According to esoteric and Vedic knowledge, in each person there is both male and female energy. And all their lives, the sages of the East are trying to find more ways to balance them in the scriptures, because when the balance comes, a person begins to feel not just happy, but self-sufficient and holistic.
If there is no dominance of one over the other, stabilization occurs. But, for example, many women in the modern world are taking something hard, but they are giving themselves up perfectly, thereby the second part of the energy reserve is not replenished, depressive disorders begin.
However, adoption begins primarily with oneself. So how do you learn to let all the necessary abundance that nature gives us into your life-giving vessel? How to accept yourself so that there are no difficulties with the acceptance of other people?
Differences in Energy Development
If we take male and female energy as separate objects of our existence, we can trace the tendency of domination of the first. Indeed, for many centuries, mankind transferred from its past lives the memory of conquests, confrontations and that everything should be achieved in life. Nothing happens in finished form, beautifully laid out on a silver platter. All these are natural properties of masculine energy in man, and feminine is the opposite.
With the help of healthy female energy, a person mentally tunes in to acceptance without worries. Then all that he wants is embodied by itself, requires minimal effort. Only humanity has completely forgotten how to accept the modern world. Many believe that they are unworthy of something or will be obliged to someone, hence the fear of accepting, and especially asking to give.
Unlike masculine, the harmonization of feminine energy and its generation are a little harder and more complicated. The main obstacle is the mind. It will be he who will create difficulties even in accepting what a person needs to learn to accept himself. This simple tautology determines the root of the problem.
Balance
You can achieve the harmony of female and male energies with the help of a wonderful free way - observing yourself and analyzing your acceptance / bestowal. For example, you can always notice how much we give our best in different situations to helping other people and how much we can accept. The line between female and male energies in a person is very thin.
When there is a significant bias in acceptance or giving, then inside the person begins to feel discomfort. He lacks energy, he stops rejoicing in the world around him and feels constant fatigue. Nature created the human body so that it instantly responded to any malfunctions in its work, the same applies to the levels of male and female energies. Therefore, in order to maintain balance, one must always be in a conscious state.
It often happens that, while helping another, a person completely forgets about himself and does not notice burnout. Therefore, when we are given the opportunity to accept energy in response, we cannot do this. For example, we begin to admire and make compliments, and in our head at this moment there is a real war: "No, he went too far!" We are offered help, they are trying to do something out of noble goals, and we reply: “Why, why, don’t worry, I can do it myself!”
Acceptance of available energies
Another important point is our rejection of male and female energies within our own body. For example, based on the psychosomatic aspects, when a woman refuses to take her female side, she suddenly has diseases associated with the genitourinary system.
But if the problem is not in the female energy, but in the male one, the woman ceases to understand the masculine representatives. She can not take the masculine side in any matter, difficulties arise in relations with men, and then in creating a full-fledged family.
It is necessary to think and understand one simple thing: male and female energies carry a lot of opportunities for both men and women. Sometimes women are filled mainly with masculine energy, therefore they hastily take up the development of feminine within themselves, but this is not a completely correct step. To begin with, it is necessary to understand and accept the male half in yourself, otherwise the result will not be completely healing.
The flip side of the coin has a slightly controversial aspect. Unlike feminine, masculine energy initially implies a certain core, originating in cosmic distances. Its foundation carries that core power into the existing earthly space, which is necessary for the formation of the core of freedom. It is this core that becomes the factor of self-awareness as an integral person. It also makes it clear to the mind that in addition to surrounding objects, an invisible internal force is located in the human body.
Female energy and its acceptance
In addition to the interaction of male energy with female energy, it is worthwhile to analyze how the latter affects the development of a single Homo sapiens. Figuratively speaking, the foundation of feminine energy is a spiral, which has long roots attached to the energy of our legitimate mother - the Earth. That is, this spiral should carefully wrap around the male rod, hence the development of harmony in relations will go . Male and female energies must necessarily interact with each other.
When a woman, while growing up, realizes her female nature, this means that she is in her place and abides in her force field. Having met the right man, she can easily entwine his core with her spiral, and the resulting rings will affect him, maintaining his energy balance.
The energy of the spiral is flexible, it can be intertwined with other female energies, thereby strengthening the masculine support on planet Earth. It is the tandem of male and female energies in a relationship that creates a strong and holistic couple.
Energy interaction
Around a well-developed core, several female energies can gather. The male, interacting with them, receives excellent recharge. A woman engaged in self-development creates and feeds her spiral rings herself. Such a woman can raise a man with low vibrations to her level. She strengthens her spiral position and enables the man to grow.
However, the exchange of female and male energies can also occur when a woman and a man achieve at the same time a certain level of development or goals in relation to each other. When such a mutual aspiration coincides, an explosion occurs, the rod with a spiral soldered. At this moment, a woman receives energy from outer space, the conductor of which is a man, and he, in turn, receives energy from the deep earthly roots. The space created by the union of yin and yang becomes indestructible.
In such a period, a woman calms down and begins to simply admire her man, thereby continuing to nourish her spiral, and the man receives a charge from her, aimed at stability and the production of strength to ensure her peace of mind. In other words, a woman begins to inspire a man to do things for their tandem.
It follows that without female support, a man is only a miserable stalk that sways with every breath of wind. He has no meaningful plan for movement in the life stream. Moreover, a woman in this regard does not have to be his sex partner or wife, it can also be a friend or mother.
