Acquaintance is a very crucial stage in the development of relations, and their further development largely depends on how a person presents himself during this period. There is an outdated opinion that the young man should be the leader here, but times are changing, and the girl’s passivity during the period of the onset of relations can only ruin everything. A girl should be interested in a guy no less that he, although perhaps not so openly, should maintain a lively conversation and show that her interlocutor is not only completely indifferent, she must. Otherwise, you can pass for indifferent to others, notorious or simply a person of a near mind.
So, the acquaintance took place, and then what? Here we have many opportunities: in our century, when spacecraft plow the expanses of the universe, there are many ways to continue communication. It happens that the principles prevent someone from immediately giving their phone number, but you can leave the ICQ number or the address of your Internet page completely painless. Thus, personal meetings are not necessary to continue communication, and this already greatly simplifies the matter - because often, especially in cases of increased interest in an object, we tend to say nonsense and be shy, and in writing we can reread our remark and forward it - you must agree, very conveniently.
And so, we decided to get in touch. Even cheerfully greeted. And then they were taken aback: after all, we know so little, we don’t know anything about each other, what can we ask the guy in such circumstances? In fact, the situation is absolutely not complicated, and this problem is not a problem: here you will talk for several years, or even get married - then it will be much more difficult to figure out what to ask a guy , and now the scope is open. Yes, before you are all conceivable and unthinkable topics: you have so little time to discuss.
You can act on a hunch, just surrendering to the stream of consciousness, but you can act prudently and subtly and produce exactly the planned impression. For example, you decided that your image should be light and whacky - then you can come up with cute and unexpected questions, and you can even without a greeting. The main thing is not to confuse the funny with the idiotic, and everything will work out.
If you want to seem very smart - try to ask his opinion about an interesting scientific fact or phenomenon, for example, whether a black hole is formed as a result of the launch of the hadron collider or not - the main thing is that the topic is popular and public, otherwise you can achieve an undesirable effect, namely, to make human feel stupid.
To create a mysterious image, you need to think carefully what to ask the guy: the question should be smart, but understandable, but most importantly - interesting and intriguing. It is worth paying special attention to the style of speech: it should be competent and harmonious.
If you still can not decide what to ask the guy - try to ask him to help you figure it out. If you communicate on the Internet, then there should not be a problem. Young people who have a computer always know everything or almost everything about it, or at least pretend, so the question of what to ask a guy on VKontakte or in ICQ can be considered resolved: we ask about technology or programs. For example, we are interested in which ICQ-client is better to deliver, or something like that. Seeking help is one of the best ways to make a man feel strong, smart, and generally well done.
And most importantly, what to ask a guy to enjoy - of course, about himself! People like to talk about themselves for hours. Ask about childhood, taste and musical preferences, about study, work - but just do not ask too personal questions. You might think that you would like to tell about yourself and remake it into a question: at the same time determine whether your values are close to him.