Vulgarity, according to the definition of explanatory dictionaries, is something rude, tasteless, vulgar, artsy. In the days of Ancient Greece and Rome, the word "vulgaris" meant "affordable, everyday, general, simple." This word received a negative meaning only after the revolution in France, when aristocrats christened this epithet the newly emerged class of the bourgeoisie, whose representatives tried to get the same honor and respect as the representatives of the upper classes, but unlike the nobility, they did not have knowledge, education and traditions inherent in the true aristocracy.
To date, the word "vulgarity" has not lost its negative meaning, but the signs of vulgarity have changed significantly. In addition, this concept was attributed to women.
Signs of vulgarity. Seven major female mistakes
In the east, too bright women are ranked among people of the lower social stratum who do not have moral values ​​and consider Britney Spears, Kim Kardashian, Rihanna to be their idols.
It is noteworthy that, unlike the eastern mentality, with us, if a woman looks vulgar or defiant, then this means absolutely nothing. No matter how she is dressed, she can be a faithful wife, a loving mother and an excellent specialist. Often, the discrepancy between the inner world and the external appearance of a woman occurs because she does not realize the degree of her vulgarity, believing that she looks stylish, bold, rich.
The desire to look as bright and defiant as possible led to the fact that vulgarity began to be considered a synonym for beauty.
The brighter the better
According to many girls, women's beauty directly depends on well-chosen makeup. After all, cosmetics is a universal remedy, thanks to which the representative of the fair sex can both conquer a man at first sight and forever discourage the desire to communicate with such an extravagant person.
The result will depend only on what position the girl will choose in pursuit of beauty, emphasize natural advantages and hide flaws, or apply “combat makeup” to a representative of one of the oldest professions.
It is important to remember that the bad form is not only too bright, but also inappropriate makeup. In order not to look ridiculous and not to receive the status of “vulgar woman”, when applying makeup, the emphasis should be placed either on the eyes or on the lips.
Vivid evening make-up at a morning reception or a holiday will look especially tasteless, while a daytime one can be suitable for evening events.
Rainbow colored hair
Many girls believe that natural hair color is too boring, gray and mundane. This is especially true for owners of beautiful blond hair, who often consider their shade to be “mouse”. That brown hair is most often subjected to all kinds of experiments - cutting and dyeing in poisonous colors: blue, bright red, green, raspberry, blue-black.
Female beauty is a loose concept, because someone will really look beautiful and unusual with bright hair color, and someone should think about emphasizing the natural beauty of their own color using highlighting or tinting. After all, it will give shine and healthy radiance to the delicately blond hair color.
Artificial nails and eyelashes
Seven to eight years ago, long, unnatural marigolds were in fashion. Therefore, the girls went to the masters without a trace, mutilating their cute neat nails with coarse thick tips, which also spoiled the nail plate during prolonged wear.
The neat appearance of a woman depends, first of all, on a properly selected manicure. Usually it is classic or French, for example, neat nails of moderate length, square or oval. Natural manicure is not only safe and convenient in everyday life, but also aesthetically pleasing and attractive.
More and more often,
modern girls, in pursuit of healthy, beautiful, lush cilia, resort to the extension service. Of course, everyone wants to have them, therefore, choosing a specialist, many look primarily at the price, considering the lower it is, the better, without thinking about the quality of the material. Following this path, in the end, the girl can get not high-quality cilia, causing envy of others and driving everyone crazy, but rare bundles, eye inflammation and mocking conversations of friends.
More shine
The vulgar woman, due to the lack of taste and desire to look as brighter, sexier, prettier and richer as possible, resorts to using bright jewelry and inappropriate accessories, whether it be clips or earrings with unnaturally large stones, a colorful handbag or a shocking scarf.
In the desire to stand out and wear bright accessories, there is nothing wrong, the main thing is a sense of proportion. For example, a multi-colored handbag will perfectly complement a gray office suit, and a shocking scarf - a boring black coat and will make the image interesting and memorable. If you want brightness in clothes, then jewelry and accessories in this case should be very simple and not overload the image.
It is not vulgar clothes and accessories that allow you to look beautiful, but a sense of proportion when choosing clothes and jewelry, as well as the ability to combine colors. A vulgar woman, considering herself sexy, wants to be seen from afar, therefore she lives in the choice of clothes and jewelry on the principle of "everything is better right away."
Lack of etiquette and rude manners
If a girl avoids vulgarity when choosing clothes, but is rudely expressed using obscene words, she will still look vulgar. Non-observance of etiquette also applies, for example, talking with a mouth full while eating, interrupting the interlocutor, excessive gesticulation, inappropriate movements, stupid, vulgar jokes, etc.
Vulgar behavior
Sexuality or vulgarity? Such similar and at the same time different concepts.
An innocent touch of a man during a conversation, talking on candid topics, a languid voice and loud laughter are not an indicator of sexuality. Most men consider such behavior not only for vulgarity, but also for frivolity and frivolity.
A vulgar woman, according to men, is a woman who:
- laughs inappropriately, loudly, unnaturally, reacting not only to funny, but also to unfunny jokes;
- constantly during a conversation, as if by accident, touches a man’s face, body or clothes, strokes his body or wraps locks of hair on his finger or pencil;
- speaks in a languid voice with playful intonation and aspiration;
- went joking, leading inappropriate stories about his intimate life;
- speaks on male topics, uses foul language.
A vulgar girl does not notice her vulgarity, thinking that having a conversation on a vulgar topic, she becomes an interesting conversationalist.
It should be remembered that a man is, first of all, a hunter and conqueror who will feel respect for a woman inaccessible to all.