A guy and a girl who have known each other for a long time always know what to talk about. They may recall funny incidents from the past, discuss mutual acquaintances, or simply tell each other the latest news. However, strangers are somewhat more difficult to maintain a conversation. There is always a slight stiffness in the conversation, caused by the fear of proving oneself from the worst side and causing dislike for the interlocutor. The guy who wants to pay attention to the unfamiliar girl he likes is especially hard. And if you often find yourself in such situations, you should know exactly what questions you can ask the girl to make a lasting impression on her.
In fact, the nature of the conversation is slightly different, depending on whether the conversation is live or if you meet online. To begin, consider the most successful questions that you can ask a girl on the Internet. First of all, you should understand that you do not have much time to arrange the girl in yourself. One mistake - and she can forever send you to ignore, but even if you do not write anything incorrect, you can just bore her with your banal phrases.
A standard question, like “where do you study?” or "what kind of music are you listening to?" permissible only at the very first stages of acquaintance in order to establish initial contact. You yourself understand that after all standard topics are sorted out, your communication will fade away by itself. Therefore, you need to try to hook the girl for the first 5-15 messages. Ask her for something original. For example, about her secret dream or about the most wonderful moment of her life. Try to bring her questions to positive emotions, as she will associate you with them in the future. It’s better not to ask questions with a trick for girls on the Web, because here the humor is not felt so subtly as with live communication. No need to joke. Just show a little originality and ask about a date. All the most important thing will happen on it.
Having dealt with the network part, we are preparing questions for the girl on the first date. It’s very good if you still have some hackneyed topics. The first meeting is always exciting, so you need to start it with something neutral. One may ask how the day went; Does she like studying or working? what kind of music does she listen to, etc. After all, the main thing at this stage is to talk and establish contact with the girl.
However, stuck on banal topics for a long time is not worth it. After the initial embarrassment passes, you need to bring the girl to emotions, and the emotions are positive. At this point, the questions that you can ask the girl are changing somewhat. Forget about serious topics and try to translate everything into a joke. Believe me, you will still have enough time to talk heart-to-heart with the girl, you do not need to do this right away on the first date. You can even pin it up slightly, confuse it, etc. A smart girl laughs herself if it is a good-natured humor.
If you manage to safely pass this most difficult stage of dating, when awkward pauses still hang in the air, then you can no longer worry about picking up questions that you can ask the girl. She will speak herself and speak incessantly. All that will be required of you is to listen carefully and insert into the dialogue relevant, clarifying questions, as well as hidden compliments to the girl.
So it’s not so important what exactly to ask the girls - it’s much more important to learn how to behave confidently and evoke the right emotions in them. It is likely that neither you nor she will remember what they were talking about, but just remember in what mood they were returning home. Do not be afraid to speak and be able to listen - and everything will work out!