30 years of wedding is a very important stage of marital intimacy. Its symbol is pearls - one of the rarest and most valuable seafood. After all, it is precisely 30 years that the natural process of creating a pearl lasts on average. Like a pearl in the turbulent waters of the ocean, marital relations are becoming more and more perfect year after year, overgrown with understanding, trust and affection.
How to celebrate 30 years of wedding? A pearl anniversary is a family holiday to be held in the circle of close relatives and dear friends. By the way, pearls are also a symbol of fertility, so the presence of children and grandchildren is simply a must.
It is advisable that the celebration of this happy date be a gala home dinner, during which guests can congratulate the anniversaries, and the “pearl spouses" - to share the experience of family life with younger and inexperienced descendants. After all, a happy marriage is actually hard, but grateful, work, which always has something to say.
At the solemn table must be present dishes from seafood. It can be fish snacks, seaweed, squid, caviar. An integral attribute of the celebration is a fish pie, which the daughter-in-law will help to bake.
As for clothes, on this day the spouse should be in sea- green clothes . A husband should become a symbol of pearls and get used to this image with a white or cream shirt, ivory pants , or a suit.
If the “newlyweds” want to spend this day alone, it is best to organize a trip to the sea.
Rites and traditions. To celebrate the 30 years of the wedding was more complete, the spouses must follow the ancient traditions. On the eve of the anniversary, they should exchange pearls. And in the morning, holding hands, the husband and wife must go to the sea, river or pond, and throw stones in the water - in this way they return his gifts to the sea and ask for family happiness and prosperity.
Then the “newlyweds” should stand in front of the mirror and take an oath of love and devotion. It is the mirror that is an important part of this rite, because it never lies and symbolizes the truthfulness and sincerity of promises.
There is a slightly different tradition that needs to be held before the guests of the celebration. To do this, in the glasses of both spouses you need to throw a beautiful pearl. Now the husband and wife can exchange promises and confessions, and then have a drink at the Brudershaft. Remember that for spouses a pearl wedding anniversary is very important . 30 years living together is a whole story that is stored in the heart of everyone.
What to give for a 30 year wedding? Of course, there is no holiday without gifts and on the 30th anniversary you can give spouses everything that is somehow connected with pearls and the sea. Pearl jewelry will be a very valuable gift. It can be a necklace, beads, earrings, key chains, bracelets, hair clips, cufflinks, etc.
You can also give some decorative elements or furniture inlaid with pearls or ivory. For example, the “bride” will like a beautiful hand-held mirror with a pearl frame.
You should definitely give a beautiful postcard, inside which a married couple will find sincere congratulations on their 30th wedding anniversary.
If the heroes of the day are big lovers of pets, then you can give them some rare aquarium fish.
More expensive and valuable gifts for parents will be appropriate. For example, you can organize your parents' vacation in some cozy resort near the sea, or purchase a ticket for a romantic sea cruise.
It is worth noting that any of your congratulations or gifts will please happy spouses. Indeed, on this important day for them, they really need to see people near and dear to their hearts, feel their support and love.