True love is not afraid to make commitments and make vows. Our society is finally returning to pre-revolutionary values - and people want to get married again. Although this is often a tribute to fashion, through fashion weddings in the church become the norm. And not only for young couples: more and more often couples of people appear in the church and ask to marry them. It is always very touching and beautiful. Although the wedding in the church is always beautiful.
As you know, after baptism, each has a guardian angel. There is a beautiful belief that after the wedding, the couple is given another angel who protects the family. There are many cases when, after the wedding in the church, husbands quit drinking and spouses stopped quarreling often. Believers approach wedding more seriously than marriage registration in the registry office, because church marriage implies a huge responsibility not of a material, but of a spiritual plan.
Among the questions, the priests quite often ask the question of whether it is possible to get married before the wedding in the registry office. Such a wedding is allowed only in exceptional cases, usually in small rural parishes, where the priest has known the alleged bride and groom for many years and is confident that they will take church marriage obligations seriously. Most of the priests refuse to marry before registration, since the church is separated from the state and church marriage has no legal force. This means that a woman in a “purely churchly” marriage is not protected by law, her material interests are just as vulnerable as in unregistered cohabitation. Therefore, if your young man offers to find a priest who is married without registration, it is better to run away from such a groom as from fire, because in fact they want to deceive you. Alas, until the marriage in the church becomes equivalent to the marriage concluded in the registry office, you need to be very careful.
In marriage, he and she are connected not only formally, it is not just permission for a sexual life. Not only the bodies, but also the souls of loving people come together. A wedding in the church creates a strong spiritual connection, as a result of which one spouse can atone for the sins of the second spouse with her deeds and faith.
The meaning of the wedding is to unite loving people and help them better understand the measure of their responsibility, to testify to people and God their sincere and selfless love. Love is a gift from heaven and a miracle when it went through the stage of falling in love and became mature. You should not rush into marriage , scientists say that you need to know each other for at least a year before making an important decision. Undoubtedly, intimate relationships are not meant. Fornicators (that is, those who entered into an intimate relationship before marriage) were recommended by the holy fathers to be separated. In our time, after sincere repentance of both, church marriage is possible, but it is always a very difficult way. Sin corrodes the soul and destroys even the strongest love.
The question is often asked: what will happen if we are sexually incompatible, or, and find out only after the wedding? In fact, there are no absolutely incompatible partners; any problems can be solved if people are dear to each other. And “checks” only provoke people to try with new partners, deeper and deeper into sin. And then abortion occurs, sexually transmitted diseases are acquired, and for no reason, melancholy and despair come. The sinning person is more vulnerable to demons, and therefore in his life becomes more and more grief.
A wedding in the church allows you to consecrate your bonds and protect love from a variety of demonic influences. Believers married spouses can not be afraid of sorcerers and "grandmothers" with their love spells, lapels.
Protect your love - go to the priest in the nearest temple to talk about the wedding. Weddings in the church will change your relationship for the better and help you feel like one.