Every first popular sexologist wrote an article or published a book on the topic: "How to please a woman and make her run after you with a mattress?" Men, unfortunately, rarely become the central figures of such essays, and the study of their psychological and sexual preferences ends with a list of recommended gifts for February 23. But in vain ...
A woman is the guardian of the hearth - this is an axiom. But few people think that the fire of passions must be maintained in a man. Your director, teacher, salesman, security guard - whoever he is! - your man always remains a little boy who really needs female affection and love.
Before it is popular to make out what kind of affection a man loves, let's talk a little about male and female psychology.
Tender woman - satisfied man
Harmony in the house is a clear sign of happiness. Only happy people are capable of experiencing love, and only they can give it. Female affection is a clear sign for a man that a lady is happy, which means that he is well done and does everything as he should! Drawing an analogy, we can say that affection is a male’s reward for peace and pleasure. It is important for every woman to know what kind of affection a man likes to make his partner understand: you are the best!
When it comes to talking about them, many lascivious pictures from German short films pop up in my head. However, for a man, unlike women, non-verbal bodily contact: hugs, kisses, stroking his wrists, etc., is already a caress.
In this regard, it is logical to divide them into “daily”, which is appropriate to give a partner in ordinary life, and “intimate”, stimulating a man to passionate sex.
What kind of affection does a man like in ordinary life?
A study conducted by the publication of Psychological Science showed that a man is more willing to show competitive qualities if his partner is present at the games. Encouraged by the chosen ones, they show outstanding results, which they could not achieve before.
This fact clearly demonstrates: tactile contacts (hugs, kisses), as well as gentle words of support are extremely important for men in everyday life. Do not belittle the values of such simple caresses as:
- tying a tie (care plus tactile contact);
- farewell hugs and kisses (tactile contact and competitive fuse for the whole working day);
- encouraging words that your man is the best, etc.
In order for the blood to rush to the head and he could responsibly approach the work, these caresses are quite enough. Leave the most “delicious” for the evening, namely, the desired intimate caresses.
What kind of affection do men like in bed?
As John Gray narrates in his book “A Man from Mars, a Woman from Venus,” sometimes a man and a woman do not understand each other at all, as if they live on different planets. But, despite this, everyone likes the intimate caresses the same. Trying to make a man pleasant in bed, think about what you like.
Erogenous zones in men are found throughout the body:
- Face.
- Head.
- Neck.
- Chest.
- Hips.
- Legs.
- Hands.
- Fingers and others
This list can be continued indefinitely ... However, in order not to puzzle where your man has a “responsive” erogenous zone, please partner in accordance with the “recommendations” to his zodiac sign.
Sexual affection for the zodiac sign
If you do not know your partner well enough, then you can find out what kind of affection men like in sex, referring to the sign of his zodiac. It's no secret that a person receives temperament from birth, and it directly depends on your lucky star. There is an opinion that the sensitivity of the partner's erogenous zones also depends on the zodiac sign. Is it really? We offer to check.
Passionate Fire Elements Men
Aries prefer to be forwards in bed ... A light scandal provoking a passion, will be an excellent prelude to passionate love. He always goes "to ram", so caress him with gentle strokes of the head and neck, passionate kisses of the face.
In bed, the king of the animals becomes a purring kitten. And like any member of the feline family, he loves stroking his back and neck. Invite the lion to take a bath and give him a gentle massage - your cat will be overjoyed. Gently kiss the back, touch the buttocks a little - he will be ready for anything for you.
Practical Sagittarius, distinguished by punctuality, do not tolerate wasting time and love to start caresses from the main thing - the crotch and inner wall of the thigh. Kisses, stroking, biting - it does not matter. When it comes to the area between the scrotum and anus, all means are good. However, do not go “too deep” - a conservative Sagittarius may not understand you.
