The movie "What Women Want" with Mel Gibson is very good, and can be reviewed repeatedly. This is an easy comedy about how an ordinary man was shocked, and he was able to read women's thoughts. At first, it almost drove him crazy, because women think so much!
But then he realized that this gift allows you to learn how to understand a woman’s behavior. This film, despite the fact that it was shot in 2000, is still interesting to watch for both sexes. And why? Because he reveals the eternal secret for men: how to understand women? Since the script was written by the ladies, the girls themselves noted that the film turned out to be wonderful and very reliable. If this picture passed you by, and you still hardly imagine how a man can understand a woman, then this article is offered to your attention.
Why understand women?
By and large, representatives of the same sex can perfectly understand each other, but not always a man and a woman quickly manage to come to a common opinion. How to understand women? What do they mean? What lies behind coquetry? How to understand that a woman is in love? Men often ask these questions. Indeed, the way of thinking of both sexes is very different, and therefore it is sometimes difficult to understand each other. Especially often a man finds himself in a dead end, wanting to understand whether a lady is in love with him or just flirts without a goal. How to understand a woman’s attitude and correctly decipher the message coming from her?
"Cherche la femme!"
As the French say, no matter what the occasion, the woman is to blame. There is actually something in it. All the ephemeral joys of the world, such as wealth, power, fame, fade before the simple happiness of loving and being loved. But here the first difficulties arise. You liked the lady. But how to understand what she is experiencing for you? How to understand what a woman liked, how to behave in order to stir up interest in her? There is no special science here! With a little practice and attention, and in three minutes of talking with a girl, you can understand who she sees in you.
What do women want?
It is completely natural for ladies to want to be beautiful (to attract a worthy companion), start a family and give birth to children. Knowing this, a man receives a key to understanding the behavior of women. You do not have to be willing to marry, but if you show yourself to be a worthy man who you can rely on and who will be calm, then the ladies will treat you with a great disposition.
Remember: it is not necessary to give all this to a woman. It is quite possible to simply show that you are not afraid of responsibility, that you can be relied on. This will be enough to look worthy in the eyes of the lady. If you do not want to marry or have children, this is not at all a reason not to be loved by a woman you like. You will discuss these issues later in the relationship. Which will certainly ensue when you learn how to understand women.
Rule One: Women from Venus
Before you learn to understand the fair sex as yourself, you need to learn the following. There is a huge difference between the behavior of men and women due to different instincts inherent in nature.
Who is a man? The successor of the clan, the earner, the "stone wall". He may not be affectionate, since nature did not assign him the functions of raising and raising cubs. He may not be able to cook, since his task is to get food, and let a companion show culinary talents.
Who is a woman then? This is the mother, the continuer of the clan, the keeper of the hearth. Sometimes modern young ladies try to escape from their destiny, begin to build a career, call themselves childfree. And then they shock others when they suddenly give up all this for the snotty baby and beloved spouse. It is these functions that nature has laid in women.
Rule two: the whole world is a theater, and the main actors in it are women
In ancient Greece, in theatrical productions, all roles (including female) were played by men. But in reality the situation is exactly the opposite: it is women who are most prone to acting. Not all the ladies are great actresses, but playing from time to time is common for everyone, and this is not about the stage in the theater. Do not be surprised if you see a woman you like in different roles. Some are afraid of the world and diligently play the role of bitch, others - a little girl, others - an insidious seducer. How to understand women in this case?
Remember that a mask is just a mask that is tried on in public. If a woman sees that you can be trusted, that you can substitute your shoulder at any time, do not betray and do not deliver a crushing blow, then she will open before you. Any lady, when she is natural, is feminine, sweet, light, caring. Remember that the rest is just masks.
Rule Three: Watch the Movement
Comparing women with cats is trite and old as the world, but sometimes you just can’t do without it. Imagine a fluffy playful animal. When the cat is in the mood, she gently lifts her tail, rubs her head. If you make her angry, then the movements will become jerky and nervous.
How can a man understand a woman by watching her? Always remember cats. The playful mood will give out the game with wrists, fingering curls, stroking jewelry. If you appear in front of a woman, and she begins to stroke her hair, correct something in her clothes, she clearly sees the object of attention in you. If, when you look at you, nothing in the behavior of the young lady changes, then most likely you are not interested in her.
Love and pigeons
By the way, observing behavior can tell you that a woman is in love. Just before such a lady appears her favorite, her cheeks turn pink, her eyes sparkle, and the soles of her feet are directed towards her lover.
Love and sympathy are good, but how to understand what a woman loves? That this is not a mask, but genuine feelings? In addition, how not to confuse love with friendly feelings. Below you will read what signs in the behavior of the lady testify to her warm attitude towards you:
- A woman shares everything with you. There are moments in life that only the closest can tell. If you fall into this category, it means that the woman has a special relationship with you.
- A woman told you about her close friends. Each of us has one or two closest friends. These people become attorneys of our secrets. If you don’t know how to understand a woman’s feelings, the surest way is to find out if she told your friends about you.
- A girl is involved in your life. It would seem that unnecessary little things like how long you like to sleep or what you eat for breakfast do not interest anyone, but only if the person is not in love with you. If a woman asks you about everything down to the smallest detail, it is no coincidence.
- Empathy for trouble. When problems happen in the lives of others, we condole aloud, but by and large we don’t care. If a woman sincerely worries about the difficulties that exist in your life, then you are not indifferent to her.
Do not confuse friendship with love
Ladies do not always play fair. They flirt, flirt, but they themselves do not experience anything. So how to understand a woman? Photos of lovers are especially annoying when you are alone, and all the surrounding girls seem to be mocked by their behavior. Do not get excited! So you confuse friendship with falling in love.
Sometimes we wishful thinking, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. How to understand a woman who is sincerely interested in you, but it seems to you that there is no love? Perhaps you are close to such a young lady as a friend. She sees that it is interesting with you that you deserve trust, but at the same time she is not physically attracted to you. As they say, there is no spark. The surest sign of this is the lack of jealousy. Tell the woman about some (possibly made-up) lady of the heart. If her reaction is completely neutral, then you are just a good friend to her .
Check if the young lady is in love or not
But still, if this lady is not indifferent to you, then know that from friendship to love is one step. Show a woman that you can be a worthy gentleman, surprise with manly deeds. If it seems to you that her attitude is starting to change, try this trick. This trick has a double meaning. If a woman is already experiencing something for you, she will split. If not, then you can get out of the water dry and let the woman look at you with different eyes.
So, write her a message in the evening (or even better at night), something like: “I'm madly in love with you! Can I count on reciprocal feelings? ” Ideally, a woman should respond to the message positively. If she says no, don't be upset. So, until your efforts to conquer have borne fruit. The next morning, you can say that you got drunk and mixed up the addressee in the contact list. This will reassure the woman, but even if she doesn’t feel anything for you, then certain metamorphoses will occur in her head during the night.