A man, as a rule, hides his true sympathy for a long time. Psychologists claim that the manifestation of feelings in men is expressed by certain signs: facial expressions, gestures, postures and even a look. How does a man show sympathy, but how do girls like men? Reveal all the secrets.
Signs of sympathy for a man
How does a man show sympathy? It is expressed in two ways: verbally and nonverbally.
Verbal signs:
- showing curiosity for a woman;
- numerous stories about yourself: about tastes, interests, hobbies, etc .;
- Acquaintance with close friends and family;
- the provision of any assistance;
- making surprises and gifts;
- confession in words.
Non-verbal symptoms:
- facial expressions;
- gestures;
- pose;
- timbre of voice;
- look.
Signs of male sympathy are similar to female signs. When a girl wants to draw the guy’s attention to herself, she will straighten her hair, jewelry, flirt and joke in every possible way. In men, the desire to like is inherent in nature. However, representatives of the strong half desire to like is associated with a certain nervousness. For example, he will straighten tousled hair, constantly pull a shirt / t-shirt, smooth his trousers with his palms. From the side it seems a little funny and funny. External anxiety is a sign of sympathy.
What is hidden behind facial expressions?
The facial expressions of a man who sympathizes with a girl is always lively and more expressive than usual. This is due to a great desire to attract attention. How does a man show sympathy with facial expressions? Each word he says will be displayed on the face with emotion. There are other frequent facial expressions that “give out” a man with his head:
- Bites or licks lips - an attempt to calm down. This is the first and most noticeable signal of sympathy for a woman.
- Eyebrows are slightly raised.
- The pupils of the eyes are enlarged.
- During the presence of the woman he liked, the man will constantly smile. Perhaps shyness is hidden beneath an outward smile.
Girls, pay attention to facial expressions. There is a special science that studies the reflection of psychological characteristics and human emotions - physiognomy.
His gestures and postures
How does a man show sympathy with gestures and posture? Certain gestures are the first non-verbal way to show masculinity, care, attention and courtesy in relation to a girl. Thus, a man tries to win not only attention to himself, but also reciprocity.
Gestures and poses that speak for themselves:
- He pulls off the shirt collar, straightens clothes, brushing them off - a manifestation of embarrassment and a desire to like (look better).
- Toe socks will be directed towards the girl - an indicator of interest in her.
- Pose. Spread shoulders, a straight back, hands on hips, on both legs emphasis on the body - a demonstration of self-confidence.
- He puts his thumbs behind the belt - a fairly common case. This is a desire to show the girl confidence.
- The tilt of the body when communicating towards the girl. From the side it will seem that the man somewhat violates the personal comfort zone. Thus, he reduces the existing distance in communication and shows a desire to be closer to her.
- He slightly tilts his head back and lifts his chin a little - a demonstration of authority.
- Subconscious copying of poses and gestures when communicating with a girl is a sign of empathy.
- The communication pose is always open: arms and legs are not crossed - speaks of acceptance and trust.
- The legs are spread a little wider than usual - so, a man demonstrates his masculine dignity at a subconscious level.
All these signs were highlighted by psychologists and physiognomists.
Behavior
In the presence of the woman you like, the man will try his best to draw her attention to himself. To obtain reciprocity, his behavior will be expressed in the following:
- trying to dress "with a needle";
- attempts to touch by chance, by chance;
- takes care;
- jokes;
- says compliments, admires the beauty of the girl;
- notices a change in the mood of a woman;
- shows genuine interest in her hobbies and main activity;
- often smiles.
"A gloomy woman will melt from a smile." The sincerity of a smile is mimic.
Pay attention to such signs:
- facial wrinkles around the eyes;
- "Crow's feet" on the sides of the eyes;
- cheekbones and corners of lips slightly raised.
The first seconds of facial expressions are read by a woman subconsciously. If the above facial expressions do not appear, then be sure that the man uses a smile as a mask. So, the super task of his smile is a deception. And if a man lifts only one corner of his lips - this indicates sarcasm. These important facts need to be addressed.
Another behavioral attribute: his behavior is noble. Here are the most common things and what they talk about:
- escorts home - a manifestation of care;
- payment of travel, order in a cafe or restaurant - a demonstration of financial viability;
- gives gifts - wants to like and evoke positive emotions;
- calls and answers calls (calls back if he was busy) - showing interest;
- during a meeting with a girl, often ignores other phone calls - shows good manners;
- when parting, the man will certainly ask about the opportunity to meet next time;
- when a girl shows courage, courage (even if earlier such behavior was unusual for him) - a demonstration of care and protection.
