We are all different, and if someone communicates with the opposite sex “with a bang”, then for others to squeeze out at least an elementary “hello” becomes an insurmountable problem. Increased shyness and tightness can be characteristic of both men and women of different age categories. But today we’ll talk about youth, about boys and girls. More precisely, how to start a conversation with a guy who is not distinguished by courage and relaxedness.
For example, you see a guy for the first time, but something tells you: this person can change your life for the better. Evaluate the situation and act creatively. You will be afraid, shy, complexed later, after. And now - imbued with one thought: “If we do not meet, I will not speak - he will disappear in the crowd, and we will never see each other again!” The best motivation for your further actions, dear lady, and not necessary! And then - according to the circumstances.
Some recommendations:
- How to start a conversation with a guy if you are traveling in transport? It’s hard to come up with a more ideal opportunity! Tolcheya is your ally. You can ask permission to hold on to his elbow, making a grimask of helplessness and confusion on his face, patting eyelashes for persuasiveness. No matter how stupid it looks - it will work, you can be sure! After all, you will touch upon one of the main psychological male “fad”: by your request, make it clear that you see in a young man a strong, self-sufficient individual that can protect a weak woman. And if the guy is sitting, ask permission to sit on his lap! Believe me, you only need to get courage for the first sentence: “Sorry, I'm so tired (at sports training, dancing, shopping around the shops, looking for an escaped dog - in a word, compose as plausibly as possible), there is no strength to stand, and it’s warmer together (if it’s winter) ... ” And then communication with the guy will go by itself. After all, now you are young, and youth itself is a charm, plus some tricks of owning cosmetics ... The young man will be pleased with the attention of a pretty stranger. If he himself is not shy and not clamped, an interesting lyrical adventure is provided to you!
- Do you see a pleasant young man just outside or outside a cafe window? Well, and there are many ways to start a conversation with a guy. If you are with a girlfriend, you can approach as close a distance as possible (without violating decency, of course!) And, say, a loud, infectious laugh (but not a vulgar laughter) to attract his attention. Look at him several times, trying to catch his eye and smile a little noticeably to him personally. Having noticed such obvious signs of attention, the young man himself will not fail to meet you. Another opportunity to start a conversation with a guy in this situation is to approach him and say that you and your friend argued about something and ask you to become a judge in your dispute (we can talk about the sensational film and its director, about some book, athlete, etc.). The main thing here is the first step. And then things go by itself.
- Do you like a young man living next door or studying with you in the same institution, you go to the general gym, do you have a real opportunity to meet him several times a day on the streets, in corridors and other places? Watch him, find out his daily routine. Try to catch his eye often. At the same time, it is desirable that you have something that sets you apart from the crowd, this will make meeting a guy easier. For example, bright clothes, long flowing hair ... Seeing you several times a day in different situations, the guy will get used to you, will begin to subconsciously perceive you as “your own”. After a week and a half of such meetings, once again passing by, say hello to him. Make it a normal, business-like tone for granted. And so a couple of days. Soon the young man will greet you first, then the tone can be made warmer, sincere, and this will be the next stage of your task - how to start a conversation with a guy. In this situation, he will already take the next step towards rapprochement!
Notes at the end
What we advised you in this article, dear girls, is probably only one hundredth of the possible options. You can contact the guy about your cell phone, referring to his malfunction, you can ask the way or find out what time it is, take an interest in the breed of his dog or ask him to hold his leash until you tie the laces on the sneakers or fasten the unfastened boot ...
The main thing - do not be afraid, do not put out. And when the conversation started - try to behave naturally, and unobtrusively let the young man understand that he likes you.
You have more romance in your life!