From the olden days, anal sex was considered forbidden in most cultures. On the one hand, there was a prejudice: everything connected with the area located between the buttocks is considered dirty. On the other hand, such an act was considered perverted and did not lead to the achievement of the “true” natural goal - procreation. Today, this kind of pleasure is not looked so strictly, however, the majority of illiteracy in matters of anal sex often leads to injuries and serious illnesses. Therefore, it seems logical to consider the features of this act, the rules for preparing for it, and the appropriateness of this type of proximity in general.
What is anal sex?
The answers to this question in different segments of the population are of very different emotional colors.
“Debauchery!” Exclaim peremptorily alone.
- A way to avoid pregnancy? - others suggest.
“A particular pleasure,” say the third.
There are other answers, often inspired either by ignorance of the subject, or a hypocritical attitude towards sex in general. Who is right? What is anal sex? You can get a relatively complete picture of it only by contacting dictionaries and sexologists. They will help to understand the difference between sexual intercourse and stimulation, how to properly receive such erotic pleasure without harming the health of the partner.
What is anal sex (penitration, coition)? This is a relationship in which one participant, active, inserts a penis or simulator into the anus of another, passive. In general, in medicine, only the introduction of a member is considered a full sexual intercourse. The use of its substitutes (dildos, strap-ons, any foreign objects) is called stimulation. However, people rarely distinguish between these concepts.
Perversion or not?
Despite the fact that today sexual intercourse of this kind is not considered a perversion, many still treat him with disgust and disgust. Probably, such people do not know that coitus of this kind exists not only in same-sex couples. It is practiced in diverse relationships. Moreover, there are situations in which proper anal sex is the only acceptable type of intimate relationship. Here are some of these situations. All of them arise at a time when generally accepted intimacy is impossible.
- Due to long and painful periods.
- During pregnancy, immediately after birth.
- With pathology of development or diseases of the genital organs.
- When you want to save hymen.
Finally, an act of this kind enhances erotic sensations. So what is anal sex? Panacea? Perversion? A way to fool nature? Neither one nor the other, nor the third. Anal sex is one of many ways to achieve sexual pleasure. Following the rules, you can get vivid, unforgettable impressions from him, expand your sexual experience.
How it's done?
How to painlessly engage in anal sex? Strictly adhere to the most important commandment: sex of this kind should only be voluntary. Only the readiness of both partners for a new relationship will bring true pleasure from the process and help to avoid injuries.
Usually, passive partners are held back by fear of pain. They tighten, contract, and this makes penetration really very painful or impossible. How to start anal sex without pain? Pay special attention
to foreplay. They should be especially gentle and sophisticated. Caressing a woman (or a passive partner), a man should gradually approach the desired zone. You can lightly touch her tongue or lips, touch the clitoris ... You need to caress the partner until she completely relaxes. The psychological moment is very important here. Only a loving man, able to understand and support a partner, can give her unusual pleasure. First, one finger is inserted into the sphincter, then two. It is possible to proceed to a full-fledged act only when the lady does not show resistance, remains relaxed. Important: before anal sex, you must necessarily use the lubricants intended for this purpose. It can be Exxtreme Glide, Contex Strong, JO Personal Lubricant H2O COOL, ANAL GEL DESIRE, etc. They facilitate sliding, have a warming or cooling effect. Of course, the doctor is the best adviser when choosing lubricants.
We follow the rules - protect your health
The first penetration should be very light and shallow, and frictions rare, smooth, soft. The sphincter is equipped with very powerful muscles, stretching which at one time means forever injuring your partner. Often inept sex results in various dysfunctions, tears, and infections. That is why to achieve an orgasm during anal sex, partners must be patient and cautious. To avoid complications from the experiment, it is recommended to gradually switch to a new kind of proximity, observing some rules:
- Discuss in advance the possibility of proximity of this kind.
- A few weeks before her, a woman can begin self-training. She can get used to stretching, gradually introducing small simulators. Better to do it in the bathroom, slowly, carefully. As soon as the sphincter begins to relax, you can proceed to the act with a partner.
- Before intimacy, you must do an enema. Firstly, it will protect against unpleasant moments, and secondly, it will reduce the risk of infection with Escherichia coli or other infections that live in the intestines.
- At the first discomfort, friction should be discontinued. You can not engage in this type of sex with hemorrhoids, cracks, the presence of any type of disease or infection.
Be careful!
You can have unusual sex no more than twice a month. Frequent penetration increases the risk of developing sphincter dysfunction, which can only be cured with surgery. In addition, infection can penetrate the small cracks that often form with such caresses. Therefore, do not practice them too often.
Anal sex is not a perversion, but a way to expand and diversify intimate experiences. With the right attitude towards him, such a coitus is able to revive a marital relationship, to blossom the intimate life of partners with new, unfamiliar colors.