In our progressive age, when almost everything is known about sex from the cradle, virginity for many seems to be something old-fashioned and unnecessary. And among adolescents, a virgin will be considered rather unpopular, especially against the background of more uninhibited friends in communication with the opposite sex. But if you ask the girls about their “first time”, then almost everyone will say that it was painful, unpleasant, not as cool as expected. What to do in this case? How to lose virginity and not experience discomfort?
To begin with, in this article we’ll not talk about the right poses for sex, not about how to attract a guy and tell him that you are ready to give him your chastity. It will be about how to understand whether you yourself are ready for this crucial step, and how to properly lose your virginity, so that later it will not be excruciatingly painfully physically and mentally.
So, you decided to become an adult and begin to live sexually. Think carefully about whether you are ready. Each person has his own psychological age. To feel happy, he needs to behave in accordance with this age. Therefore, before you lose virginity, think about whether you are ready for this internally. Would you make a mistake if you followed the more developed girlfriends? Would you just do it just to be like everyone else? If at least one of these reasons flashes in your head, it is better to postpone this step: you are unlikely to get the joy of the first sex, and you will ruin the impression forever.
Before losing virginity, you need to choose the right partner. Remember that the pleasure of sex depends on your emotional attitude to the person. That is, with your beloved guy, this process will be much more pleasant than on the principle of "just to try." Undoubtedly, if you give up your chastity, then a person in whom you personally will be 100% sure that he is healthy, has warm feelings for you, will not flaunt other people by the fact that he entered into an
intimate relationship with you
.Well, the very process of losing virginity also deserves some preparation. It’s best if this event takes place in a calm romantic atmosphere, in your or his apartment, in a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere, because the right attitude is already half the battle. In addition, be sure to let your partner know that you are virgin, and ask that he be careful and attentive to you, because the pain from breaking the hymen most often occurs precisely because of sudden movements. It will help you to relax and tune in to the appropriate mood, a warm bath jointly adopted before this. Of course, remember about protection. Before you lose virginity, be sure to touch on this topic with your young man. Even the first time you can become pregnant or contract any sexually transmitted disease. It is unlikely that you are striving for exactly this.
Do you know how you can lose your virginity yet? With the most common cycling or horse riding. In general, this is a simple matter from a medical point of view, but very important in terms of psychology. Therefore, do not rush into entry into adulthood, but if you really want to, do it with your loved one in order to preserve only pleasant memories about this event.