Declaration of love for a friend is a rather sensitive topic. And if this did not concern you in any way, then you would hardly have continued reading this article when you saw its first sentence. Why admit love to a friend? Who confesses love to a friend? And ... of course, as a friend confesses her love? You can find answers to all these questions by reading this text to the end.
Between friendship and love
For some, this topic will seem very, very straightforward ... But in fact, everything here is quite multifaceted. Someone decides to declare his best friend in love because he understands that his (or ... her?) Attitude towards his girlfriend develops into a completely unfriendly one. Have you started to experience other warmer feelings towards your friend and can’t keep silent about this anymore? Believe me, this is absolutely normal. But there is another scenario. What if you want to talk about your "friendly" love? How not to ruin the most beautiful friendly declaration of love to a friend? Read on.
I can no longer call you my friend ...
Before you say something similar to your girlfriend, you should think a few more times. Weigh it all. You are her best friend and should soberly reflect on whether a guy like you “shines” to be with her not as a friend, but as a boyfriend? Assess the situation with a sober look. Either you are very confident in your victory, if you still decide to confess your feelings, or you are already very desperate and can not stand how some ... another guy is constantly turning next to her. If there is a chance to get a refusal, then remember that maybe you will not be able to return to that relationship after that. Not each of the girls can continue friendly communication with those who admitted to her sympathy. But not everyone will leave alone after such a friend, even if the feelings were not mutual. It’s like Russian roulette. But maybe you know her so well that you are sure that your recognition will not harm friendly relations at all?
Declaration of love for a friend if you are ... a girl?
In our twenty-first century, anything happens. We will not talk much about the topic of non-traditional relations. Let's move on to how you act. First, you, as in the previous case with the guy, you need to think, reflect and weigh everything. If your girlfriend is of the same orientation as you, then re-read the second paragraph of this article again, it will definitely suit you. But what if your girlfriend is really attracted only to guys? Try to make some hint about your relationship and see how she reacts. It could be some kind of innocent girlish joke. For example, a kiss on the cheek or a light “smack” on the lips. What was her reaction to this? If it is sharply negative, then this is a 100% sign that taking a step closer is absolutely not worth it if you do not want to lose contact with her completely.
HOW to declare love to a friend?
In fact, there are many ways. One has only to decide which one is right for you. If you are a creative person, then you must definitely act in this direction. Write poetry? Then just the option of declaring love to your girlfriend in verse is just right for you. Well, poorly write for her a whole ode, at the end of which you ask the most important question that concerns you? If not, then get down to it right now, without losing a minute. In the case of poems, one of the main things in this case is the pitch. Submission of your poem and your question. If it is difficult to say such words out loud, then the letter is the most suitable option for you. Beautiful handwriting, in an envelope, with a signature ... Only in this case, it is worth making sure that your girlfriend will really receive such a letter and read it! And for this, friends do not need to make special efforts, you can simply hand the letter in person. And in the event that shyness is not about you, then read these verses to her independently beautifully, with feeling, plainly, with the arrangement.
What if you don’t know how to speak beautifully?
To be honest, there is nothing wrong with this and there is a way out of your situation. Do not know how to speak beautifully, then just tell the truth. A declaration of love for a girlfriend in your own words is your option. Say what you feel. The main thing is that your words are truly sincere. And everything else will add up by itself. You can start from afar ... Say what feelings you felt when you first met her, what you felt at the beginning of your relationship, how you felt about her all this time and, possibly, how your attitude changed ... Go on to that that you feel for her now. Sometimes, a declaration of love to a friend in prose can turn out to be much more successful than poems that may seem to a girl a pretended scene.
Try connecting friends
If you are not afraid that someone will know about your feelings before her, then you can connect other friends. They can help with something. For example, send a letter. In time, release balloons with beautiful inscriptions about love or play along with some musical instrument while you are reading a verse or simply confessing it in your own words. This will help create the proper atmosphere. Or maybe your friends will have a better idea about how to organize all this recognition? Friends are a good thing. And maybe your friends can help you in the next version of the declaration of love to your beloved friend, which we have prepared for you?
Take a beautiful video
Recently, this option has become very popular. And if you or your friends have some skills (or at least opportunities) in shooting and processing video, then it's time for you to cooperate and start creating something beautiful that will help you to confess your feelings! You can write some of the words on the sheets of whatman paper and show them in the camera lens, or you can say everything yourself if you can show the sound. This will help you to worry less, because you will not say these treasured words in the face of your girlfriend. And then, when she will watch this video, you can follow her reaction and mentally prepare for her answer until this video ends. And you also have a great opportunity to overwrite all failed duplicates, perfecting your video recognition! Just don’t think to upload it to the network ... It’s better to personally show this video to her.
Perhaps that’s all. Go for it! Always remember that unnecessary excitement is useless for you, it can ruin everything ... But on the other hand, if you are completely unemotional and serious, then those around you (including the object of your heart torment) may decide that you are not too sincere. And remember that if even something goes wrong, your girlfriend will understand you! If she is really a good friend, then you will not get any ridicule in your address and, moreover, you will not be condemned! Good luck!