More recently, pregnancy was equated with illness, and a pregnant woman was forced to limit her activity as much as possible. Sex during pregnancy was under the strictest ban. It was believed that it could harm a child. Fortunately, such worldviews have sunk into oblivion, and now future mothers can lead a full life, including sexual life. Making love while waiting for a child not only does not harm the woman and her unborn baby, but can even be very useful.
Firstly, from a purely psychological point of view. For nine months, the figure changes very much, there are violations in the hormonal background of a woman, which affects her attractiveness. Of course, in many cases, a pregnant woman, on the contrary, only becomes prettier, acquiring a certain inner light, but she herself feels insecure due to her rounded forms. In this case, sex during pregnancy will help you to feel as if desired and the most beautiful for your spouse.
By the way, the future father himself also experiences considerable discomfort during this difficult period. Additional responsibility falls on him, big changes are coming, his social role is changing . Moreover, his duet with his wife turned into a trio, and it seems to him that the wife began to devote less time to him than before pregnancy, she began to love him less. Sexual relationships can alleviate this discomfort, help reconcile with the new status, and bring future parents closer. But the rejection of them is fraught with the emergence of a gap between the spouses, their distance from each other. But after childbirth there will inevitably come a period of abstinence, already for medical reasons. So is it worth it to limit yourself in advance?
Many women note that sex during pregnancy becomes brighter, more sensual. This is due to an increase in the sensuality of the woman herself, with the game of hormones, with the fact that one does not need to think about contraception. Very often, it is during this period that a woman receives the most vivid impressions, the most vivid orgasm. Sexual games are becoming more liberated. By the way, pregnancy is an excellent occasion to diversify your intimate life. Not all sex poses used in the pre-pregnancy period are now convenient, which means it's time to look for new options. In fact, there are practically no restrictions. The main thing is that the future mother and the growing baby should be comfortable. Therefore, it is better to choose postures during pregnancy so as not to exert pressure on the rounded tummy.
For example, in the first and second trimester, variations in the
missionary position are possible
, but the man must rely on outstretched arms so as not to cause inconvenience to the partner. In the third trimester, this pose already causes some difficulties.
Until the moment of birth, poses are suitable when the man is behind, and the woman is either lying on her side or standing on all fours. In this case, there is no pressure on the stomach, the expectant mother is comfortable, and the man can freely caress the whole body of the partner.
The pose when the woman is on top is good because the partner herself can adjust the depth of penetration, its inclination, pace.
Sex during pregnancy, if there is no medical reason to refuse it, will bring great pleasure to both partners, allowing them to become closer both on the physical and psychological level.