There are feelings that cannot be confused with any other, for example: anger, jealousy, hatred, greed, etc. What is love, and where is the line that distinguishes it from falling in love or ordinary passion? How not to make a mistake in choosing a partner so that after an unsuccessful experience you won’t be disappointed in life, stopping for a long time even thoughts of a new acquaintance with a representative of the opposite sex? Good to know the beloved will help platonic relationships, unfortunately, in most cases, have lost their former relevance. But, as they say, everything is good in moderation ...
Teenagers who are not spoiled by the current time of permissiveness, experiencing the very first feeling of falling in love, for the most part do not pretend to the rapid development of the novel, since many of them simply do not know how to behave in a particular situation. Usually at this age there are platonic relationships, and this, apparently, is true. As a rule, nothing good comes from an early sexual relationship. Everything has its time. And if the first love came , then everything should go on as usual. And these are quick glances, and timid touches from which the heart literally jumps out of the chest, and feelings of suffering. Who knows what is better - when the first feeling is mutual and you can do so many stupid things or inseparable, allowing you to know pure platonic relationships. Sometimes it happens that the object of sighing and is unaware of the erupted feelings in relation to yourself. It is painful and sweet, painful, and pleasant to experience them, but unrequited love can protect you from early unwanted pregnancy and other rash acts, when adolescents, experiencing their first strong feeling, are not able to control themselves and, like a whirlpool, they plunge into comprehended their passion.
However, it also happens when a friend or girlfriend falls in love with your chosen one in adulthood. In the case when the friendship is real, the lover does not even give a look, secretly experiencing a flood of unexpectedly unexpected feeling. Platonic relationships are quite painful:
“... your wife has eyes,
And not lips - mouth.
I love you very much,
But before her she’s pure ... "
In this case, a person makes every effort to eradicate the love that has settled in him from his heart, so as not to cause harm to his friend / girlfriend or his / her soul mate, he / she tries to meet you as rarely as possible, or even go to another city.
Better you don’t have to experience such feelings, because a serious relationship is a mutual understanding, respect, and a healthy sexual relationship. Families should be created out of love and imply procreation. A happy family life is a harmonious spiritual and physical connection of partners, built on mutual love, care for each other and the younger generation.
Do not forget that our children most often build their lives according to the created stereotype of parental relationships. That is why you should not swear in their presence. It is clear that love relationships are not always smooth, that everyone goes through a thorny path at the beginning of a life together. The period of the so-called "grinding" of characters just needs to go through. When two loving people start cursing (and without this it is simply impossible to live a life), first of all, it is necessary to develop a kind of quarrel etiquette in the family, going over the edge of which should be completely unacceptable. Respecting your own dignity, not humiliating each other, you can always find a compromise and, over the years that have passed, all the conflicts will gradually come to naught. In such families, spouses who have lived for a long period of time understand each other not so much as a half-word, half-looking, and they are truly happy.