How to meet a man? A question that has not lost its relevance over the centuries. Let's try to figure out how to do this today, in conditions of total employment and weakening social ties.
First you need to decide for yourself whether you really want to meet a man, what you are ready to do for this.
I have a friend who, for many years, while spending lonely evenings in the kitchen, complains that she cannot find a “boyfriend”, because “all men are goats.” At the same time, she overlooks that for dating you need, at a minimum, to put yourself in order and leave the house. In addition, deciding to find a potential groom or at least a friend you need to clearly realize: a man is also a man. Dear ladies, remember: all men are different and, although “goats” are also found, rowing them under one comb is not worth it.
If you feel that you are ready to change your behavior, proceed to the second stage.
It is necessary to correctly determine the place where you can meet a good, noble, decent man. That is, before looking for an answer to the question of how to get to know a man, you have to decide where to do it.
Remember, not all men are suitable for the role of husband. You should not make acquaintances with guys who are opposed to all women in general (such also occur). Bachelors for forty, “married women”, gentlemen who do not have a constant source of income, Don Juans are immediately excluded. We need a lonely, decent, stable friend.
Where to find such a partner? How to meet a man who meets these criteria? Start to smile. Notice how many women walk the streets, either frowning or completely withdrawing. Start looking around, smile at the men you like, even if it's just a fellow traveler on the bus. By the way, another friend of mine with her husband met just like that: asked to help her get a heavy bag out of the bus. They have been together for many years.
Start visiting those places where you can meet lonely, but decent gentlemen. It can be friendly parties or weddings of friends (an ideal place to meet), field trips. At such events, it is guaranteed that all those present will be decent (others are usually not invited to the company), and a friendly atmosphere will facilitate acquaintance.
Ask your friends to introduce you to single men. Just keep in mind: do not expect that a new friend will immediately marry you. Everything has its own time, and friendships that turn into courtship, and only then at the wedding are usually the most strong. Even if you just stay in a friendly relationship, life will become brighter, the number of hours spent alone will be reduced.
How to meet a man in public? There is an opinion that this is good to do in cafes, clubs, gyms. But older people move that require joint action.
There is another way of dating, very modern from my point of view. If you, dear ladies, read this article, it means that you know firsthand what they rarely do in clubs and cafes, most often with their “halves”. And in the gyms, athletes of both sexes, firstly, work out every day at different times, and, secondly, their training requires not communication, but, on the contrary, focus on their actions. Therefore, deciding on an acquaintance in the hall, focus on those sports Internet. Some are scared of dating a man on the Internet. But, believe me, the chances of meeting a rogue in the "real" are no less. I myself met my husband online. Moreover, it was not even a dating site. In my blog, I posted pretty controversial information for me. The future husband was among those who commented on my opinion. Communication began. Gradually, we went through the whole chain: correspondence on the network - ICQ - skype - telephone communication - a real meeting. During the communication, we learned about each other's interests, character traits. At the time of our acquaintance in the network, we lived in opposite ends of Russia, and now we have been living together for four years now.
Visit the forums, read and comment on blogs, surf the social networks. If you choose the right forum and method of communication, you will have more friends. And then ... Who knows. Just do not confuse virtual flirting with a real desire to make friends.
There is a proven way to meet online: dating sites. Here, too, have their own characteristics. Unfortunately, I know several sites on which profiles are ordered to rewriters. Therefore, before leaving information about yourself on the site, check its integrity and reliability. Read messages on forums, try to contact those who used the services of this service. Messages bot from real communication is easy to distinguish.
How to meet a man? Act. Do not stay at home, do not complain about being alone, be active and cheerful.
Act and let luck smile at you.