Currently, most people, especially young people, quite adequately perceive oral-genital caresses in intimate proximity. In order to fully enjoy your sex life, it is recommended to learn how the fellatio technique works. Few people know that fellatio (the word "blowjob" is popularly used) is an oral care technique that many women practice. Those who are not familiar with her are women inexperienced in sex, who most often do not achieve orgasm, while some do not even have any desire to diversify their sex lives.
Philosophy of fellatio
One of the main aspects of harmonious relations at present is the recognition of a man in the person of his chosen one. In this case, fellatio is one of the ways to prioritize a couple, in a philosophical sense is a metaphorical dedication of a man in the "leader." In ancient China, sex was part of a healthy lifestyle, in which blowjob held a special place. The tongue and genitals here were two polarities, along which the movement of energy was carried out, which a person exchanged with his sexual partner. Therefore, special attention was paid to oral-genital contact, which was considered spiritual practice, which helps to improve sexual couples.
Psychology
Fellatio is a kind of oral-genital caress that was considered a deviation several decades ago, but modern society is open to such forms of intimate contact between different sexes, so the word “blowjob” no longer causes shame or shock, and fellatio itself not considered a perversion. But it is necessary to understand the nature and psychology of this phenomenon, then the answer to the question of why men today so desire and appreciate this form of sexual contact will become clear. In fact, this type of communication is very complex and has many mysteries, it must be used with an understanding of the hidden meaning and philosophical interpretation, otherwise it will lead to negative psychological problems. Of course, this is only an assumption, let the art of fellatio remain to date not fully understood.
Sexology
Sexologists say that a man needs a blowjob because he gives him great pleasure, more than a traditional sexual intercourse. Only some members of the stronger sex do not like this because of internal bans or childhood injuries, so they consider this process to be something dirty. Others may not like a blowjob because they are simply embarrassed by their cock and do not trust it with their partner. Also, blowjob is important for men, because they believe that if a woman takes his cock into her mouth, it means that he is loved and accepted by everyone. Therefore, for most men, fellatio is a very important oral-genital caress.
The main thing here should be the right of partners to choose their actions. If for some reason the blowjob is unpleasant, you do not need to do it against your will, otherwise it will lead to negative consequences. According to sexologists, this can provoke the occurrence of problems in relationships and impaired sexual function. Fellatio is permissible when a woman is well with her partner, if she has a desire to kiss and touch him, lick and so on. That is why it is so important to understand and understand the art of oral-genital caresses, to study all aspects of this process, to understand its philosophy and psychology.
When to use fellatio?
Usually blowjob is used if there is a long and lasting relationship between sexual partners, it is a little less likely to be practiced in casual relationships, looking for thrills. Almost always in pairs, with normal intimate relationships, correct fellatio is used with the sexual compatibility of partners. It depends on the fact that psychological comfort and intimacy between a man and a woman affect the greater pleasure. Many couples note that thanks to a long trusting relationship, where there is respect and love, blowjob takes on special significance and unusual character.
Technique for beginners
To know how to do fellatio, you must first learn the simplest technique. So, a woman is invited to kneel in front of a man who lies on his back. Then you need to take his penis in your hand and draw it over your head with your tongue. In order not to have any traumatic moments, a woman is recommended to close her teeth with her lips. It also helps to slightly stimulate arousal in the partner. Then the head of the penis needs to be taken into the mouth and slowly moving to its base, and then back. In this case, the stimulation rate should depend on the response of the man. Such simple fellatio is the first step towards mastering the art of sexual contact. Before trying other techniques, it is recommended to master this perfectly.
Technique “Butterfly Wings”
Before you begin to master this technique, you need to remember the anatomy. In a man, a few centimeters from the head below is the erogenous zone, which is a skin fold located in an upright position. This is the most sensitive point. To bring the partner to ecstasy, you need to find this point and draw on it several times with your tongue. Then the tongue is carried out to the base of the penis, then again to the point. This can be continued until the most treasured moment arrives. In any case, training is necessary in everything, therefore, to achieve a high-quality result, it is recommended to study the issue in depth, taking into account all the nuances.
But it is always necessary to remember that when doing a blowjob to an unverified partner, you must use a condom, because with this kind of caresses, herpes, chlamydia, gonorrhea or hepatitis B and so on can be transmitted.