Who are Alphonse and how to recognize them

Unfortunately, there are more and more single women every year. Why it happens? People like to say that there are three categories of men:

  • Married
  • homosexuals;
  • drug addicts, alcoholics and other rabble.

Who are Alphonse
In addition, the number of women in the country significantly exceeds the number of men. Of course, "there are few princes, and there are not enough of them all." Probably, this was the reason for the emergence of another category of representatives of the strong half of humanity - gigolos. And their number is growing rapidly. After all, women who have not had a personal life tend to succeed at least in their careers. And often succeed in this. Only here the happiness from this, for some reason, does not increase.

So who are gigolos? Roughly speaking, these are men who live off women. Although, of course, language does not turn to call such "individuals" men. Nevertheless, the demand for such gigolo exists. And if there is a demand, then the offer will not be long in coming. And all right, if a wealthy woman consciously seeks the illusion of happiness for herself and is ready to pay a man that he will be with her. But it often happens that those who want easy money, the stronger sex themselves find rich (and not so) ladies. After all, who are gigolos? These are men who are very well versed in female psychology, unprincipled, cynical, who know how to convincingly lie and do not blush. Some of them are in fact ardent misogynists, therefore they consider it their holy duty to lie to as many unsuspecting ladies as possible. They are very skillfully rubbed into confidence and find the right approach to almost any woman. At first, they can even look after beautifully. And it happens exactly until it comes

gigolos or love scammers
Confidence that a woman has finally fallen in love. Now it’s possible to “twist rope” out of it. Immediately, these men start to have some problems at work (they dismissed, they do not pay salaries, etc.), or there is a desire to open their own company, but, supposedly, a certain amount is not enough to do this. Alphonse can come up with many more reasons. Black list, photos and sad stories of women caught by scammers can be found on the Internet. After all, these scammers not only “pump out” money from the ladies in love, but it happens that they simply rob them, and then disappear in an unknown direction. Apparently, they are sent in search of a new victim.

The popular writer Lena Lenina now has a book called Alphonse, or Love Scammers. It very vividly describes all kinds of tricks of mercenary men, their manipulations, intrigues and other interesting things that may very well be useful to ladies who do not want to fall into the trap of a gigolo. Is it possible to somehow recognize such an “instance” at the first stages of acquaintance? If you are careful, you can. After all, who are gigolos? These are men who know how to please women first of all.

gigolos blacklist photo
For the beautiful compliments with which they skillfully (and even professionally) shower their “beloved”, the young lady may not even pay attention to the completely harmless questions of the gentleman about where and with whom she lives, where she works, how much she earns, etc. it might seem that he was just very interested in her. And she will be right if her answers satisfy his selfish motives. Therefore, it is not necessary to post information of a similar nature when meeting people. The best option would be to avoid a direct answer. But you do not want to know from personal sad experience who the Alphonse are? And such interrogations, thinly veiled by simple curiosity, may well indicate that a real gigolo is sitting in front of you.

Source: https://habr.com/ru/post/B9598/


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