The wedding is perhaps one of the most important events in human life. This is an important step, radically changing lives, connecting two loving hearts into a single whole - the family.
Wedding chores are very exciting for newlyweds, as well as for their loved ones, relatives and guests. Every detail is thought out, every minute of celebration aimed at arranging the happiness of the young. In short, the wedding! Signs and customs on this solemn day become especially relevant. Their goal is to protect the marriage from failure in marital happiness and the preservation of love for the long summers. Of course, not everyone believes in signs for a wedding (what can be done, what should not be done on this significant day), many are skeptical of them, consider them prejudices, but their knowledge has not harmed anyone.
Signs before the wedding
Signs for the wedding for the bride say that the wedding on the new moon - to a happy new life, with the growing moon - to the rapid increase in money capital, on the full moon - life will be like a full bowl. If you marry with a waning moon, then all hardships and sorrows will go away.
If on the day of the wedding in the morning a bride and groom will attack a bride or family, this is fortunately.
The groom stumbled across the threshold of the house of the chosen one - there will be another wedding.
Family life will turn out if the bride on the night before the wedding puts the nightdress inside out and puts a mirror under the pillow.
Signs for the wedding for the bride report: if the newlywed lost her glove or broke a mirror before the wedding, this is a bad omen.
On the eve of the wedding, the bride should not see the groom under any pretext, and even more so the future spouse should not see her in a wedding dress, otherwise the marriage will be unhappy.
Until the moment of the wedding (painting), the bride should not see herself in the mirror in full vestment.
- You can’t give each other photos with your own image on the eve.
Signs about clothes and jewelry
Signs for the bride on their wedding day say that to marry a happy darling must be in shoes with a closed toe and heel. Then happiness does not flow from home. And if you put a copper coin in the right shoe, the life of the young will be successful and rich. To get married in sandals - to barefoot life.
If a bride who has successfully lived in marriage for 7 years helps to put on a wedding dress, the bride will be healthy and successful.
The bride should not allow her friend to stand in front of her in front of the mirror, otherwise the latter will beat off the groom. The same applies to the groom and his friends.
In order to protect themselves from the evil eye, newlyweds need to fix the safety pin head down on the clothes : for the groom - in the area of the boutonniere fastening, for the bride - on the inside of the dress hem. It is also recommended that the happy darling make a certain number of stitches with blue threads on the hem of the dress from the inside: as the wedding signs for the newlyweds say, this will save the newlywed from the evil eye.
Old shoes on the bride - to luck in the new family. Therefore, a day or two before the celebration, it is recommended to wear shoes that will be worn at the wedding.
The pearls put on by the bride for the wedding are to her tears.
Jewelry for a solemn event is not worth putting on - only jewelry - that's what folk signs for a wedding say.
What can, what cannot parents? Whole dresses (not suits) should be worn on the mothers of both young people, so that the family life of their children is without contention.
Wedding Dress
Wedding and wedding signs are one, because the solemn event is so significant that you should pay attention to every detail. This also applies to the bride’s wedding dress:
- The future wife is recommended to sew a lovage leaf in the wedding dress so that love is stronger.
- No one should be allowed to measure a wedding dress, even after the wedding.
- It is believed: the longer the dress, the longer the family life.
- A young dress should be integral, and not separate (for example, a corset and a skirt) so that there is no separate life.
- Dress and underwear should be white.
- A wedding dress should be worn only through the head - through the legs can not.
- It is recommended that you keep your wedding dress your whole life and do not sell it in any way to avoid the breakup of the marriage.
The bride's bouquet
Wedding omens (which is possible, which can not be done young) with clear confidence say that in no case should the groom give someone else a bouquet of his beloved until he presents it to himself.
The bride must protect her bouquet throughout the festive evening; if released, happiness will disappear. At a wedding feast, you can put it on your table, and if there is a great need, then give it to the groom or your mother.
A wedding bouquet fell on the floor - to be another wedding in this house.
That of the bridesmaids who will catch the wedding bouquet, will marry the next.
Wedding ring
Oh, these signs for the wedding! What can and cannot be done for newlyweds with wedding rings? This question is very exciting for young people.
