Not all women agree to be number two in the life of a beloved man. However, this sometimes happens. The deficit of men after 30 is felt quite strongly. Especially worthy men, because it’s very difficult to find a free good man at this age. So you have to agree to a relationship with not free. Do they have a future?
Relationships with a married man very rarely lead to a new marriage. This happens only if the wife puts her husband out the door after learning about the betrayal. However, one cannot count on such an easy outcome if the man is really worth something. Wives can live “blindly” for decades, even if the spouse is “caught” in the open. The second half of your married man may simply not notice the betrayal, because the “official explanation” will force her to do something. And most women in marriage lose their shape and become less interesting for new men. That is, a sensible wife will not file the branch on which she comfortably settled. After all, after a divorce, it is very difficult for a woman to find a new husband, especially if she has more than one child. So the marriage with your beloved soon you will not wait.
But after all, relationships with a married man are not always built on the basis of the mistress's hopes for a wedding. It turns out much more honest when a lover simply receives money from someone else's husband and makes love to him regularly. No expectations - no guarantees. At the same time, the lover becomes something like a psychotherapist, to whom a spoofing husband complains about a bored spouse. The only drawback of this approach is its limited time. Women age, and over time, the former beloved will find a replacement on the side. The exception is if a woman manages to create very comfortable conditions for a man. Then she can remain a “fighting friend” for many years. And when the husband’s children grow up, he can marry a trusted woman. But this happens very rarely and only with women who can build very tender and trusting relationships. But such women usually do not need to be a lover - they are dragged to the altar very quickly and at any age.
In general, it is better not to try to maintain a relationship with a married man. The psychology of subjects cheating on wives is such that, in principle, they are not ready to build monogamous relationships. They have a very high need for novelty, which means that for more than a few years they will not want to have business with one lover.
What if you do have a relationship with a married man? Try to get the most out of this situation. Not in the sense of money, but in the sense of personal and professional development. Go study, work on your appearance, change your character. If you become an elite professional, you will not need to be afraid that your married will leave you. And if, in addition, you have a stunning figure, a well-groomed face and learn to communicate with men, then you will not have to linger in the role of a lover. You will be called to get married.
A good alternative to a relationship with a married man is to find a husband abroad. This is quite real for a slim and pretty woman of any age. The husband will be 10-15 years older, but this is better than being a disempowered concubine of the "domestic producer." So go ahead - learn foreign languages ​​and learn communication techniques. And everything will work out if you learn to write interesting letters and create an atmosphere of psychological comfort.
Do not remain a lover - look for a man who needs only one woman. But you shouldn’t try to marry a married person - he is, in principle, an unreliable person. Over time, you will find a man who needs you alone. Work on your body and soul - and soon you will become a happy wife. And let lovers be short-sighted and stupid. You deserve better?