If you really like a young man, but you’re still wondering what kind of feelings you feel for him and, accordingly, how to proceed, throw a daisy and fortune telling on the cards. Try to understand yourself in order to answer the question: "How to understand that in love?" If you find the following “symptoms,” you should think about it.
1. Regardless of what you are doing, all your thoughts are only about him: how good it would be if he was at the moment. In your head, you play various situations and dialogues, thinking about how he could react to your words and actions. How to understand that you are in love? You always want to be with him.
2. You strive to be exactly where there is a high probability of meeting him. You even invite friends to walk, as if by accident, to where he often appears. What is there - for the sake of at least flashing in the distance, you are ready to walk more than one extra kilometer on foot. Perhaps you even adjusted your usual route (from home to school or university) only so that your path coincides or at least intersects with its path.
3. Your look at him can be long. Perhaps you regularly (several times a day) go to his account on the social network and view his pictures. If you met somewhere, then you look at him constantly. Maybe you do it unconsciously, but later you still understand (or someone “told you”) that you really could not take your eyes off him. How to understand that you are in love? You like to look at him, no matter live or through the monitor screen.
4. Each time you try to understand the signs of attention that he gives you, whether they are random or intentional. You remember his views, phrases, and then, dreaming about him, think about them so that they can mean with regards to you: is this a manifestation of sympathy? Even the ordinary phrase: "Hello, how are you?" it seems beautiful to you, because it most likely means that he does not care about your life, your affairs and, of course, you yourself.
5. When you talk to him, you just do not recognize. You instantly lose all your gift of eloquence and begin to insert parasitic words (“well,” “type,” “eeee,” etc.) into your usually perfectly impeccable speech. At the same time, it’s difficult for you to understand his words, as if he speaks an unknown foreign language. How to understand that you are in love? Your thoughts and dreams about him prevent you from focusing on your conversation.
6. All your free and non-free time you fantasize about how you would feel good together. Here he makes you the long-awaited declaration of love, and here you kiss on the last row in the cinema hall. In your dreams you look so perfect with each other that you are in complete confidence that he simply must finally fall in love with you.
7. Your girlfriends are well aware of him and all his virtues thanks to you, because you constantly start a conversation about him or seek to discuss anything related to him. You could talk about him for hours on end, but ... why doesn't he cause such keen interest in anyone except you? How to understand that you are in love? To others, he seems like a completely ordinary guy, and for you he is the most special and unique.
8. You seek to know more about what he is interested in. You start listening to the same music as him, reading the same books, watching movies in the same genre. Perhaps you even ventured to buy a skateboard or roller skates, or you signed up for that particular sports section that he attends. If something is not connected with him, then this ceases to interest you. If the common friends are going to the movies, but he doesn’t go, then you will refuse the film show. And when he plans to leave the city (you are well aware of all his plans), you don’t even know where to put yourself, because there is a terrible prospect of not seeing him for some time.
How to understand that you are in love? Yes, very simple. Even the fact that you are trying to understand this by typing this phrase in a search engine and reading this text at the moment is already a clear sign that you are not indifferent to the guy.