Does it exist love at first sight? There is hardly a person who did not ask this question. And each one will surely have several examples confirming both one and the other point of view. The fact that a person can be liked literally in a split second does not require proof. Each of us faced a similar situation. However, each had its own end to a similar story. That is why people's opinions about love at first sight are so dramatically different.
But if at least one person tested it, then does it exist? Let's not rush to conclusions. The fact is that people easily confuse love and love. Falling in love is a temporary attraction to a person. And love is something more, a kind of union of two hearts, requiring the test of time.
If you have experienced feelings like love at first sight for a person, how can you be 100% sure that it is love, not love? In fact, nothing. You can only trust in fate and hope that relations with this person will be long and happy.
By the way, it is faith in fate that explains the beliefs of many people that love at first sight still exists. According to the theory of kindred spirits, from which it simply blows romanticism, each of us has a soul mate in this vast world, one only, and we must find it, otherwise there will never be happiness in our personal lives. If it really is, but it is impossible to prove or refute this theory, it is quite logical that when we meet such a person, we intuitively feel that this is the very person with whom we are destined to live the rest of our lives.
But since such a feeling is rare and occurs only once in a lifetime, and people necessarily want to experience it, very often an ordinary strong attraction is taken for love at first sight. In order not to let yourself be deceived by our hormones, it is enough to learn to distinguish love from falling in love.
Love gives a feeling of lightness, happiness, and the beauty of being, while love acts as a powerful addiction, riveting us to the object of adoration and making us nervous, agitated and unhappy. In addition, falling in love tends to pass quickly enough when the person we fell in love with disappears from our lives. Love will never pass.
Of course, love is much more common. That is why many people are scalded about false love at first sight and lose faith in it. But true love must come to everyone sooner or later. And it doesn’t matter in what form it will catch us. Perhaps you will go to this for several years, from this love will not be worse than those who fell in love in the first moment.
And if you still doubt that love exists, remember the call of first love, it is impossible to confuse with anything. At that time, no one thought about money, social status and other nonsense. First love is a magical feeling that should open before us the doors to the magical world of human relations. Unfortunately, society now interprets these feelings differently and fosters a materialistic attitude towards love. Having burned himself several times, a person begins to believe that, in fact, there is no love, and selfish interests rule everything.
If you are possessed by such thoughts, perhaps meeting with first love will help you. No, this is unlikely to be your “person for life”, simply this meeting will return you faith in miracles and will help you take a fresh look, or rather, look at the beauty of human relations in the old way.
Do not lose this faith, and you can still enjoy love at first sight, which can turn your whole life. And even if it ends unsuccessfully, do not be discouraged, at least you will have something to remember, and your true love will definitely come.