In these actions - the true motives to please the girl.
What will he talk about?
A man who shows sympathy will always show initiative in communication. He will certainly take an interest in such topics:
- free or not free girl;
- all topics relating to her field of activity and personality;
- regarding her habits, tastes and desires;
So, a man is looking for common ground, and understands what gifts are worth choosing. Signs of sympathy are manifested in an abundance of jokes in communication. Moreover, in jokes, he will show his erudition, eloquence and create an impression of himself as a positive and easy person. From the point of view of psychology, an appropriate joke can defuse a difficult situation and relieve tension from an awkward pause in a conversation.
One of the important signs of sympathy - ask the opinion of the chosen one. In consultation with a woman, a man emphasizes her importance in his life.
What a look?
The eyes are the mirror of the soul. Sometimes a look will tell more than a spoken word. The look of a woman sympathetic to a man speaks volumes. Some signs of a stare in love:
- A "stripping" look glides from head to toe (often lingers on intimate places) - a man subconsciously evaluates a figure hidden under clothes;
- when meeting with the girl’s eyes, the man confusedly looks away;
- in the midst of a relationship, a man in love will look right in the eye, trying to “see” the girl’s reciprocity;
- the gaze will return again and again to the girl (especially in the circle of a large number of people nearby).
On these grounds, you can unravel the intentions of men.
A look will always express a sexual interest in a woman. In the process of communication, the man’s gaze will be more closely and intently.
If the man is a work colleague
Office romances are a constant occurrence from which it is almost impossible to protect oneself. A male colleague is a person who daily sees the object of sympathy in a work environment.
How men show sympathy at work:
- the man became more attentive to the little things, he began to be sharply interested not in working moments, but in personal ones;
- Doesn’t leave work earlier than the employee who likes;
- the gaze is always focused on the potential chosen one;
- shows interest in the personal life of a woman;
- advised on working moments;
- the style of his clothes emphasizes individuality;
- He is interested in the ideals of the employee and tries to comply with them;
- includes masculine charm and gives small gifts.
However, in real life, office novels practically do not exist. This is a dry statistic.
Sympathy of a married man
A married man shows sympathy in such a way as to hide it from others. Most often, married men do not plan to move on to the next stage of the relationship. Their goal is flirting and sexual intimacy.
Symptoms of sympathy are identical. A married man will show every interest in the problems and concerns of the girl. Try to minimize her worries. A man will not help a woman just like that. If he does, know that you are not indifferent to him.
If a man shows sympathy for a married girl, then this is the first sign of his problems in marriage. The manifestation of his sympathy is a chance to escape from problems in the family, and begin a new romantic story.
It is advisable to immediately end the relationship that has not yet begun with a married man. They definitely won’t lead to anything good.
Sympathy of men by zodiac signs: loves - does not love
Character, ability, compatibility and behavior - largely depends on the zodiac sign. If you believe in astrology, find out what zodiac sign of your potential gentleman is and check the correspondence.
How does the male Taurus show sympathy? Taurus unfolds immediately. They are quite practical people of this quality and are looking for a partner. Male Taurus will look at the woman for a long time, study her appearance and character. They show sympathy with increased attention to the girl. A distinctive feature is total control and jealousy of a woman.
How does the Capricorn man show sympathy? Capricorns are always very careful and prudent. They just will not "distribute" their emotions. Each of their actions is deliberately and accurately planned. In relationships, Capricorn men always take the initiative. Capricorns will be interested in the taste preferences of the girl, but they will decide for themselves. For example, he will choose a restaurant. Men of this zodiac sign are not particularly eloquent. You won’t have to wait for compliments from him. Capricorn is a sign of action. The attention and heart of the chosen one will be won by good deeds.
How does a Scorpio man show sympathy? Scorpios always have good intuition. A Scorpio man will pay attention to the inner world and the emotional state of the girl. They are comprehensively erudite and interesting in conversation. However jealous. They will always try to look presentable and notice the smallest accessory on the girl.
Based on typical signs of manifestation of male sympathy, you can immediately answer the question: how do girls show sympathy for a man. Almost the same. Pay attention to non-verbal manifestations of a man’s behavior. The truth of their motives is hidden in them.