Along with an unstable or absent erection, premature ejaculation is exactly among the three most common and most terrible for men dysfunctions. Indeed, there is little joy when you are still tuned in to amorous games, experiencing a sweet excitement, looking forward to delightful moments, and your “friend” has done his job quite unfriendly and left the game. Disappointment for both partners, spoiled mood, dissatisfaction ... And this is only in a single case, and when too fast ejaculation becomes the norm (which by definition it cannot be) - this is already fraught with the emergence of complexes, breakdowns, complete collapse of intimate life. So the treatment of premature ejaculation is not a whim, but a necessity.
However, you should immediately make a reservation: not all men who consider themselves to be “quick-shots” need a correction. The duration of sexual intercourse is a very individual thing, and its assessment sins with great subjectivity. If lovemaking lasts several minutes, it’s too early to talk about premature ejaculation and to resort to any interventions. Sexual intercourse with all the preludes lasting about ten minutes is more than normal, because the average duration of “pure” intercourse on average does not exceed even three minutes. Only such an ejaculation can be considered premature, which occurs almost immediately after the penis is inserted into the vagina, or even “on the approaches”. Only in this case, the problem really takes place and can be considered a disease, only in this case you should think about how to get rid of premature ejaculation. If a man "holds on" for a minute or more, he can improve his sexual technique, but in no case "drive", otherwise this may just be the first step to an upset.
So, one does not need to approach oneself too critically, one does not need to think about one's inferiority. Let you be encouraged by the fact that approximately 35 percent of males at one age or another experience premature ejaculation. The reasons for this may be different. Perhaps the most common is the fear of being sexually untenable, the fear that sexual intercourse may fail. The member seems to be in a hurry to "reassure" his master and quickly reaches the desired effect, which is premature. The fear of failure intensifies - the likelihood of early ejaculation increases . Too often a desire to “have fun” can also develop premature ejaculation - for example, excessive masturbation, the sole purpose of which is to get satisfaction as soon as possible. The member, as it were, “gets used” to quickly provide the owner with what he wants and subsequently ejaculates immediately with any sexual actions . Of course, there are pathologies - the consequences of traumatic brain injuries, hormonal disorders, pathologies of the lower parts of the spinal cord, but their percentage is insignificant.
The treatment of premature ejaculation is carried out in several directions - some may be offered by a specialist (and this is the best option), others a man can choose on his own.
A good effect is obtained by the use of various local agents - lubricants and gels containing anesthetics. Applying them directly to the head of the penis reduces its sensitivity, which allows you to extend sexual intercourse. There are condoms with similar lubricants. The method is good because it has no contraindications. But if instead of ointments with the same purpose of lowering sensitivity, tablets are used, then you need to consult a doctor.
Behavioral therapy is the treatment of premature ejaculation, in which a partner who is actively and patiently helps a problem person. By joint efforts, trial and error, using various techniques, such as “stop-start”, you can achieve good results and return to normal the “behavioral instincts” of the member.
Psychotherapy helps to rid a man of the root causes of the disorder, which lie in various fears; In fact, in sexual disorders, as in any disease, there is nothing shameful and reprehensible; from this point of view, the treatment of premature ejaculation is no different, for example, from the treatment of intestinal infections or other misfortunes.