Even 15-20 years ago, the tradition of writing letters to a beloved girl, and indeed to relatives or relatives, seemed to have lost itself. It was much easier for people to call and say everything in words, than to write on paper for a long time, go to the post office, send a letter, and then wait until it reaches its destination. Only young children who did military service in the army continued to write regularly — to their mothers, sisters, or beauties who pledged to wait for their return. And those, in turn, wrote in response. A letter to the beloved in the army from the girl is, of course, sacred. After all, this could raise the military spirit of a soldier. I remember that in the Soviet Union, completely unknown girls wrote to the army team to cheer them up and give them a good mood. After the Internet rapidly entered our lives, the culture of written communication has revived again. This advantage is especially enjoyed by those who find it difficult to express their feelings live. In addition, in a letter, you can think for a long time about each word, expression, or use a template, a sample compiled by a professional, write lines of some famous or unknown author. In a word, a letter to a beloved girl with a declaration of love, especially for the first time, is much easier to write than to say everything at a meeting, looking into her eyes and not knowing what her reaction will be.
Letter to a stranger
There are situations when a guy accidentally meets a girl and falls in love with her at first sight. For some time he watches her, guards at her house, becomes her shadow, but does not find a suitable opportunity to come and get acquainted. Then he decides to write to her. Such a love message has its own specifics. At the very beginning of the letter, the young man should introduce himself, tell about himself: what he is doing, what are his interests, etc. Next, he should write about when and where he saw her for the first time, describe how she looked, what she was dressed and etc. Then you need to admit that she made a strong impression on him, and then add: "Maybe this is love at first sight?". After that, you can write that he would be happy to meet her and finally get to know her. And at the very end of the letter, the guy will have to leave his contacts, phone number, address of his profiles on social networks, etc. It will be very romantic if he immediately appoints her a date, for example, in the following expressions: "I will wait for you every day or every Thursday (Tuesday, Wednesday, etc. - it’s not important) at such-and-such a time, in such-and-such a place, until you come. " It is better to send a letter by mail, and for this the guy will have to establish her exact address, name and surname of the girl.
A letter from a shy guy to his beloved
Very often there are situations when young people - a girl and a guy - meet almost every day (they can work in the same business center, or one of them is an employee of a company whose client is another, etc.), but not being introduced to each other, do not even say hello. Every day the guy more and more falls in love with the girl, perhaps she notices his interest in her person, but does not show, and because of his natural shyness, he does not dare to approach and meet. Finally, the young “Romeo” takes courage and writes a letter to her beloved girl about the feelings he feels for her.
Of course, the fate of the relationship between the guy and the girl depends on how this message is written. The main thing here is to be sincere, polite, accurate in the selection of words. If you want to make any comparisons, then this should not sound funny, but appropriate. Sometimes girls like it when a declaration of love is written in poetic form. Of course, for this, the lines of a pen of some classic are suitable, but not those vulgar rhymes that can be found on questionable sites.
A competent approach to writing a letter
It is desirable that the love message does not contain grammatical errors. If you are not an expert in spelling, then try to use only those words in the letter that you are sure of the spelling. It is better to avoid slang expressions, but also not to write high-sounding phrases on your own behalf. But if your chosen one is a refined nature, then for the message to her, couplets of poems by Pushkin are perfect, which will need to be smoothly entered into the text of the letter to your girlfriend. In your own words, it is better to tell about feelings either at the very beginning of a love message, or at the end. It will be very useful to describe what you felt at the moment when you first saw her. But you need to be very careful in choosing expressions. They should be without pathos or any vulgarity. The girl must believe in the sincerity of your feelings and not at all doubt them. Only then can we count on success.
How to send a letter?
Today there are many options for doing this. The simplest, of course, is to find out the email address and send a beautiful letter to your girlfriend in electronic form. You can also send her a personal message on the social network in which she is registered, but before that you need to ask her to “friends”, because without this your message can go to spam. If she adds you to the list of “friends”, she will immediately see who is the author of the letter. And this means that there will be no intrigue. But if you decide to write a real love message on a snow-white sheet of paper, and by hand, put it in a beautiful envelope and send it to the office with a large bouquet of roses, then this will have a completely different effect - be sure that the girl will definitely appreciate your efforts. A letter to your girlfriend can also be sent via mail. It will be intriguing.
A letter from a soldier to his girlfriend
Every young man going to serve in the army wants to know that his beloved is waiting for him. While in the military unit, in his spare time from service, he will dream about it, make plans for the future: how they will submit documents to the registry office, how they will choose a wedding dress, how they will play a wedding, they will celebrate their honeymoon, going on a honeymoon somewhere hot sea, then they will have children, etc. Naturally, with all this, the young man will not be eager to share with the subject of his love. And the most convenient way for this is to write a letter to your girlfriend in your own words.
Content
Of course, a love message should not immediately begin with a listing of the events that the couple will go through after the guy returns from the army. At the very beginning, he should tell the girl about his feelings, about how much he longs for her, how he lacks the tender look of her eyes, how he dreams of standing next to her, admiring her beauty, holding her hand and breathing in the aroma that emanates from her beautiful hair. One must also ask if she experiences the same thing, thinking about him. Indeed, in this way he will dictate the tone of her reply letter. Here's a little trick that will force even the most restrained girl to also tell about her true feelings, about her love, about longing and expectation.
