At the first stage of acquaintance, many guys have difficulty taking the initiative during the conversation. How to start a dialogue with a girl so that she expresses interest and continues the dialogue? What are the options? If this is directly related to you, then this article has found its reader.
Online Communication
Today, communication is most often tied up on the Internet - on social networks, dating sites and various forums. Psychologists advise on the Web to develop self-confidence skills, dialogue skills and interest in the opposite sex. However, you should not focus on a particular girl, devoting time to her if you do not know anything about her, except for photos that are publicly available. Do not look for mesmerizing phrases, trying to somehow convince or win a new friend. It is better to set a more realistic goal - to choose the interlocutor who will respond and show mutual interest.
How to start a dialogue in this case? The simplest, most unobtrusive phrases will do. At the same time, one should be attentive to grammar - educated girls are unlikely to become acquainted with those who make several mistakes in one word. So, the beginning of communication can be like this:
- "Good afternoon! How is the weather in St. Petersburg?"
- "Hello! How are you doing with such a charming girl?"
- "Good evening! Do you have a moment to chat?"
What rules should be observed at the beginning of the dialogue? It is necessary to show respect for employment and the availability of free time for the interlocutor, to be polite and not to put the partner in an awkward position with uncomfortable questions. But you can compliment, joke, probe common interests: "Irina, how do you feel about sports? What kind of music do you like to listen to? Do you visit nightclubs?"
How can I start a dialogue with a girl I like
This situation is familiar to many. She likes the girl, you regularly meet her at lunchtime, at a bus stop or directly at work. But you do not dare to speak, even if you do not experience similar problems with other interlocutors. And all because you are afraid of failure. What to do
- Choose a moment. If the girl is uncomfortable talking, you can fail.
- Try not only to create a pleasant impression about yourself, but also to show interest in the interlocutor.
- Smile, it disarms.
- Feel free and do not hesitate. In the dialogue, energy should immediately appear.
- Connect a sense of humor.
- Feel for the interests of the interlocutor, ask questions.
So, we will try to answer the question of how to start a dialogue with a girl. Examples could be:
- "Good afternoon! Every day I see you in this cafe. The feeling that we are already familiar. My name is Michael, and you?"
- "Hello Oleg! Often I see you here, is it somehow related to your work?"
- "Hello, Nikolay! In what area are you helping our company stay afloat in the conditions of fierce competition?"
We draw attention to the third option. In order to draw the interlocutor into the dialogue, it is very important to ask questions that require a thorough, detailed answer.
Situational acquaintance
This is the most common situation. The guy met a stranger in a cafe, on the subway or on the street. And he no longer wants to lose sight of her in a metropolis. Let us recall the comedy of A. Eiramjan "Where is Nofelet?" (1988). The hero of Alexander Pankratov-Cherny uses this phrase to get acquainted with women. Read the word nofelet on the contrary. Did you feel the humor?
There can be many situations when it is easy to use homework. Let's consider different options for how to start a dialogue:
- In the shop. "Why is only one cash desk serving? Can you keep me company to have a fight?"
- On the beach. "Let's go swimming. I promise to be your lifeguard."
- In the subway or at the bus stop. "And what city are we traveling to?"
- In a swimming pool. "Have you mastered the hatchet style?"
- To the cinema. "Which movie do you recommend going to? And which row?"
- Outside. "Well, you walk fast! Three blocks already trying to catch up with you!".
- Sitting down at a table in a cafe. "I look, all the men unscrewed their heads, looking at you. And they’re probably afraid to sit next to them."
- A group of girls. "What is the reason for the meeting?"
- In the club. "Moving well! Teach me how to dance?"
We respond to the mood
A very good reason to engage in dialogue is to respond to the mood of the girl by supporting her if she is bored or sad. This is not always appropriate humor, although it all depends on the circumstances. Let's look at a few examples of how to start a dialogue in such situations:
- The girl sits thoughtfully at a table. "You should not be sad about a guy. Look around how many people want to get to know each other! And including me."
- Girl misses sticking on the phone. "Would you like to take a selfie with the coolest guy in the area?"
- The girl is sad on a bench in the park: "And the place near you is not reserved? Well, the burdock is the one who took off this reservation!"
- A girl cautiously walks along a dark street: "Do you need a bodyguard?"
- The girl has tears in her eyes: “Wrinkles shouldn’t start with such beauty! Can I help you with something?”
- It is evident that the girl recently cried. "You do not need a man who could fight for you in a duel?"
- The girl is somewhat upset after the dialogue over the phone: "My mother said to me from childhood that there is only one harm from these gadgets!"
- When jokes are inappropriate. "I do not know the reasons for your sadness, but I am ready to provide any help, have it!"
How to start a dialogue with a girlfriend
There are thousands of reasons when we cannot find words and don’t know what to say to a friend. Consider some of the most common situations:
- A chance meeting during a quarrel. "Hello! It seems when we come to a standstill, Fate comes to the rescue!"
- Meeting with a girl after a long separation. "Hello! Say missed - say nothing!".
- During the last meeting before the breakup. "Good afternoon! You are unusually beautiful today!"
- A chance meeting with the former. "Hello! You have a new hairstyle, very stylish!"
- An unexpected meeting with a girl who likes. "What fate? The Lord heard my prayers!"
- Beginning of communication with a girl who has long liked: "I’ve traveled the Universe all over ... Better than you, Natasha, there’s still nobody!"
Finally
It is always difficult for any person to be charming and find words when he is overcome by emotions. There is nothing wrong with the fact that you will work out on-duty phrases in advance that will help you out in any situation. Go ahead, look for your options for starting a conversation.