What is friendship? Friendship is one of the forms of interpersonal relationships when people have similar interests, outlooks on life and a warm relationship with each other. It also happens that people of different mindsets have completely different characters, but this is what they attract to each other. One person can be calm, and another, like a blast wave, but they complement each other and together they are comfortable.
It is good when there are people who come to the rescue at any moment, who share minutes of joy and sorrow, advise, calm and help make the right decision. It is especially good when there is a childhood friendship that accompanies a person for almost his entire conscious life. When a person grows with you in the same sandbox, runs to your mother to eat pies and knows all your secrets and secrets, as well as fears and failures, but at the same time remains faithful and faithful - this is true happiness. It’s fortunate that there is such a person nearby who will accept all your negative aspects, because he is simply a true friend.
Time passes, people grow up, and, sometimes, lose touch with their comrades, but only real friendship knows no time limits. Only a true childhood friend walks with you next to life. He may not be present every day nearby, but you know that one call - and he will rush.
It is important to be able to maintain relations so that children's friendship does not remain childish, but develops into an adult. We need to appreciate the people who ate more than one pound of salt with you, visited different situations, but left them, while maintaining dignity and loyalty to you.
I would like to give an example in which it is shown how a person did not value relationships and exchanged small things, but in difficult times only a childhood friend came to the rescue and framed his shoulder.
Natalya was friends with Alena from school, they were considered almost sisters, because they were close. We finished school together and went to study even at one institute, only Natalya went to a more prestigious faculty, and Alena went to the most ordinary one. At first, everything was still the same, but by the end of the third year the girls almost did not communicate. It’s just that Natalya did not find time for her friend, and children's friendship gradually began to fade. Alena was very worried, but attempts to talk with Natasha did not lead to anything - the girl claimed that everything was fine, she just did not have time. But Alena somehow saw that she had time not only for her person.
Yes, Natalya found new friends with whom she spent all her free time. Alena secretly hoped that her friend would "see clearly" and that everything would return to its own circles. Meanwhile, she began working in the architectural bureau, got married and at the end of the institute gave birth to a child. Natalia, on the other hand, ran around to parties and practically abandoned her studies - she was transferred to a contracted form of training.
A year later, Natasha also got married and brought her to the apartment, left from her grandmother. I registered my wife to me, since he was from another city. Two years they lived well, a child was also born, Natalya worked in a shoe store, her husband a lawyer. From Alena periodically called up, but no more. But with the institute girls, I ran around the clubs in my free time.
And then it’s like a bolt from the blue - Natalya’s husband reports that she no longer lives here and shows some papers. It turned out that one day he slipped her a document, allegedly to take a loan, which stated that she was giving her apartment to her husband. The husband beat everything well and Natasha remained on the street with her child. When she called her friends at the institute and asked to live until she found a “corner” for herself, everyone had some excuses. None of them entered the position of Natalia and did not come to the rescue. And only Alena, despite the protests of her husband, immediately took her friend to her.
Natalia’s husband sold the apartment and disappeared from the city. She had been staying with Alena for about six months, yet her childhood friendship had won. The girls talked a lot and Natalya realized how blind and cruel she was. Only now she realized who her true friend was.