will begin to offer men drugs that cause a surge in dopamine in the brain. However, will this not be another attempt to eliminate the effect instead of defeating the cause? Personally, I deeply doubt that the root of the decision is to take pills.
Solution
As you can see, there are various reasons that can negatively affect male power. Moreover, they can act both individually and as a complex, and in the latter case it is not easy to defeat the disorder. However, those who do not give up sooner or later succeed. So what to do if a man ends quickly? Modern medicine recommends in this case to choose one or a combination of the following three methods of healing this disease:
- pharmacotherapy, that is, the use of drugs;
- behavioral therapy (a course designed to gain control over oneself);
- surgical intervention (in the case of physiological pathologies).
The logical conclusion suggests itself: first you need to find a specific answer to the question of why the man ends up quickly, and then choose which solution in this case will bring the best results. In any case, it is not worth rushing with the pills, because the cause can be dealt with independently by gaining mental health and improving self-control. There are many ways how this can be achieved, and everyone, if desired, can choose for himself the most suitable of them. At least, this is much better than going to the surgeon or swallowing any kind of “chemistry”.