The art of seduction has existed since the time of Adam and Eve. Because of such fatal temptresses as Cleopatra, men started wars and were ready to die. And courtesans and geishas definitely knew a lot about attracting men, and even the most sophisticated men could not resist them.
In order for a man to have a desire to “get to know himself better,” you need to constantly work on yourself, be moderately relaxed, but at the same time have a sense of tact, be able to be weak, defenseless and humble.
Sometimes the ability to seduce may be required to attract a new man into his life, and sometimes to awaken feelings in a relationship that lasts quite a long time.
So, how to seduce a man at home? Implementation of the following recommendations will help answer this question, and bring the woman closer to the object of her sympathies.
Internal state
In any business, you need to start with yourself. First of all, you need to drop the routine and feel like a young passionate seducer. If a woman wants to seduce a man again, next to whom is not the first year, you need to imagine the image that he likes the most - clothes, smell, hairstyle, makeup, environment. And then realize it.
You can seduce a man using SMS, using this to create the appropriate romantic mood. The text of erotic content, with an attached photo in chic underwear, will have a stunning impression on the lover.
Personal care
Although it is banal and simple, but many modern women pay insufficient attention to this issue. It is a mistake to suppose that the representatives of the stronger sex fall for the soul. First of all, they are interested in external beauty.
Men like it when the ladies smell good, when they do makeup (not necessarily bright), manicure, beautiful styling.
Wardrobe
As for the wardrobe, it is better to abandon shapeless and worn things. To seduce a man, among home clothes it is necessary to have a sexy robe, and among clothes “on the way out” - dresses that can emphasize the dignity of the figure. It is better to choose a fabric that is natural, soft, in bright colors (it is possible with a pattern, but not too colorful). Considerable attention should be paid to the neckline. A deep neckline and jewelry on the neck will look stunning. If you are going for a romantic dinner, you can put on a dress with a lower neckline to the thigh, which will allow you to see beautiful legs when walking. And it is better to prefer high-heeled shoes. As you know, few men can resist this way.
It is good if, in addition to dresses, translucent blouses appear in the women's wardrobe, leaving room for imagination at the sight of a translucent beautiful bra. You can also buy tops that expose part of the back and abdomen, but covering shoulders, and tight jeans with a belt that emphasizes the hips.
Men love to see heels on women, especially stilettos. In autumn and winter, it is better to wear suede shoes above the knees or leather, but to the knees.
You can also seduce a man in the distance. Just a female intimate wardrobe will help in such a piquant matter. If your relationship with your beloved is already above average, you can look into a sex shop, choose the right underwear, take a couple of photos and send them to your man with the question: "In which color is it better to buy a combination - in red, white or black?" . The reaction will not take long.
Hairstyle
Falling in love, women often change their image, including their hairstyle. So, it's time to visit your hairdresser, who will help you decide on a new haircut, styling and hair color that perfectly emphasizes the color of the eyes and the oval of the face.
Scent
To seduce a beloved man, you need to choose the right flavor, because, as you know, representatives of the strong half of humanity react very subtly to smells. Perfume should not be too sugary or, conversely, tart. Eau de toilette should be sprayed with a hairline behind the ears, as well as the wrists. In this case, the perfume should be used half an hour before the intended meeting.
It is important to pay great attention to body odor. Taking a bath with essential oils, sea salt, the use of gels and cream soaps with the smells of ylang-ylang, honey, lavender, almonds, as well as various lotions will make the woman’s body smell unique.
Makeup
There is no need to do, as they say, combat color, you can use basic cosmetics: powder, eyebrow pencil, mascara, blush. To create a more dramatic (most importantly, do not get carried away) image, black lengthening mascara, eyeliner and some shadows are useful. This will add languor to the look. Pearlescent pink lipstick will emphasize romance, and red will contribute to the creation of the image of a fatal beauty, but you can give preference to natural color. And to maintain the beauty of the skin, do not neglect masks.
Gestures
Gestures can also seduce a man. How to do it right ? Gestures are body language that can tell a lover about the desires of the interlocutor. For example, when talking with a man, you can cross his legs, run a hand along his neck, play with a strand of hair. Eye contact is also very important. You need to flirt with your eyes, lowering your eyes down, then moving them to the side, and then looking at your interlocutor with a direct sensual look.
Self confidence
Of course, some men adore modest women, but, nevertheless, most of them still love self-confident and acting according to the “come-see-pick-up” rule of seducers.
In order to become liberated, a woman must know that outwardly she is irresistible. A woman can achieve full self-confidence only when she is comfortable in her body, image, in other words, with herself.
Mask of indifference
After getting in shape, updating your wardrobe and image, it's time to think about a behavior style. To conquer the hearts of the opposite sex, it is important to observe the rule "quieter ride - you will continue." Act should be leisurely, especially in relation to an adult man.
How to seduce such a man is a separate science. One of the most effective tricks is to play “you want, but you won’t get it,” that is, you must first try to seem as interested and even accessible as possible, and then sharply put on a mask of indifference. This technique will allow you to mislead a man, cause excitement, slight bewilderment and immediately warm up interest. For example, during a telephone conversation, you can transparently hint about your desire to spend the night together using flirtation and hints, and after a few minutes you need to become the initiator of the conversation, referring to urgent matters. In order for a man to feel that he is even less in control of the situation, one can promise to call back only if there is a free minute.
