It has not been a surprise for women for a long time for the existence of such a type of men as "sissy". And recently, individuals of the stronger sex that fall under this classification are becoming more and more. No one can really explain why this is happening, but the fact that his mother is to blame for the infantilism of his own offspring is an indisputable fact. Especially tender “specimens” of sons are brought up by mothers who have no husband. So they "shift" all their love and excessive care to the child.
These women rush with their offspring, like chicken with an egg:
feed, drink, pet a shirt, wash panties with socks, put to bed and sing a lullaby. And all this interspersed with suckling, despite the fact that the child had long since emerged from the age of five and became quite a mature, independent man. But is it so independent if mommy controls it everywhere? “Don’t go there, don’t be friends with that, don’t do this ...” It often comes to the point that the mother decides where to study her son and whom to marry. And whether to marry at all ...
Even if a sissy is even a mother and wants to start a family of his own, the parent will still not give him peace. Especially if, contrary to her instructions, he did not marry the girl she chose for him. But how so? She raised her boy, raised, cherished and cherished, didn’t sleep at night, and then some kind of a “Wagtail” came and took the treasure. But what about a glass of water in old age? And a hidden (and sometimes open) war begins against the daughter-in-law, who doesn’t wash the dishes so much, doesn’t iron her shirts and, in general, does not like her son. Because only mom can truly love. And she systematically begins to set up her big-age baby against his wife.
A man, of course, can resist at first, but soon he suddenly discovers how his mother was right, and comparisons
own spouses with a parent will not be long in coming. A woman whose husband is a sissy's mother will either have to take her will into a fist and become better than her mother-in-law (which, in principle, is impossible, from the point of view of her husband), or
file for divorce.The second, alas, happens much more often, because what a sane woman wants to take care of and to nurse an adult man all her life, who is not even able to find food in the refrigerator, not to mention help with the housework?
Therefore, if you do not want to connect your life with a man for whom the word of mother is the ultimate truth, it is worth learning to identify it even before a serious relationship is established. This can be done sometimes right away, sometimes after a while, because infantile men now can disguise themselves as reliable and self-confident. So, if your new acquaintance is a sissy, his signs will be as follows:
- Too often and with special tenderness he mentions his mother (mother, mother, mother, etc.) in the conversation and may be offended or even angry at your most innocent question regarding his relationship with his parent.
- He regularly calls his mother and tells where he is, with whom and at what time he will return home.
- He seeks to “show” you to his mother as early as possible so that, in case of disapproval, he does not spend more time on you.
- Dressing and combing is tasteless only because his mother likes it so much.
- He values ​​some socks, scarves and sweaters with deers (and wears them even if they have been preserved since school times), because my mother knitted or bought.
- It is quite capable of delivering an ultimatum to a girl that she will marry her only if she performs the same functions after the wedding and in the same order as his beloved parent.
- He makes almost no effort to conquer you, because he is a priori sure that only the girl who will take care of him with the same zeal as mother is worthy of him. If you do not, then you will be a bad wife and therefore do not deserve going to a restaurant (good boys have dinner at home), flowers (they are only given to mom on March 8) and gifts (only mother gives them, in the form of deer sweaters )