In moments of sincere sadness and joy, when feelings hit over the edge, a woman is ready to pour out her soul only to her best friend. Sometimes to our sisters, parents and beloved, we can not say everything that gnaws at the heart. After all, only a true girlfriend is an ally, assistant, adviser and psychologist in one person. A friend is our “alter ego”, a continuation of thoughts, feelings, ideas about the world. This is an extension of our soul.
And yet she is!
Women's friendship is the cause of numerous disputes. However, all attempts to debunk the existence of female friendships ended in failure. From time immemorial, every woman had a girlfriend, interlocutor and counselor, who unselfishly helped, gave positive emotions and shared experiences. Psychologists have found that a woman can not do without communicating with her friend. This is because men and women have different ways of perceiving and transmitting information. Thus, informativeness is important for men, and women need emotions and sensuality. Only between women is an unusually strong emotional union created that is beneficial for both.
We speak with half-hints, gestures, smiles and shining eyes, we hug and kiss at a meeting. In this lies the success of each of us, and it is on this that our mental health depends. We understand each other perfectly ... We are women friends! Men are not given a subtle sense of spiritual, invisible energy. That is why female friendship has existed for many years. To say that it is not there is illogical and incorrect.
True friendship or illusion?
Every woman has many friends, but the real one is only one! We have been friends with her for many years, sometimes communication is interrupted, but when we meet we behave as if we parted only yesterday.
Is she a true friend, or is it an illusion of sincere friendship? The question is easy to answer, with a little reflection on your relationship.
So the best friend is that ...
- With which it is easy to communicate, there are always topics for conversation, you do not have to think about questions and answers. Communication takes place by itself, at ease, simply.
- Which is a soul mate.
- Who at any moment is ready to listen, sympathize, help with advice and action.
- With which it is interesting to spend time.
- Which will never betray or offend.
You can endlessly call the qualities of a true friend, but true friendship is easy to distinguish. After all, if people do not understand each other, and communication is only a burden, not a joy, you can no longer doubt that this is not about true friendship.
Relationship Features
The female union is like a Temple, beautiful, multifaceted, full of faith, but invariably fragile. Each friendship is special, there is no identical relationship, any pair has its own charters, laws, unspoken rules. Some girlfriends meet almost every day, and some go shopping once a week or at an event. From this communication should not become worse, other aspects can damage friendship. For example, it is important to maintain a good tone, in no case do not raise your voice and do not scream.
Of course you need to learn to listen and hear, without interrupting the interlocutor. A friend is that woman who does not impose her problems and does not put them above all else. You can’t be selfish in female friendship, you need to be able to not only accept, but also give. And the main thing that is unacceptable is betrayal, including an attempt to please the man of his girlfriend. It is because of treason that even the most faithful friends part.
They came together like ice and fire ...
There are situations when friendships arise between two very different women. Well, this is entirely possible and permissible. For example, hobby friends go dancing or cooking classes together. One is an exquisite lady with marvelous manners, and the other is a simple girl "from the village of Kukuevo." Is real friendship between them possible? On the one hand - no doubt. Perhaps they just found each other, two halves of one soul. On the other hand, such an alliance will not last long, because the views on life vary greatly. However, you can become really good friends by following simple tips.
- No need to try to remake and fine-tune a girlfriend for yourself. Take her as she is.
- Do not violently criticize or mock, in every person there are many positive qualities.
- You always need to be around in difficult times, be ready to listen, understand and give advice.
To summarize
- Contrary to many opinions, female friendship exists, this union is much stronger than male relations.
- A friend is when the communication is interesting, easy, laid-back, it is like your second "I".
- It is important to learn how to build relationships and protect them.
- Do not forget to make each other pleasant surprises and meet as often as possible. This has a beneficial effect on the psycho-emotional state and health.
- Treason is unacceptable, a rare girlfriend can forgive him.
- Any women can become friends, regardless of status, external data.
If you have one, but the best friend - this is happiness! Take care of her!