Easy jealousy
Jealousy, of course, should not be a woman, but her companion. For example, meeting in a cafe, sitting down at a table, you need to raise your index finger up, saying: "Waiter." After an institution employee noticed this gesture and headed to the table where you are sitting with your man, you can slowly lower your hand, first moving it behind your neck and then down to your chest. All actions should look as natural and relaxed as possible, and during their implementation you do not need to look at the man. You can also cross-leg, and then continue to chat with the waiter.
It is not difficult to seduce a man with such a game, plus he can even show a little white jealousy. Let him watch how the femininity of his companion is manifested even in such trifles as ordering a drink. It is important not to replay - do not strive to seem vulgar, vulgar and overly sexy. It is better that he sees that his lady is interested only in him, and not the hot guy who is looking at her with interest.
Openness
If a girl is not only good-looking, but also open to dialogue, then she is able to turn the head of any man. How to seduce a sensitive man? No need to strive to drag him to bed, it is better if he himself longs for this. Let the interlocutor pay attention to the similarity of your interests, hear a couple of funny life stories. More mature males are especially interested in ladies able to maintain dialogue.
When talking, the timbre of the voice should be deep, and laughter - sincere. A manifestation of interest in a man’s stories will fuel his desire to spend more time together. It is not necessary to agree with every word of the interlocutor, it is much more fun to be a little rebellious than quiet and gray.
Also, during conversations it is sometimes appropriate to let a man understand that he plays by no means the last role. You can try to give him a couple of good tips, worry about problems, "look into the soul", the main thing is to be friendly, sincere and not replay.
Flirt
Flirting is a very effective tool, especially when it comes to married men. How to seduce this category of men? Men who have been married for many years, as a rule, have lost interest in their regular partner (otherwise you would simply not spend time together). If on your life’s journey you met just such a man, hungry for female flirting, flirting will cause him great delight. The ability to cast a languid, piercing look, a seductive smile will make an unforgettable impression on him.
And if a woman has been married for a long time with the object of her adoration, and suddenly begins to realize that family life has become boring and monotonous, you can also practice flirting from time to time. After all, it is much better when wives seduce the men with whom they are married, than someone begins to do for them.
To get acquainted with a new young man you need to flirt effortlessly: first you can look at his shoulder, and then slowly look at his eyes. Holding on at this point for a couple of seconds, you need to demonstrate your sweet smile. Do not forget about such well-known tricks as lightly biting your lips or twisting a lock of hair on your finger. Now is the time to pick the fruits. If everything is done correctly, and the man is not particularly timid, after the woman he likes makes an attempt to leave, he will certainly try to stop her.
So, the conversation will begin. During the conversation, you can jump (but not too often) from topic to topic, creating intrigue, respond to compliments and flirt, but not be easily accessible, take the initiative, but not show an open desire to retire somewhere.
Frank conversations
Nothing helps to seduce a man from a distance, like frank phone conversations or correspondence. For such conversations, the dark is best suited. You can play the simple game "honest answers." Its meaning is that a man and a woman take turns asking each other questions (mainly on frank topics) and honestly answer them. You can ask about something juicy, for example, about where the interlocutor would like to indulge in love, or about his favorite position in sex. It all depends on the imagination.
Seduction in bed
If the relationship between a woman and a man has reached a certain level, then it is time to think about their intimate side. Due attention must be paid to underwear. You can wear a bright red or other color combination, stockings with or without a belt. If a man came to visit, you can put on a sexy robe from above, if, on the contrary, the lady went to him, then it is better to wear a skirt to the knees with a translucent blouse (then underwear should be in the tone of a blouse). A hint of intimacy may be a thing that accidentally fell, which a woman should gracefully lift, turning her back to her interlocutor. From this view, the stronger sex is dizzy (of course, in a good way), and the heart begins to beat faster. If a man "pecked", it was time to warm him up, play like a cat with a mouse. Having said that the room is a bit stuffy, you need to unbutton one or two buttons on the blouse, making an appropriate gesture.
Now, with the naked eye, it is noticeable that the guest's beloved is breathing unevenly towards her, which means that the time has come for a “control shot”. In order to defeat a man on the spot, you need to come closer to him and with a little aspiration ask or tell something. Now both know exactly what they want from the meeting.
Let's talk about how to seduce a man in bed, if the couple already has a stable sex life. In this case, role-playing games, when all fantasies become reality, or having sex outside the bed (in the kitchen, in the bathroom, in the car, spontaneous sex), as well as new poses or new toys from the sex shop, are perfect for seduction.
Here is what you first need to know about how to seduce a man at home. Each woman, following simple rules and practicing in this art, can become a temptress of male hearts. It is possible to seduce men who have a wife, this is far from rare in our time, but it is better to pay more attention to single men, especially when counting on a long relationship, if only because such a man does not have to be shared with anyone.
In conclusion, I would like to dispel one popular myth that a real representative of the stronger sex, entering the life of a woman, seeks to solve all her problems and always does it with pleasure. Of course, this is partly true, anyone to whom the lady is not indifferent will try to do everything for her happiness. But on the other hand, men more often fall in love with those girls who were happy and before them, they fall in love with already satisfied women. After all, it is no secret that such women seem to glow from the inside and charge, bewitch the representatives of the stronger sex with their positive energy, rather than those who constantly complain to them about any problems. Men gradually lose interest in such ladies. Undoubtedly, the most positive women in the world experience difficulties, but in such cases lovers come to their aid themselves, they don’t even need to ask about it. It turns out that the exception only confirms the rule.