Emotionality
As a rule, after receiving a sincere touching letter from a soldier, even if it is written a little clumsily, the beloved sends him a message containing many kind words and assurances about the reciprocity of feelings, and this can touch the soldier to tears. A letter to your beloved girl in your own words, believe me, has truly magical power. And if it is sincere, then no beauty can resist his charms. In the middle part of the message you need to write about the bright future, about your dreams related to your beloved. After reading this, it will be easier for the girl to cope with longing, because she will also become involved in these dreams, and each night before going to bed she will develop forthcoming events in her imagination. Naturally, in response, she will also share her dreams, which will provide inexhaustible material for future letters.
Declaration of love from the army
In the previous chapter, we looked at how to write a letter to a beloved girl about obvious and mutual love. However, very often it happens that a guy, before going to the army, does not dare to open up to his chosen one. And now, being in a military unit, a young man, looking at how his comrades write letters to their girls, takes courage and decides to open himself to the subject of his dreams. How to compose such a message, what words to choose? Then he realizes that writing “love” in a letter to his girlfriend is not so easy, although it is much easier than standing in front of her, looking into her eyes and pronouncing his confession.
Letter from the army (template)
So that no one bothers him to concentrate, the guy retires, takes out a blank sheet of paper, a pen and writes the first line: “Hello, (name of the girl), he writes to you (his name). You may know that I am currently serving in the army. I really hope that you noticed my absence. You know, I’ve been in love with you for a very long time. It happened (there, under such circumstances). But you always seemed so impregnable to me, and I still could not admit to you my feelings. I can’t hope for anything or ask you, but if you answer me, I will be the happiest person in the world. I already imagine how I hold in your hands the reply letter you sent. I will keep it in my breast pocket, next to my heart. Believe me, being here, away from everyone, I realized that you are the dearest person to me, that I was very wrong not to admit you before leaving. Every time I close my eyes, you appear in front of my mind's eye, your appearance, so beautiful, mysterious. I fall asleep thinking of you. I love you very much! I wish I had wings, at least for a moment to return to our city and see you for a second, my love.
PS I can’t demand anything, but I really hope that you will still answer me, and my feelings will resonate in your heart. I look forward to at least one line written by your hand. "
Oh sad
It happens that a girl promises a soldier to wait for his return, but does not keep her word. It is very bad when a guy is in ignorance, waiting and hoping, when he sees his beloved, and when he returns, he is deeply disappointed. I recalled a scene from the movie "The Brigade" when Sasha Belov returned from the army, and his girlfriend, betraying him, set foot on the wrong path. From this moment, the guy breaks his whole life. However, the situations are different, but if the girl is honest, then at least she should write a letter to the ex-boyfriend and tell that she is not going to wait for him anymore. Of course, this really hurts the guy, he will be very upset, but at least it will be honest. By the time he returns home, he will surely be cured of unhappy love.
Response letter
Imagine a situation when a girl sent a message to a soldier that she fell in love with another and did not intend to wait for him anymore. Some guys do not want to put up with the situation and decide to make their last attempt to regain their lover's disposition and arouse former feelings. To this end, they write a touching farewell letter to their girlfriend. As a rule, in such messages there are many memories of those minutes during which both the guy and the lady of his heart felt real, genuine happiness. Perhaps the girl forgot about them, and when she remembers, she will understand that she should not do this to a person who could give her happy moments. You can recall your common dreams and all that was common between you - common plans for the future, common views on the same things, general attitude to life. Maybe she doesn't have all this with her new boyfriend. Naturally, you don’t need to ask her not to leave you, come to her senses and come back - this may present you in her eyes as a weak-willed, characterless person. Try not to reproach her for infidelity at all, and not to mention the new lover in the letter. You can once again tell her what you feel for her, and that you are ready to forgive her momentary weakness. It is necessary to put a special emphasis on this. Perhaps she did not even think about how strong her feelings for the new guy are? And after you write about it, she will think in this direction and suddenly realize that she really loves only you.
Ending
It is best to finish the letter to your beloved girl in the situation that was described in the previous chapter with the wishes of all the best, and first of all, happiness, no matter what. One must strive to look in the eyes of a beloved as a generous person who is ready to understand and forgive. It is better to send such a letter not by mail, but send it through some acquaintance in order to be sure that it has reached its destination. If a girl does not hasten to answer this message, then try to tear it out of your heart and forget it. After all, as they say, you will not be forcibly sweet. You have done so much by replying to her letter. Indeed, many guys would immediately erase the name of the unfaithful girl from their memory and their heart. You need to try to distract yourself with other activities, forbid yourself to think about her and everything connected with her name.
In conclusion
So to summarize. A letter to your beloved, regardless of whether the girl knows about the feelings of the guy and whether they are mutual, should be written in a very polite, respectful form. It should not be familiar, contain slang expressions. Of course, if we are talking about a couple, then the young man can use all those kind words that he usually calls his lover. It is very interesting when lines of beautiful poems are added to the letter’s text, and you can also put a random photo of the girl in the letter’s envelope when she didn’t even suspect that someone was watching her. In a word, a very beautiful and touching letter to a girl can strengthen your relationship and make them brighter and warmer.