Acquiring wedding rings is the groom's responsibility.
Rings must be smooth, without stones and notches, so that life is smooth, without pitfalls.
The bride’s ring should be wider than the groom’s ring.
Nobody should be given wedding rings for fitting: neither before nor after the wedding.
On the wedding day, no rings other than an engagement ring may be worn.
A marriage with parent rings is a repetition of their family relationships.
To lose the engagement ring is to parting, breaking up the family.
Dropping a wedding ring before it is put on your finger is a bad omen.
Before leaving the registry office
When young people leave their parents' houses for the wedding palace, they should be sprinkled with money and rye - for a happy and rich family life. Repeat the same thing when they exit the registry office.
Driving away from home, cars should beep aloud, thus scaring away all evil spirits.
On the way to the place of painting, young people should not look back, so as not to become attached to a past life.
When the bride goes to church, her mother gives her a family heirloom (brooch, cross, bracelet, ring) so that she can protect her in family life.
To get the sisters married, the bride, when leaving the parental home, is recommended to quietly pull the tablecloth off the parental table.
On the way to the registry office and in the registry office
The road towards an important event is an important component of the solemn process. Therefore, it is also worth considering the signs for the wedding. What can, what can not be done on the way to the registry office for young people, their parents and guests?
- You can not cross the road to the bride and groom, so as not to deprive them of good luck in life. If such a danger does occur, then a witness and a witness should go a little ahead.
- In the registry office you need to go by different cars, so that there is still time to think about such important changes in life.
- The more confusing the route the bride and groom ride, the happier their family life will be. In the old days, wedding trains chose the most intricate routes to the church in order to mislead evil spirits.
- If a cat has crossed the road, you need to go a different route.
- No one should pass between the bride and groom so that family life is happy and calm.
- After exiting the registry office, young people leave holding hands. Whoever has a hand on top will be the main one in the house.
- If you touch the rings of the bride and groom, then you will soon be walking at your wedding. If after the REGISTRY OFFICE someone crosses the road to the bride and groom, then family life will not work out. This is how the time-honored wedding omens broadcast.
What can and cannot be on a wedding day?
Before entering the house, young people need to break a plate for happiness.
The bride in the house is brought in by the already lawful spouse to carry her in her arms all her life.
Throughout the evening, parents should ensure that no one puts their clothes on the young.
The couple should dance at a wedding only together. If a dance with parents is planned, then after it, parents must reconnect their children.
If the bride’s heel is broken, it’s a “limp” family life.
If a dress is torn at a wedding, then there will be an evil mother-in-law.
Wedding
A box from wedding rings during the wedding process is taken by one of the friends who wants to get married as soon as possible.
A wedding in a hat is for divorce, in a short veil - for sick children, without a veil - for deceit and suffering.
The wedding candle must be protected and lit to help with the first birth.
After the wedding, the young must simultaneously look together in one mirror - this is an omen for a long and happy life.
If it started to rain during the wedding, the young family will be well off.
If the bride drops a handkerchief, standing under the crown, be her a widow.
Whose candle during the wedding will burn first, he will die earlier.
If the candle suddenly goes out, young people will have a difficult family life or early death.
Witnesses
- If the witnesses are divorced, then the marriage of the young will be in danger of decay.
- If the witnesses are married, this is unfortunately.
- If the witnesses are a married couple, then their marriage will fall apart.
Feast
- Before entering the hall, the newlyweds treat each other with salted bread. This should be the last time they salted each other.
- After the registry office, the most revered relative spends the young around the festive table three times, this symbolizes the inextricable relationship of the couple.
- Be sure to break the first glass of champagne - for good luck! If dishes are beating at the wedding, this is fortunately.
- At the wedding table, young people need to sit not on chairs, but on one bench, so that family life is friendly.
- There is such an interesting sign: if the bride accidentally drank from a glass of a narrowed one, it means that she will take away his entire salary.
- So that young people always have money, the newlyweds put a handkerchief with dry cockroaches under the bench.
