Every woman wants love and happiness. And many of them are afraid to meet a womanizer, a man who does not know what sincere relationships and feelings are. In order not to fall into the trap of such a person, you need to learn how to recognize a womanizer man. This type of men has some differences in the manner of behavior, communication.
How to recognize a womanizer by behavior?
He is attentive, sweet, caring and helpful. To trust a womanizer is easy. After all, he feels and knows the female soul and psychology, and uses this. In order to understand how to find out that a womanizer woman, you should study the following rules:
- When he first met, he might try to make out all the charms of the girl, not paying attention to what she was telling him. An exception may be an open neckline or a short skirt, then a man will look there.
- While talking with a girl, he looks at others. And you need to run away from such a man, because if at first he is like that, then what will happen next?
- Suspended language and a bunch of compliments. This man knows how to fall in love with a woman. He even has a couple of blank phrases. From the first meeting, he falls asleep with compliments and may even acquire a girl or somehow touch her.
- Long relationship. If he said that for many years he did not have a serious relationship, and he does not want this, then you need to beware, because nothing good will come out with this person.
- An attempt to show your "I". A man talks about his prosperity, about connections, about what kind of car he has. Sometimes there are those who buy fake gold watches or phones in order to attract attention and show the girl that he has money.
- Will not immediately marry. He learns everything about a woman, then becomes ideal for her.
When does he write?
Another way to recognize a womanizer (married or single) is the time he devotes to a woman. If a man didn’t call and write in a day, and only showed up in the evening, then he needs only one thing - to drag the girl to bed.
If a man is interested in a girl as a person, he doesn’t care when to meet, day or night, he can come to a meeting in the morning. And such a man is ready to go to a museum, a cinema or a theater, and a womanizer needs only entertainment. A libertine makes girls fall in love with itself, and then after a night spent together it does not ring and does not answer calls. He needs only one thing from the girl, so if this has already happened, it is better to forget everything, like a nightmare.
Recognizable by internet
Using social networks, you can find out which man: if he has a lot of photos from parties with girls, then this is definitely not an option for a serious relationship. How to recognize a womanizer by correspondence? A real man has no such photos. Many guys do not want a serious relationship, they are either afraid of obligations, or do not want to be attached to another person. If in a company a man pays more attention to other women, rather than his companion, then you need to think about it. Indeed, for a real man, only his beloved is important, and not others.
Quick contact
Another way to find out a womanizer is to quickly get in touch. Such men are charming and sociable, from the first minutes of acquaintance they have girls, saleswomen, and even policemen. They can easily get in touch with anyone. They have one approach to all the young ladies: this is a bunch of compliments, then the girls do not pay attention to anything, because they are seduced that someone appreciated their merits.
Also by correspondence in social networks you can find out that the man is a womanizer: he sends a lot of emoticons, which an ordinary man will not do. Womanizer is not interested in the life and inner world of the girl, because for them all women are the same. If a man devotes very little time to work, then he does not seek to earn money, he lives for his pleasure. After the first or second night spent together, he disappears, then he can appear by writing an SMS like “Hello. Can meet?".
If a man disappears
If he disappears more than once, you need to forget this person. He will not spend money on a girl unless he buys a bottle of wine, which he himself will drink. He will not drive to the cinema, restaurant, or cafe. Why would he spend money on a girl if he has several. He never answers directly to questions about his personal life, evades the answer. It’s impossible not to fall in love with such a man, from the first minutes of his acquaintance he attracts and then the female logic doesn’t work to understand that this man is a womanizer.
It's a shame, but a fact: when a girl goes somewhere with such a man, he can openly flirt with other beauties and he will not be indifferent to the feelings of the one next to him. But if a woman arranges a scene of jealousy, then he will quickly calm her with compliments and beautiful phrases. Womanizer women love appeals, such as pussycat, sun, or sweetheart. And all just so as not to confuse the names. When meeting, he behaves confidently.
Types of womanizer
There are 6 types of womanizer:
- A pikaper is a man who does not possess any of the qualities of womanizer, but so eager for this. He asks a lot from the girl who he is trying to “cheer on”, but does not say a word about himself, evades questions. He also tries to get to know each other using stupid excuses, for example, asks for a light or if he wants to go somewhere. Such a man is easy to recognize.
- “Forever young” is a person who is already at retirement age, but “romps” himself out of himself so that a woman draws attention to him. A sluggish rose, a bottle of wine and his tales of youth, how cool and romantic he was. A woman draws attention to him and spends one night with him, but only her, because he does not know what to do next and how to behave, because he, in principle, is not capable of relationships. Grandpa is safe, but intrusive.
- Macho is a man who loves himself madly and enjoys himself, his actions. Women are nothing to him, an empty place. He throws them when, in his opinion, they did something wrong. Macho women despise. He often changes them because he is always looking for the perfect. This is a disgusting type of womanizer who needs to run away.
- Infantil is a romantic who will arrange such a date that a woman will never forget. In his understanding, there is only a platonic relationship, he gives gifts all the time, arranges romantic dinners. Even if he has sex with a woman, then he will be scared and leave her. Therefore, it is impossible to build a serious relationship with such a person.
- "Lieutenant Rzhevsky" is the type of man who loves life. He has a good sense of humor, he is cheerful, he has a lot of friends. With such a man, a woman will receive a sea of ​​emotions and impressions. From the very beginning, he makes it clear to the girl that their relationship is not for long, therefore it is easy to part with such a man if the girl wants this. After parting, she can be a good friend for him. But if you demand something serious, then the “lieutenant” is changing for the worse.
- "Casanova" is an ideal man who always tells the truth, and this is dangerous. He cannot date one girl for a long time. He loves all his passions and tries to be perfect for everyone.
How can you teach a womanizer a lesson?
After you learn how to recognize a womanizer, you should know the methods of punishing him. The first way is to do what he does. Fall in love with him, use for sex and quit. This will greatly affect his pride.
The second way is to try to prove to him that he is behaving incorrectly, to prove that love is wonderful. You also need to show the womanizer what a real relationship can be.
Psychologist's advice
They become womanizer for two reasons:
- The first is excessive self-esteem, nature against which you will not go. If one girl refused him, then there will certainly be another who will not refuse.
- The second reason is a man for whom seduction is like sport. For such a guy, it’s important to get the attention of the one you liked. If he was refused, he will take revenge, try to destroy. This type will even marry, but on the one who will achieve this. But he can get away from a loving and caring wife. Even if there are children, they have no value for this person. Therefore, it is better not to try to change such a person, because anyway a happy family life will not work, and then only pain will remain.