There are several billion couples on Earth. In traditional societies, people are introduced and married often by agreement of only one side. But there are many happy couples who have gone through all stages: acquaintance, friendship, love (meeting), marriage. And often girls express their intention to meet. Men are spoiled by attention, there are fewer of them - therefore girls have to take the initiative on themselves. How to invite a guy to meet? After studying the theory, proceed to practice.
It would be necessary to decide
There is one very bright author of books on the relations of men and women. Male author, Andrei Ilyichev. So he recommends to decide whether you have serious intentions with respect to this man immediately, before you offer something to the guy you like. Because otherwise you risk choosing the wrong line of behavior and make problems on your beautiful head. So turn it on and make a decision initially. Then there will be no deceived hopes, a ten-year unsuccessful “civil marriage” and the fate of a single mother. These are the theoretical foundations of the issue.
When not to complicate
If you decide that in relation to a man you have a strong attraction, and your head went round, then perhaps you need to approach the issue frivolously. And make a man his lover. Then honestly tell yourself, “I want to date a guy for sex.” Choose a moment when the guy is alone. And say: “I want to meet with you there at such and such a time, no one should know, we will make love. Do you want? " The probability of a positive answer is very high, especially if the guy is sure that everything can be done secretly. Well, in general, if you are to his taste. Just don’t count on relationships, and good sex is unlikely to succeed - they don’t try for strangers.
Incorrect wording
If you like a man and you feel the potential in him, and not just the potency, you have to go the hard way. We will consider a situation when you are already familiar. How to invite a guy to meet? Clearly, this is not about dating, but about ongoing relationships. Therefore, it is better ... not to mention the word "meet." This, of course, sounds unobtrusive, but too convenient for a guy and uncomfortable for you. Therefore, the wording needs others.
Main option
You are not in kindergarten, so feel free to express your feelings to preschoolers. How to invite a guy to meet, implying nevertheless a relationship? In general, there are several approaches. Firstly, one-time meetings can be initiated in connection with his hobby. He loves to play the guitar - express a desire to learn to sing his favorite songs. If he is well versed in computers - ask for a consultation several times. And then honestly say, "I like you, and I would like to be your girlfriend." They may refuse you, but the main thing is not to show the frustration and thank him for his honesty. Although it is likely that they will agree. Very often, a guy secretly dreams: “I want to meet a girl,” but he’s afraid to talk.
Impersonal methods
The second approach is to write him a message with the same words on the social network, email or even SMS. This is for the brave - but the option is less intrusive. He may laugh at you with friends, but it’s also an indicator that it’s better not to do with a guy. And in feelings there is nothing shameful. The third approach is to call and say the same thing. The option is good in that you can feel its mood, but the method is still less annoying than a personal meeting. And friends have nothing to show.
How to invite a guy to meet? Decide on your intentions, choose a method - and go, to the best relationship in your life. Everything will work out, the main thing is to be sensitive to his reactions and flexible. Sometimes it happens that a guy refuses, and then offers to be his girlfriend. You only need to decide if you forgive.