Modern girls have every reason to consider guys fearful and insecure. After all, the recognition of the girl in sympathy they can wait, wait, and never wait. So the girls with the help of various tricks themselves to snatch this recognition.
But it’s good if the girl herself likes this guy, but what if she treats the guy indifferently or in a friendly way? In this case, the guy risks falling into an extremely unpleasant situation - becoming a friend of the girl with whom he is in love. This happens quite often. The guy begins to give the girl signs of attention, invites him to spend time together, actively communicates with her, etc., but at the same time does not let the girl understand that she is attractive to him. As a result, the unlucky gentleman becomes a friend for the girl, and it will be extremely difficult for him to get out of this status.
When a girl’s recognition of sympathy finally ripens in the mind of a “friend,” the girl will perceive this as an extremely unpleasant situation. As a guy, she never considered her friend, but she doesn’t want to lose a friend, so the relationship is likely to return to a friendly channel, and this couple is unlikely to succeed in the future.
The conclusion is simple. Do not drag out with recognition. It is necessary from the very first dates to show that you consider a girl as a girl, and not as a pleasant conversationalist. After all, the recognition of the girl in sympathy - this is by no means a declaration of love to her, it does not oblige to anything. You just let her know that you are interested in her, and you would not mind if your relationship reached a new level.
For this, it is not necessary to use words, and directly say that you like it. Light half hints act in this situation more efficiently. You should flirt with a girl, compliment her, celebrate how she looks, show your jealousy in a joking manner, etc. All this is clear signals for the girl that she is attractive to you. If you do not submit them, then you will automatically be transferred to the category of friends once and for all.
However, you need to leave the stage of easy flirting in time, otherwise you will again become a friend for her, only a friend with whom you can flirt a little. If this prospect does not lure you, then start collecting ideas for declaring love to your girlfriend from the very first date.
Declaration of love should be treated as responsibly as possible. In your relationship, this is a turning point, as well as a very memorable moment for both the girl and yourself. If you meet her for many more years, and possibly marry her, you will remember this magical moment together again and again for many more years. Therefore, carefully prepare for a declaration of love, choose the right place and time, try to create a romantic mood for your girlfriend before saying magic words.
If recognition of the girl in sympathy may be spontaneous, then the girl must wait for a declaration of love herself. Otherwise, her reaction may be ambiguous. But do not be late with your recognition. If your relationship has long entered a romantic channel, do not languish your chosen one, reveal your feelings to her.
The recognition form can be absolutely any. If you are terribly shy about this moment, then you can tell about your feelings in the form of a game or some secret message. Girls really love encrypted declarations of love, because they leave a slight aftertaste of the riddle.
However, the main thing is not to be afraid and not delay with your confessions. For a girl, there is nothing more important than feeling loved, so it makes no sense to be shy about how she will react to the manifestation of your feelings. Even if she does not reciprocate, she will be very flattered and certainly will not make you laugh. In any case, this is better than loving a person and being afraid to admit it.