Sooner or later, each girl has a question “how to communicate with guys”? What language to speak with them, what "goat" to drive up to? How to be your own and not be laughed at?
Guys like self-confident, beautiful, smart and smart girls who know their worth. If you are a “bleating sheep,” then don’t expect that you will understand how to communicate with the guys and will do it successfully. First of all, it is necessary to overcome your fears, insecurity and notoriety. Only by loving yourself and appreciating you will be able to learn how to communicate with guys.
You need to have a firm intention to learn how to communicate not only with guys, but with people in general. It is important to feel how you can and should talk with one person, and how - with another. Naturally, all people are inherent in excitement, some indecision and shyness, but there is no need to be afraid, but boldly start a conversation.
If you liked the guy, find the “ends” through which you can get to know him. Feel free to start a conversation on some informal topic, and you can talk to a motorist in advance, ask what are the most common problems encountered during car operation, and ask for advice from a guy you like. Few of the guys are not interested in cars, maybe the guy will start to talk enthusiastically about how to deal with the problem.
If you were invited to a date, and you are afraid because you don’t know how to communicate with guys, here is a tip for you: communicate with them just like with your friends, brother, father. But, of course, do not rumble about the salon, plucking eyebrows and deep hair removal. The guy is also unlikely to like the new recipe for making rolls, unless, of course, he is a cook. But he will definitely appreciate the invitation to taste the rolls prepared according to the new recipe.
On a date where the guy invited you, you should not touch on many topics, in particular, personal life, parents, first love, health, material well-being and other “delicate” moments. Try to talk on topics of interest to both of you: nature, discos, music, films, animals, recreation, etc. If a guy is an athlete, you can ask him to tell about his competitions and achievements. You should show with all your looks that you are very interested, even if you don’t know half the words. Here, by the way, is a great reason to continue the conversation - ask what this or that term means. Of course, you should not devote an entire evening to studying new words - a measure should be in everything.
It will be nice to direct the course of the conversation in a fun way, to recall funny cases from life, school years, student adventures.
If you are considering how to start talking with a guy, then just be a natural, sweet and interesting conversationalist. Do not try to make yourself a “Fifu” and do not try to imitate a neighbor. You should like the way you really are.
In general, remember that the guy should set the tone for the conversation and, like a true man, guide him, well, and the girl, of course, “smooth the corners”. If you are thinking about how to communicate with guys, then think about what, most likely, they think about it. Only
on the contrary - how to communicate with girls. After all, although they build themselves strong and confident, in fact, they also worry and worry, just like you. Let this thought comfort you.
If you want to make a guy nice, you can present a small gift that will symbolize the beginning of your acquaintance. It will be just fine if you make a gift yourself - a postcard, home soap, sign a CD with a new film, and so on. The guy will be very pleased, and so you smooth out the first, most exciting minutes of your conversation.
In any case, do not be afraid, there are many guys in the world and someone will definitely appreciate you!