A friend is a person who will not only rejoice at the success of a comrade, but also support in a difficult situation. But how to find true friends? What needs to be done so that a friend stays with you forever?
Information
The rules of friendship say that friends should know everything about each other, be aware of all the news and situations that happen in everyoneβs life. Only in this way will it be possible to understand when a comrade needs support, and when it is better to be happy for him. Knowing that a loved one has an important business to do, you need to support him; if he has a difficult situation - substitute the shoulder of help, etc. Only knowing what is happening in the life of a comrade can all this be done in time.
Reach zone
The next thing the rules of friendship are talking about: you always need to stay in touch and be within reach. If something happens to a friend, he may urgently need help. And to whom to turn, if not to a friend? So if you want to hide from the whole world, friends and relatives should definitely know where to look for the loss.
Conversations
Friendship rules state that gossip that concerns a friend should be avoided. Just do not listen to them and do not take them seriously. If something happens, a friend will tell you about it, everything else is the speculation of envious people and simply bad people.
Pure emotions
It is also very important to always be completely honest with your friends. Only the truth, only the purest emotions and only sincerity - this is the key to successful friendship. If a lie appears in a friendβs relationship, this is the beginning of the end, and soon such a relationship will simply go wrong. Then friendship will cease to exist.
Protection
Friendship rules state that comrades need to be protected. As verbally - in a dispute or when clarifying relationships, and physically, if a weaker friend is hurt by bad people. Friends need to be able to defend in any situation. However, if a comrade is wrong, it will be unfair to indulge him in this. In such a situation, the refusal of help will not be considered a betrayal, although at first it will seem to a friend that way.
Various help
Friendship rules in the classroom state that your comrades need help in any situation. There will be nothing wrong if you give a classmate to write off homework or help in the control. However, a good friend after this will take his friend on bail and explain that material that he does not understand.
Last shirt
Friendship rules for children also state that you need to share with your friends. And to all. The last sandwich, your favorite toy or a valuable gadget. If a person is ready to give something of his most precious to another, then this is a true friend.
Criticism
It is also worth remembering that you can not openly criticize your friends, mock and joke about them in public. This may not appeal to a friend; moreover, such behavior looks like a desire to seem better than a friend. And in friendship, this is simply unacceptable.
Autonomy
Understanding how to be friends, you need to understand that each person should have a personal space and personal time. Do not be offended by a comrade if he wants to be alone or chat with other people. There is nothing wrong with that, but jealousy is not good. Openness and trust is what friendship needs.