No one doubts that boys and girls are very different from each other in psychological characteristics. But these differences are not so strong as to really consider us as representatives of different planets. We are basically alike - in the need to be needed, loved and protected. What do the girls want?
How many languages do you know?
American psychologist Geri Chapman found that in relationships, both men and women, there are five "languages" to express their feelings. And depending on what "language" your darling speaks, you need to behave in one way or another. All girls want love, but this can be expressed differently in different types of girls.
Physical love
Girls of this type value primarily the physical side of the relationship. But do not count on quick sex: they can see perfectly who is serious about them and who is not. Pikaper girls of this type almost never get. After all, in order to get sex from her, you need a long and tender relationship with touches and kisses. What do girls who are prone to physical demonstrations of love want? They need tenderness, affection and trust.
Words have a price
Girls who value words are also not easy prey. After all, they don’t just need poems downloaded on the Internet. Such a girl will be with a guy who understands her well as a person and knows how to correctly, appropriately and in time tell her words of approval and praise. Such women are the smartest among the representatives of all five types, because the logical, left, hemisphere prevails in them . What do girls who value words want? Sincere recognition and deep understanding.
Give yourself a present?
There are also types of girls who value gifts. This does not mean that they are by nature more mercantile than others, just so arranged. They will not be impressed by a concert ticket or serenades under the windows. To prove your love, you will have to give them useful and beautiful things, for example, visit some exclusive gift shop. To distinguish such girls from self-serving money suckers, watch your chosen one. A lover of gifts loves not only to accept, but also to make gifts, unlike a half-hysterical liar.
Time can not be returned
There are girls who value a good time most of all. It is on these that you can count on those striving for love victories. But there are also differences: one needs to be given three hours before the moment of sex, the other needs to be “walked” and entertained for three months. What do girls who care about quality of time want? Vivid impressions and memories. Give them this - and you can have amazing sex and interesting relationships. Such girls are the most creative.
A little help?
The last of the categories in question is very important to be helped. Not because they are helpless or insecure. It’s just that your efforts will prove to her that she is important to you. Explain her difficult tasks at the university, bring bags, make coffee in bed - and you will have a huge impact on such a girl.
Girls of all types want love, only love can be different. By the way, men have the same five types.