- If one of the guests dropped a piece of food on the floor, the young ones will always have a lot of treats.
- If a girlfriend of a bride accidentally stepped on the hem of a wedding dress, then she would soon be married.
- If a young woman knocked over a full glass, her husband would drink.
- If there are a lot of children at the wedding, this is a fun and noisy family life.
- A special decoration of the table is a wedding cake. The bride needs to cut it, and the groom supports the knife. The first piece of cake is served by the young - for good luck.
Bitterly!
As you know, no wedding in Russia is complete without “Bitter!”. This custom is quite old and arose as follows: the young one used to go around all the guests with a tray on which they put money. There was a cup on the tray, the guest drank it and said: “Bitter!” - as a sign that vodka was drunk, not water. Next, the guest kissed the bride, sweetening the bitterness thus obtained from alcohol. Gradually, this method was replaced by the requirement of a kiss from the couple.
Gifts
An important aspect of the celebration are wedding gifts. Signs regarding this part of the important day read:
- You can not give sharp objects: knives, forks, which carry aggressive energies in themselves, which can fill a new family. If such a present was nevertheless presented, the donor should be given a handful of coins so that there are no troubles in life.
- You can’t give hours, because they will count the minutes and seconds of life together, and it will last as long as the gift will work.
- It is recommended that spouses choose bedding on their own, because intimate life is a private matter, not a public one.
- You can not present towels and handkerchiefs so as not to condemn the newlyweds to tears and sadness.
- Icons can be given only by the closest people: parents, grandmothers, godparents, because it is with such a valuable gift that the kind energy is partially transferred into the hands of the young. If any of the guests decided to make such a present, then the icon must first be consecrated in the church.
- Also, you can not give antiques that preserve the energy of the previous owners. After all, they will influence the young family in their own way, and such influence may not always be good.
- Do not give a mirror. This is a magical object, and reflected in it is an astral projection of everything that a person sees in reality. As a wedding present, the mirror will become a door to a parallel world (illusionary), which will provoke the young people to lead a double lifestyle.
- You can not present pearl jewelry to the bride, otherwise the latter will often cry and grieve in family life.
- Also, guests should not give rings and cufflinks with amber, the energy of which can cause career failures. It is immediately recommended to redo such gifts.
- For a smooth life journey, a white tablecloth should be presented as a gift to the bride.
- Do not give red roses. It is better for them to prefer a bouquet of wildflowers from daisies, cornflowers, medunits and others, symbolizing love and tenderness. Lilies of the valley will be original as a wedding bouquet - a symbol of romance, happiness and fidelity. You can choose violet - a flower symbolizing the purity of the soul and thoughts.
Guest Features
Guests who have come to congratulate the newlyweds should also know some signs for the wedding. What is possible for guests on this important day for young people?
- You can’t come to the wedding in black clothes.
- The number of guests at the wedding should be odd.
- Guests must be accommodated in accordance with their age. Young people sit with the bride and groom, then in seniority. The oldest people sit down from the young at the opposite end of the table.
- Those invited from the side of the bride sit in relation to her on the left side, the groom - on the right. After all, the left part of the space symbolizes the feminine, the right - the masculine.
- Places for parents - at the end of the festive table.
When to go for a wedding?
- The best days for weddings and murals are Saturday and Sunday. By the way, Americans prefer Monday for such events. In the measurement of time frames, the second half of the day is most successful.
- Marry in May - a century toil.
- Previously, weddings were never held on fasting days: Great, Christmas, Assumption and Petrov. Christmas time (from Christmas - January 7 - to the Epiphany - January 20) was also not recommended for marriage.
- Odd numbers are considered to be the best for marriage - 3rd, 5th, 7th, 9th and those that add up to the above.
- You can’t schedule a wedding on the 13th.
Weather
- Snow or rain at the wedding - fortunately.
- Strong wind - to windy life.
- If the weather was sunny on the day of the wedding, and then it rained sharply, the family will live in abundance.
- If during the wedding a storm breaks out, be unhappiness.
- If on a solemn day for newlyweds, severe frost will strike, then the first born boy will be a strong and healthy one.