The first date is always an exciting event. And if you are still out of a timid dozen, then you may well fall into an inhuman panic. So, you miraculously managed to invite the girl on a date. We will not consider this process in detail, since this requires a separate discussion. But if the job is done and your chosen one agreed to come to the restaurant, park, theater or any other place that your imagination has reached at the appointed time, this is already good. Now the main thing is to hold the first date so that both of you have a desire to appoint a second.
Although, of course, the question of where to go on a first date cannot be ignored. After all, it depends on whether you can make the right impression. The choice of options is huge: a restaurant, ice rink, cinema, a walk in the park, a picnic in nature, a sports match, breakfast in a cafe, an amusement park, a zoo, bowling, a disco and so on. It is impossible to say unequivocally that one girl will like it and another one will not like it. Therefore, it is worth talking to her friends in advance, maybe they will advise something worthwhile. But you can’t lose your head, because friends sometimes turn out to be envious people in combination.
So, how to behave so that the first date causes the girl delight and desire to meet with you more than once? Do not forget that the first impression decides the outcome of the whole event. Therefore, you need not only to take care of your appearance, but also to behave accordingly. Choose clothes that would suit a particular meeting place. You should not go for a walk to the park in a classic suit, but to the theater in jeans and a sweater. Shoes should shine. Indeed, according to numerous surveys, it becomes clear that almost all women hate unclean shoes.
You need to behave as if in front of you is an amazing woman, queen, goddess. Ladies love to be admired. But there is no need to overdo it. If you keep pouring honey compliments all the time, then the girl will get tired of it quickly. In no case do not look at other women, even if they are slimmer and prettier, and even in revealing outfits. This is absolutely not like your darling.
It is important to pick up interesting topics for conversation. In this case, do not forget to track the response of the companion. If she is bored, starts to look around or, God forbid, yawn, then it is worth changing the subject, telling something funny. You need to have a conversation in high spirits. In no case do you need to talk about your problems at work or with your health. This, firstly, does not interest anyone, and secondly, women hate whiners.
Try to find out as much as possible about the girl. After all, women, as well as men, love when they show interest in their person. You can’t keep your mouth shut all evening and talk about your achievements, position in society, remember funny cases, admire the local cuisine and so on. Let the girl talk about herself, ask her about life, do not be afraid to talk about books, music, her hobbies, work. But do not be too zealous with questions about parents, and even more so do not touch on the topic of sex or former relationships.
On a first date it’s better to come with flowers. And let it not be roses, firstly, it is commonplace, secondly, very intimate, and thirdly, you just don’t know the tastes of the chosen one. Better choose something neutral, for example, a nice bunch of wildflowers. It is not accepted to give any gifts on the first date, because the girl’s interest cannot be bought. But to pay the bill in a restaurant, to buy tickets for movies or for rides - this should be an unconditional, mandatory procedure for you. After all, the mean men do not like girls even more than boring, not fashionable or too annoying.
About how to arrange a first date with a girl, tips are given by everyone around, but it is better to listen to your own heart.