Temperamental Earth Elemental Men
Capricorn in love is a connoisseur, in sex - too. The partner will have to prove more than one date that she is the very “priestess of love”. However, difficulties will not end there. Capricorn loves gentle touches throughout the body, so the partner will need to try if she wants to give him pleasure. Kisses of the face, chest, abdomen, neck, back - Capricorn loves when no part of his body is left without attention. A grateful man will not remain in debt and will reward his partner with passionate sex.
Practical Taurus do not like impromptu, they prefer to adhere to a strictly defined scenario. Lovers of experiments need to turn to Gemini, and sedate Taurus can please you with tenderness and considerable diligence in bed. What kind of intimacy does a male Taurus love? You can easily answer this question yourself. Remember the calf and the way he loves stroking his neck. Soft and gentle caresses of the neck and chest are the kind of caresses that men Taurus love most.
Obsessed with cleanliness, Virgo also likes to enjoy in sterile conditions. An ideal place for caresses is the bathroom. Unlike other representatives of the horoscope, erogenous zones in men born under the sign of Virgo are located on the face and stomach. So start with light kisses on the cheek and end with stroking the abdomen. Stimulation with the help of the soul can add to the foreplay of contrasting sensations.
Curious men of the elements Air
Creative Libra love art. Even in bed, they do not change their preferences. For Libra, an erotic dance performed by you will become a passionate prelude. The second weakness is the buttocks. They will be equally excited if you show them your charms in dance, as well as if you go on the offensive, starting to stroke and nibble the buttocks of Libra themselves.
The weakness of Aquarius is water. They like to wallow in the bathroom for hours. Add passion - dilute its boring pastime during water procedures. Aquarius men love foot and ankle massage. However, do not forget about the inner surface of the thigh - first give a gentle massage, and after water procedures, excite him with kisses of the hips and buttocks.
To the question: “What kind of affection does the twin man love?” - you can answer: "That's it!" The twins are very eccentric natures, they are ready to realize even the most sophisticated imagination. For them, a new sensation - a fresh sip of water in the stuffy desert. Most of all, Gemini is susceptible to hand caresses. Kiss his wrist, lick his palm, suck his finger - the excitement will come to the partner from the first touch.
Affectionate Elemental Men Water
Gentle and vulnerable Cancers love soft touches. Stroke Cancer in the area of the solar plexus - exciting energy will cover it. Kiss the nipples - the partner will instantly start. These are the kind of affection a Cancer man loves - a little strange, but extremely exciting.
Scorpions are the most impatient. Their favorite caresses are genital stimulation. If your man was born under the sign of Scorpio, then, without hesitation, go to the dessert, namely, start oral caresses. The perineum, anus and penis - pay attention to each of its organs.
Pisces, surprisingly, has the most sensitive organ - the legs. Cold and slippery Fish will fulfill your every desire, including the most secret fantasy, if you do it with a foot massage. Your Fish will turn into gold if you add back and lower back caresses to the massage.
The most favorite affection in men: opinions of partners
But it’s no secret to anyone what kind of affection men love more. Whatever your partner - tender Cancer, pedantic Taurus or eccentric Gemini, caresses of intimate organs will become the most desired of all! Reviews of girls and men confirm this truth.
As practice shows, not a single male refuses to gently stroke a member, gently touch it with his hands or mouth. As for the "technique" of caresses, opinions differ here - many people like fast movements, and someone likes to relish under slow and languid touches. The main thing is that they be gentle, there are no jerks and rough movements.
Extremely beneficial for men's health is the caress of the “G” point, which is 5 cm from the sphincter. If the partner is relaxed and your relationship is up to par, massage his prostate and point “G” with your finger, penetrating the anus. For shy young people, “G” stimulation from the outside is suitable - massage, slightly pressing with your finger, the perineum between the scrotum and anus. As practice shows, the second method is more acceptable for the stronger sex.
But do not get hung up on other people's opinions and recommendations. Talk with a partner, be interested in his desires, try various affection. And be sure - for an attentive and affectionate woman, a man is ready for a lot, even for a new mink coat in a hot summer!