Women are sophisticated foodies when it comes to sex, and each is different in preferences and tastes. Fortunately, there are certain things that most women love to do in the bedroom. But it often happens that a man on a daily basis forgets about it and her needs remain unsatisfied. One method of satisfaction is femdom. What it is will be described below.
Where did this come from
All the blame for the contradictions in our society, where men rule and female domination is suppressed. Femdom came from leading women, or feminists. They coined the phrase in order to classify their sexual and social desires.
So what is a femdom? In essence, it is female domination and male submission to desires. It is expressed differently and has deep motivation. Various sexual perversions are a manifestation of character and secret desires that can only be realized in bed. The dominant ruler masterfully perverts and feels great pleasure from male humiliation.
Do men like it
Men, in turn, in life mostly outnumber and control the weaker sex, hence the desire for corporal punishment, forced feminization, humiliation. These include:
- games with the phallus;
- forced enemas;
- "Golden Rain";
- body worship.
Why do so many men love femdom? Often husbands want to be domestic slaves of their wives, but the common thread of all these humble desires is the vice of love for the female organ. But it is worth considering the fact that he will never reveal a partner in his life until his beloved touches on this sensitive topic on his own, and it is necessary for the partner to realize that she is ready to meet his impotence.
What a femdom might look like
Excellence can not always be expressed in humiliation and torture, it can look pretty cute, interesting and exciting. Often - this is a tool to diversify family sex life and bring new fantasies to it.
Chaste femdom - what is it? It can be quite soft and consist in the fact that the lady chooses in what position and how sex will occur. Or differ in the assertiveness of the partner and its predominance. The main point is that a man completely submits to her and fulfills her desires.
Non-sexual femdom - what is it? It can also be expressed not only in bed, for example, a humble servant can be entrusted with housework, cooking, massage, makeup, etc.
Best clothes
Sometimes it’s just a sexual performance when a girl dresses up in a fetish outfit. It can be a leather suit with a corset or latex outfit. And of course, one should not forget about shoes. Heels literally put a woman on a pedestal and give her the opportunity to look more impressive. In addition, this not only adds centimeters to its height, but is also quite dangerous, especially if it is stilettos.
Sometimes the mere thought of heel damage is more than enough to assert female dominance and make a man submissive.
Toys
Embody the sweetest, most sophisticated and daring fantasies with magnificent feminine and male toys for femdom:
- Falloprostheses.
- Strap-ons are cowards with internal stimulation.
- Probes - to stimulate erogenous zones.
- Handcuffs for hanging.
- Clamps.
- Rings on a member.
- Conductive gloves.
- Men's chastity belt.
- Masks and helmets.
- Suits and overalls.
- Straitjackets.
- Gags.
- Ropes and ribbons.
- Lashes and weathercocks.
- Spanki and spanking.
- Harnesses for the face with rings and balls and much more.
Insults
Another example is the femdom of humiliation. It is meant to “break the walls,” sometimes through name-calling, and sometimes through derogatory acts. To begin with, a lady can call a person a loser, offend his masculinity:
- shameful deeds are truly limitless;
- you can write offensive words on the body of a slave;
- make him dress in women's clothing (perhaps even in public!);
- make him caress himself with sex toys, etc.
Many men like to enjoy dominance for a long time, focusing on the pleasure of the leader. Some women require more stiffness and can tease or teach chastity using whips and various toys to enjoy it. Domination ensures that he focuses on her pleasure and if he wants to cum again, his submissive behavior rises.
What does femdom lead to insults and humiliations? This can lead to hot kinks, such as faceting - the lady sits on the face of the partner and controls the force of pressing the genitals. Thus, it regulates the flow of oxygen, provokes slight asphyxiation and lack of air, from which it receives incredible sensations and pleasure. Or it makes him caress her tongue again and again until she is finally doubled.
Financial dominance
This method is becoming increasingly popular for those who want to experience female dominance online. In this practice, people are subordinated even more, they begin to offer their money or services. It is easier for these faithful and humble men to live sacrificing in order to satisfy their mistress. This is especially common on the Internet, as it is a real way to punish without any physical interactions. As a result, it is often combined with other forms of femdom that work well, and more often this is humiliation.
Such men beg for the attention of their mistress, who, as a rule, can tell them how pathetic they are or give them tasks that are usually associated with humiliating photos or sissificaton (forcing women to wear women's clothing). This is an incredibly effective way to establish your superiority online.
Who likes it
Humiliation, femdom - this is what many men want to experience at least once, and they are not always so weak and want to devote their lives to serving the woman. Often they just want to give up control for a short time. This is especially common among people who work in conditions where they must be aggressive. With the filing of a woman mistress, they can pamper themselves and become briefly submissive, sweet and helpless. This allows them to relax and diversify their sex life.
Most often these are such professions as businessmen, lawyers, salesmen. It is also noted that mature and experienced women are excellently and effectively engaged in femdom.
How to send a woman
Feminine dominance does not always mean perverse sex, pain, or leather clothing. Some subconsciously strive for a dominant partner. As a rule, these are married men who have a sense of sexual or psychological humility. Very often, this is the exact opposite of what they do in their daily lives. And many are concerned about the question of how to say about their desires to a partner.
Answers to this question can be obtained by observing the woman and taking some steps:
- The dominant lady who loves to do this, willingly takes independent steps to enjoy and enjoy.
- Many wives dominate the business, but not in the bedroom, while others express their dominance more sensually.
- Some frau show their superiority in many aspects of their life and interaction with other people. And some men are looking for a mistress who dominates or controls various aspects of their life outside their intimate relationships.
- Many men are ashamed to reveal their feelings to their wives and are afraid that she will interpret this as an emotional breakdown, be surprised or decide that he has an affair. But if it is a strong couple, then often the couple support the idea and take part in the process with pleasure.
- If a woman with no experience in domination, you can show her interesting websites and read useful and informative articles on this topic. And if the partner such a proposal caused negative emotions, then you should do it slowly and very carefully.
- Cunnilingus and femdom are inseparable things, and you can try to interest a partner with pleasant caresses, gradually involving her.