Sexual intercourse gives not only pleasant physical sensations, but also moral satisfaction. Therefore, it is not surprising that both sexes, having reached reproductive age, feel a desire to have sex. However, this is not always possible. What to do if you want sex, but there is no possibility?
We determine the essence of the problem
A period of prolonged sexual abstinence can begin in a person’s life for a variety of reasons. For example, the absence of a permanent partner or unwillingness to have sex without feelings with a "random" person. Often for some time one does not want physical intimacy, especially after the termination of a long relationship, and then there comes a time when the desire wakes up, and how to realize it is completely incomprehensible. So, if the problem is moral in nature, it must be addressed in a comprehensive manner. One-time sexual contact is unlikely to change anything and help to feel happier. You need to learn how to build close relationships with sympathetic people. There are often situations when it is clear why one constantly wants sex, but nothing can be done about it. It is about those who prefer to keep innocence until the wedding, or about girls waiting for loved ones from the army. Sometimes sexual intercourse is prohibited by doctors, for example, in the treatment of sexually transmitted diseases, or during pregnancy. How to overcome the basic instinct in this case?
Independence never hurts
Any teenager knows the answer to the question: "What if you want sex, but you can’t do it?" Everything is simple - to satisfy your need on your own. Masturbation is more loyal to men. But many women have too strong beliefs that it is immoral and dirty. If this is about you, it's time to get rid of such complexes. Try to relax as much as possible and choose a time when no one bothers you. Explore your own body, and to create the right mood you can even watch an erotic movie or light candles and incense throughout the apartment. This option will help out if you want sex during menstruation. Virgins can caress themselves, because clitoral orgasms are the brightest, and you can get them without risking your own innocence at all.
Help for modern technology
Today, a whole industry of a specific industry is working in order to improve sex and allow them to engage in high-quality alone. Be courageous and visit the store for adults. The consultants of such a salon will not be confused by the visitor's statement: “I really want sex.” What to do in this situation, they will probably tell you in the brightest colors. And do not think that in a sex shop you can find only imitators of male dignity of all sizes and colors. There are many other interesting items here. If you are afraid to go to such a store and are embarrassed to communicate with sellers on personal topics, an online market will help you out. Many online toy shops for adults deliver throughout Russia. Such stores will also take care of the customer’s reputation, your order will come in a neutral package, none of those around you will guess about its contents until you open the box at home.
What to do expectant mothers?
During pregnancy, the woman’s body undergoes rapid hormonal changes. One of its external manifestations is an increase in the sensitivity of erogenous zones and a hypertrophied desire to have sex. In fact, with the normal course of pregnancy, there is no problem. Sex is not prohibited, and in some cases even useful. The most difficult thing is to choose a comfortable pose, without risk of injuring your stomach. But sometimes
intimate relationships are strictly contraindicated. The reasons for the prohibitions are different: the
threat of miscarriage or other pathologies. So what to do if you want sex during pregnancy, but not? The answer is the same - to engage in self-satisfaction, which does not carry any harm in itself. You can connect the future dad to this process, such games will surely bring a lot of pleasure to both spouses and will be remembered for a long time.
Sex on the Internet?
Another interesting way of self-satisfaction is virtual sex. It is best suited for those who have a good imagination and cannot get a break in solitude. Some couples practice Wirth during extended separation. But you can find a new partner. There are even whole sites for lovers of such high-tech entertainment. So what to do if you want sex? Find yourself a partner (on a thematic forum) or offer such a bold idea to a soulmate who is far away. Next, describe all your fantasies during correspondence or even demonstrate something visually during a video communication session. And these are far from all options, do not forget about sex by phone or via SMS.
Where to find a partner at once?
If all the time you want sex, and nothing helps, it is worth thinking about how to still do it yourself. Free people who do not want to establish a serious relationship are quite normal about relationships, so to speak, at one time. Do not forget about safety and purchase a stock of contraceptives in advance. To be sure of their protection after contact, you can use a special antiseptic at home. The easiest way to make an acquaintance at a party or club. A popular alternative is dating sites. But keep in mind that finding a partner on the Internet can be dangerous. Firstly, there is no guarantee that the person you selected from the photo will appear at the meeting. Secondly, one should not forget about the likelihood of meeting people who are not quite mentally healthy. If you still decide on such a meeting, be sure to tell about the upcoming date to a close friend or friend. Do not be too lazy to indicate the address of the hotel or apartment where you will be invited, and the car number, if the partner promises to pick you up by car. Agree on a time when friends should start trying to contact you and find out if everything is in order.
Relations without obligations
As you can see, sex at one time does not seem safe. Another thing is a constant lover. Intimate relationships without obligations are not so common these days. It often starts spontaneously, somehow an affair began, but the partners have no common plans for the future. So why not give each other pleasure without the pangs of jealousy and everyday problems? If you are comfortable with this option, it's time to start looking for a suitable candidate. What to do if you want sex and you are ready for free love? First of all, it is worth taking a closer look at the representatives of the opposite sex, who do not hide their sympathy for you. You can try to find a partner on the Internet. Then it remains only to maintain relations at the level you need.
Harmful or helpful?
Choosing a way to satisfy your thirst for sexual adventures is your own. It all depends on the characteristics of the situation, your capabilities and principles. Regular intimate life helps to improve mood and well-being. This is even said by doctors. But if you need to be faithful to the "one", and self-satisfaction does not interest you, try to engage in sports or creativity. It is quite another matter if the desire for new exploits does not disappear with an intense sex life with a regular partner. In this case, it makes sense to visit a sexologist and ask him: “Why do you constantly want sex?”. It is likely that the problem is more serious than it seems, and it will take months of psychological correction to solve it . What to do if you want sex in its absence, you now know, but with everything else it is better to consult a specialist.