A person is not able to live without communication. Almost all of our time, free from sleep, we communicate with friends and strangers. Usually, unless of course a person has grown up divorced from civilization, communication problems do not arise. However, when it comes to chatting with a girl you like, male representatives often get into a stupor. It would seem that here is complicated? After all, there are so many topics that can be discussed. But even a highly educated person who knows a lot of interesting things and is not deprived of oratory skills, a conversation with a girl is often not glued.
All fear is to say something wrong and form a bad opinion about yourself. As a result, it is really being formed, but not because of an incorrect phrase, but because of an absurd silence. So what to do in such situations? Everything is very simple - you need to talk about yourself, and also listen to what the girl says to you (the second is even more important). Do not be afraid of nothing. The conversation will begin by itself, and there will be no trace of primary shyness. And if you don’t know how to maintain a conversation with a girl, so as not to put yourself in a bad light, follow a couple of simple tips, and if you are nice to her, everything will go just fine. Realizing that you are on the right track will help you feel confident.
So, the main thing in the conversation is not to tire the lady and not to let her get bored. After all, you need to leave a positive impression about yourself, and for this, it should associate you with pleasant feelings. Therefore, do not turn a conversation with a girl into a lecture on football or C ++ programming. For these purposes you have friends.
You can start a conversation with chatter that does not oblige you to anything: weather, mood, latest news, study, etc. But do not focus your attention on these topics for long. They are needed only to start a conversation. Then you need to arouse the girl's interest. Let her talk about what she is fond of, even if you yourself do not understand anything about it. Despite everything, show your, even if artificial interest, praise her, make an easy compliment - all this will help you create a pleasant impression about yourself.
When it comes to you, in no case do not complain about anything, even if things go wrong. It is your wife who can pity you and provide assistance, and a little-known girl should see you as a strong personality. But do not go too far, boasting will not bring to good either. It is best to conduct a conversation with a girl in a half-joking tone. Talk about yourself with humor, lively and fun. Do not overload her with all the details of your work or study. Let her remain after communication a slight sense of mystery emanating from you, even if you are the most ordinary person in life.
Conversation in general should be conducted only in a positive and slightly frivolous tone: there should not be any disputes and negative emotions, even if you think her opinion is incorrect. A conversation with a girl is not a place for self-affirmation and sticking out of your “ego”, it is a fascinating game in which you will receive its location as a prize.
However, the situation changes a little if you have a conversation with a girl on the phone. In this case, non-verbal communication will not be involved , and therefore your spell is unlikely to affect it. If you do not meet with a girl for a while, it is better to use the phone for only one purpose - to arrange a new date. The same applies to communication on the Internet, which provides you even less opportunities to reveal yourself. Leave the Internet for business correspondence and finally go on a real date. And there everything already depends on you. The main thing is to feel confident and not be afraid. Believe me, a girl experiences the same way you do, and it is you who must charge her with a feeling of calmness and self-confidence.