Probably, few are already familiar with the aphorism “Take care of honor from a young age”. Today, the foundations of society have changed, as a result of which early sexual intercourse in adolescence is becoming commonplace. We get this result due to the lack of sex education both at school and in the family. Later in the article we will talk about the causes and consequences of early sexual intercourse.
Availability
The modern younger generation does not skimp on alcoholic drinks and leads a reckless lifestyle. Holidays in a large company with alcoholic beverages - a new tradition to start relationships. Today, young people do not meet in the theater, cinema or even on the street. A popular meeting place is to hang out at the “huts” of local guys.
And what just does not happen during such feasts and parties, how many rash actions can be performed while intoxicated! Parents now do not protect their children from dangerous acquaintances, but, on the contrary, are proud that their offspring have a sufficient number of friends and girlfriends. However, the quality of communication and the consequences of such gatherings are rarely taken into account. Not many people think about early sexual relations and their consequences.
Alcoholic Datura
Every booze is a leap into the unknown. Teenagers who love to lean on hard liquors lose the line of what is allowed and what is not allowed. Alcohol in the blood increases sexual arousal, and here it is not far from the early sexual relations and their consequences. Tongue is unleashed, hands are open - and this car cannot be stopped. By the way, in a state of intoxication, some may resort to sexual violence and not even remember it the next day! Games with "fire" are dangerous if a person has just embarked on the path of growing up.
Causes
Premature sexual life often begins due to the banal curiosity of children, as well as the desire to quickly obtain adult status. Everything goes awry, and quite capable boys and girls can stop studying well, disappear at discos, drink, smoke, and have casual sex.
It is not surprising that the modern generation is prone to apathy and aggression towards parents, as well as excessive licentiousness. Unfortunately, not every family is an example of good relations, and not every family instills in their children a serious attitude to their actions and their consequences. Early sexual intercourse is just an indicator of improper upbringing and licentiousness of morals of both children and parents.
Life disaster
Not everyone will agree that early sexual intercourse and its consequences can be attributed to the failure of youth. Some people think that such a beginning of sexual activity (while observing safety, of course) is a useful experience in the life of a teenager who will prepare them in advance for adulthood.
Concrete stories of the effects of early sexual intercourse are alike, like drops of water. Often, an immoral mother cannot show a worthy example to her daughter. We can see how mothers corrupt their own children, bringing numerous cohabitants into the house. This way of life teaches the girl to look for “friends” from childhood. The situation here is deadlock: a mother who does not cope with her duties will not argue if her daughter follows in her footsteps. Thus, two women will be linked by common interests and experiences. In this case, the mother-friend will never be able to control her child, since she no longer has the right to education. You do not correspond yourself - you cannot talk about morality to others.
If people try to intervene in the life of such a family, they will be accused of not getting into their own business.
When adults turn a blind eye to the immoral behavior of adolescents, the latter’s irresponsibility and infantility are only exacerbated. Examples of the negative effects of early sexual intercourse are no longer surprising, they have become an everyday occurrence.
Unfortunately, moral values are no longer instilled in children at home or at school. Honor, innocence, chastity - all this has sunk into oblivion. Therefore, we come across very often the negative consequences of early sexual intercourse.
Love or lust?
Man is the only creature on the planet that not only becomes attached to people, but knows how to truly love. However, this ability can easily be lost if you lead a promiscuous sex life.
What is love? Now this feeling has depreciated. But you can recognize him right away, when in a happy couple both try to support each other, remain faithful and take care of each other.
Love is a feeling that is important to learn. First of all, adolescents need to love themselves, because the right attitude to themselves will not allow them to disregard their own lives and "squander" their time and health on unnecessary people.
Today, children confuse real feelings with the instinct of attraction to the opposite sex. Unhealthy attraction, ignorance of moral and ethical standards, spiritual poverty, idleness, mental limitation - all this leads to early sexual intercourse, the negative consequences of which can affect the mental and physiological health of the child.
It is known that the ability to control animal attraction is a sign of a person’s high culture. Therefore, it is so important to talk with children on various topics, including “shameful” ones.
The harm of sexual intercourse without love can be attributed to the low-lying superficial connections that destroy the moral image of not only adolescents, but also of society as a whole. Premature intimacy leads to the fact that a person loses the ability to love. For some reason, it has become fashionable to consider love as just an animal instinct, the attraction of an “insatiable” body.
Nevertheless, value orientations vary from person to person: someone needs real love, and someone needs a surrogate for love - this is quite a good option.
Gynecology: consequences of early sexual intercourse
Early adulthood, according to the studies of many scientists and doctors, brings tremendous harm to the body of a teenager. Early sexual life leads to abnormal body formation, slows down growth and subsequently leads to early aging. Those adolescents who decide to take this path ahead of time often become lethargic, inattentive and unproductive in their studies and work. For a girl, the consequences of an early sex life may turn out to be an overwhelming burden that she will bear for herself for many years, and, perhaps, her whole life.
Early pregnancy
The danger of this phenomenon seems paradoxical, but it still exists. The fact is that although the body of a teenage girl is ready for sexual activity, it is absolutely not prepared for childbirth. An abortion at such a young age can forever deprive a woman of the joy of motherhood.
Also, due to early sexual activity in children, a chronic inflammatory process of the genital organs may appear, which can lead to infertility.
STI
Sexually transmitted infections are a disaster for young girls. 2 years after receiving the first sexual experience, at least half of teenage girls become infected with one of three known diseases: gonorrhea, trichomoniasis, chlamydia.
It is noted that girls who have had early sexual intercourse are more likely to have cervical cancer.
Unfortunately, not all modern adolescents are aware of information related to the risk of STIs. It often happens that they cannot recognize the first symptoms and consult a doctor in time.
Accidental sexual intercourse is a favorable environment for the spread of infections that cause great harm to the body of adolescents. Infections cause dysfunctions of the genital organs, lead to severe inflammation and tumors that require surgical intervention.
Sexual abstinence
For all people, the "schedule" is built in its own way. The appearance of sexual desire and the time of its satisfaction depend on upbringing and social factors. Optimal is considered to be abstinence before marriage. But for the modern picture of life, this rule has lost all relevance, given the number of divorces and the depreciation of marriage in general. Therefore, now they are talking about entering into an intimate life with a person only by love (by the way, in the same marriages there may not be love, which is also harmful to the psyche of youth).
It is known that sexual abstinence up to 20-25 years is useful, since during this period in the human body there is an active accumulation of vitality. The sexual energy of this period of time should switch to such aspects of life as education, sports and career.
Prevention of early sexual intercourse
In order to educate a person, it is necessary to instill in a child from childhood the standards of responsible behavior within the framework of an existing society. Sound moral criteria are now often omitted in modern society.
Since children and adults now have different values, they seem to speak different languages.
In the family and at school, it is necessary to educate children in a reproductive culture (this means proper nutrition, refusal of addictions, sports, avoiding early and accidental sexual intercourse).
Recommendations for parents of adolescents
Adults should take care first of all that the child does not receive information about intimate life from the lips of peers or on the Internet - it is necessary to conduct fact-finding interviews with your child yourself.
You always need to find time for frank conversations - the topic of sex education should not be banned.
It will be best to discuss with the child his aspirations, achievements, goals, plans for the future.
Careful prioritization is required at the time of growing up (education, health, travel, sports).
It is necessary to tell the child how to maintain reproductive health, and discuss with him the consequences of early sexual intercourse.
The right to sexual life should be transferred to the moment of the formation of an established mature personality, ready to love and be loved.