About how it happens.
You have a long trip ahead. Walking calmly along the pier waiting for your train and with great joy absorbing the ice cream bought at the nearest kiosk, you suddenly stop and freeze for a moment in a pleasant frenzy. A beautiful Apollo goes to meet you, attracting the attention of all the women she meets. He gives you a passing glance and, looking at the ticket, continues to search for his carriage. Announced train departure. And suddenly the doors of the compartment open, and HE comes in ...
Lovely girls, I think the situation is familiar to many of us when we just want to fall through the ground, just not to think every second how to like it, how to fall in love with a guy, how to start communication and what to talk about, at the same time experiencing discomfort and stiffness in movements . An obsessive question arises in my head: how to fall in love with a guy who sits opposite you literally a stone's throw away?
Here I want to note that if you want and appropriate behavior, falling in love with a guy is not as difficult as it seems at first glance, it’s more difficult to develop this feeling into a healthy relationship, which is much more difficult.
Getting down to action.
Unfortunately, our men are brought up in the spirit of “men don’t cry,” which means that their emotional sphere remains undeveloped and mean.
But today we will not talk about them, but about us - the fair sex. Namely, how to fall in love with a guy you see for the first time, and what actions should be taken in relation to the object of sympathy.
I want to immediately warn you, my dear readers: no matter what you do, whatever tricks you resort to, everything should be light and unobtrusive. The guy should think that everything happens as he wants (primacy in relationships is in the nature of men). Deliberate action can lead to the opposite effect and scare away the young man.
First, you need to make it clear to the man that you are interested in communicating with him. It all depends on the circumstances in which you met. If you were introduced by friends, and you are in the same company, or by the will of fate, you were there for some time (as in the situation described at the beginning), then, in this case, it is easiest to start a conversation that can turn into a conversation for the whole evening.
It is important to remember several things:
- carefully listen to what he says and monitor the progress of his thoughts;
- find positive traits in him and often voice them (praise increases the self-esteem of a man, and you can quickly gain his location);
-periodically, but in the case, insert your remarks (this will show that you are really interested in his story);
- smile more often and behave cheerfully and naturally (as statistics show, men prefer cheerful active girls more than sad and languidly sighing!).
If at the same time you have a broad horizons and can support any conversation, he will be delighted and will not leave you all evening. The result is not long in coming.
Behavior of a boyfriend in love
The following symptoms will help you determine whether you have reached your goal:
- he constantly seeks to communicate with you (calls, invites to meet, tries to spend all his free time with you);
- wants to know as much as possible about you, is interested in your hobbies and preferences in music, food, art, etc.
- Does not notice the surrounding women, only you exist for him!
- Does not seek to introduce you to his friends (fear of competition);
- he is ready to solve all your problems, if only to free up time for your communication;
- Well, of course, actively provide attention signs in the form of flowers, gifts ... here a flight of fantasies is possible in a wide range, from verses of one’s own composition to insane acts committed for the object of adoration!
I hope, dear girls, I opened the veil a little in understanding how to fall in love with a guy. The main thing in this matter is not to be disappointed when the goal is achieved, so value yourself and choose the worthy!