The exchange of energy between a man and a woman
If you turn to Tantra for a definition, then a man nourishes a woman with sexual energy, and a woman gives him heart energy, that is, tenderness and love. Often a similar energy ring is formed during sexual contact, completely spontaneously. True, when doing meditation, the harmonization of male and female energies will take place at the same pace. For such purposes, there are special tantric practices. From here come the reasoning popular in the world of relationships about the loss of sexual energy by a man, if in return for her return he does not receive love from a woman. This often happens with promiscuous sex life.
How to treat an energy deficiency?
How can one improve sexual masculine and feminine energies? For example, a woman who has concentrated on the chest area, that is, in the place where the Anahata heart chakra is located, can instantly feel happy, having saturated her body with sweetness. Her body will float in space, like an astronaut in zero gravity. She literally feels herself able to spread her wings and take off. This concentration enhances the feminine and maternal feelings. Even without children, a woman can feel like a mother.
For each person, she will show compassion and care, which means that more love will appear. Such a concentration should be performed in a relaxed state. If there is even the slightest hint of tension, an invisible barrier will arise between the heart and the woman. She should merge with him, feel that only her breasts remained in the surrounding space.
To improve male and female sexual energies, of course, the work of both partners is important. Therefore, a man instead of the heart chakra should concentrate on his sexual center - the root of the penis. It is in this part that the man has a creative beginning.
Exchange and restoration of energy potential in a pair
The meeting of a man and a woman is characterized as a meeting of two poles - negative and positive. In a woman, the first is located below, and the second from above. In a man, everything is exactly the opposite. When negative and positive are combined, or plus and minus, a ring is formed - this is part of a spiral wrapped around a rod and closed by a solder. This ring is fraught with total bliss. With normal sexual contacts, this condition does not occur. This situation explains the fact that the male half is so attracted to sex and at the same time pushes away from it.
The indicated feeling of bliss can arise only with the complete relaxation of both partners, when they are completely open to each other and there is no fear and resistance between them. Otherwise, only a feeling of disappointment and a feeling of lack of something will remain. The movement of energy is felt at the tip of the penis or in the area of the heart chakra. A slight tingling sensation may be felt. A man accepts with his heart, and a woman accepts the area where the uterus is located. Moreover, it is not always necessary to have sexual intercourse for such an exchange of energies.
Alternatively, you can try to feel yourself, without touching each other. For example, the most popular tantric practice offers to relax in front of each other at a very close distance, close your eyes and try to feel what the partner is giving and what is taking. At such moments, if the energies of the lovers really merged together, a flicker occurs between them. A man becomes either beloved or loving, and the same thing happens with a woman. Or for a moment, a man takes the place of his partner and vice versa. This is where the very unity ring is created.
At first, a man can be active, after which time will come for his relaxation, then the woman will take on the activity. This means that male energy migrated to a woman, and she will act further, and the man will remain passive. This will continue all the time while the common ring is working.
If you are a man, then, being in a position of deep love, when you reach orgasm, you will feel like an exchange of bodies. That is, for a moment you can feel like a woman, and she, in turn, will become a man. Such changes in activity will be clearly recognized and bring great pleasure.
How do practicing hermits work?
Work on your energies is a very ancient process that began even before the advent of modern human civilization. Thanks to the knowledge left to us by our ancestors in the form of Vedic literature, various mystics of the East can awaken in themselves not only the masculine principle, but also the feminine one. Thus, the energy in their body closes in the same ring described above and circulates in a circle.
This is the very stage of achieving enlightenment - Samadhi. The human soul goes beyond its consciousness and definition. She merges with universal energy and becomes her being. There is an interesting comparison of the energy ring with a snake eating its own tail. This means that the circle has successfully closed, the person is no longer either a man or a woman.
Such people do not need to create family relationships and find a partner, since they are already beyond all this. And if you look closely at the most famous saints, for example, Buddha, you can notice the presence of femininity in his enlightened images. It lacks aggression or ambitiousness. He does not carry the violence inherent in masculine energy, as he successfully awakened the feminine within himself.
For a woman, however, there is no universal recipe: to be stronger or weaker, and so on. The main thing in development is to understand well your inner needs and to be able to fill an empty inner vessel with something that it lacks. Women's troubles come from the fact that she is trying to achieve something, becoming independent and brushing aside the existing need for a man. She does not realize that not having independence makes her truly happy. It is rightly said that the happiness of a woman is not in strength, but in weakness. After all, only being defeated by masculine energy does a woman receive a real gain of her whole life.
The easiest way for a woman to accept herself
Of course, a woman should thank herself for the presence of male energy in her, which gives her a million opportunities to realize her essence in the modern world. It is thanks to male energy that a person can correctly set goals and focus on them, say no or defend his priorities. Of course, when a woman realizes what advantages male energy gives her, she begins to appreciate and develop it further.
Social standards impose on us that a woman should be patient, feminine, to show the full manifestation of her female energy. But such women do not feel happy. What is the catch? Why then, according to such standards, a woman is afraid to make decisions and does not know what to do next? The answer is simple: lack of harmony within. But, from the point of view of the Divine Reason, it is the predominance of masculine energy in women and feminine in men that is the norm, and development is achieved by awakening its initial energy channels.
Therefore, it is always worth remembering that men's energy is aimed at achieving goals, awareness of their life priorities, determining desires and intentions, as well as the emergence of the ability to take decisive actions. The female is knowledge about how to accept and enjoy what is accepted.