Most women do not really know how to determine if they are loved. Even sophisticated mademoiselle are barely familiar with the main qualities of male love. But what about young naive girls? They don’t understand at all how to distinguish a woman’s true love for a man from sweet joys. Let's try to figure it out.
Unfortunately, women and men see the love differently. At times, this becomes a serious cause for disagreement. However, do not forget, the feeling of falling in love is one for two. Just a man and a woman are two different galaxies. Nature conceived us as a mutually attractive plus and minus. One thing remains unchanged - we, no doubt, always need one another! Unfortunately, in love we express our emotions in completely different languages. That is why it is so hard at times to reach mutual understanding.
Diametrical opposites
A woman needs constant communication with a man. It is extremely important for her to arouse emotions in him, which is direct evidence of falling in love. No wonder they say: "If a woman stopped dripping on her brain, you already lost her." A man, on the contrary, keeps everything inside himself, trying to seem indifferent! He resolutely does not perceive constant conversations, declarations of love. In the formed pair, one always loves, and the other allows you to love. It is no wonder that feelings are mainly shown by a woman. Since ancient times, nature insidiously laid down this need for it. A couple who knows and accepts this fact can avoid unnecessary quarrels and insults in the future.
Recognition of one’s feelings arouses a genuine fear of responsibility among the stronger sex. For most, the response to this phrase is tantamount to an oath. A truly in love man will sincerely rejoice at the achievements of his beloved, appreciate the aspirations, take the solution of any problems on himself. A man’s love for a woman can be expressed in the time taken. As a rule, ladies rarely see this as a demonstration of feelings.
Expectations from a developing relationship are also different. For example, women want to feel the attention, care, tenderness and respect from their man. And the strong half of humanity wants to be perceived only as they are. Therefore, lovers try to provide each other with what they themselves want. Unfortunately, this is a false path to the opponent’s heart. Do not forget that, even being together, we are still completely different.
Keeping a relationship is hard work!
Naturally, in everyday relationships, there are also fights. For example, women, in the opinion of men, need attention over trifles. Owing to the hardness of their character, they are absolutely immune to such trifles. However, understanding this fact sometimes requires serious consideration. A woman suffering from a lack of attention, over time, becomes irritable, nervous. As a result of this, any communication with a man will suffer, or it will result in a search for attention on the side.
Still, the love of a woman and a man in what is expressed? A further difference is a consequence of the phrase "A man loves with his eyes, a woman with his ears." It is for this reason that the lady is easily captivated by sweet words, and the gentleman cannot fail to notice the harmony of long legs. Accordingly, in order for him to stop looking around, a sexy, exciting woman should be with him. Relationship psychologists have long confirmed that completely different parts of the brain correspond to male sex drive and a sense of love. Based on this man polygamy is inherent. He believes that his masculinity is expressed in the number of women.
In connection with the work of different parts of the brain, the attitude to physical closeness in women and men is also different. For the weaker sex, sex is a kind of process that requires a serious approach to choosing a partner. In the view of men, love and sex are not equal! At times, even the most faithful man seeks intimate feelings on the side. Unfortunately, physiology is to blame. There can be no talk of mutual understanding here!
Everyone knows that one hundred percent compatibility of man and woman in love is a guarantee of a strong relationship. Moreover, the main role here is played not only by sexual, but also by natural as well as psychological compatibility. Over the years, sexual attraction no longer actually plays a special role. Unfortunately, love does not at all provide mutual understanding and support in everyday life. Misunderstanding can destroy any idyll in a relationship, fueling conflict. To at least a little closer to mutual understanding, you need to make a lot of effort.
Character
To identify compatibility, describe the two character traits in two columns. In the first, indicate all the positive qualities of the partner, in the second, fix what is annoying. Think about where you are ready to give in and what is completely unsatisfactory in the behavior of the partner. However, there is one condition. Evaluation should be impartial, and not be based solely on emotions alone. Psychologists advise to perform such a test together with a partner. Perhaps after comparing the overall results, you will be able to come to a mutual decision.
Psychology
Psychological compatibility can be identified as follows. Write down a scale of your values on a piece of paper in descending order. In other words, the most significant indicators: family, friends, work, means. Further, each of the partners separately lists all the responsibilities with their own understanding of the situation. The test is formed in the similarity of its results, and not in the coincidence on all points. Well, if supported by women's views on love, a man’s relationship. It is then that a woman is ready to create real happy relationships. If one of the partners put the family in the first place, and the other - the career, then this is a serious reason for conflicts, contradictions.
Partnership
Partnership compatibility is the main indicator of the ability to maintain a common budget. The financial mismatch of partners will lead to significant discrepancies. Agree, if the budget of the chosen one consists solely of spending on yourself, you are unlikely to like this situation. In this case, psychologists also advise each of the partners to plan a budget on a piece of paper. Then compare the results of your lists, focusing not on contradictions, but on similarities. However, do not forget that full compatibility cannot be achieved without a common interest.
Temperament
Undoubtedly, romantic walks with a lover, his ability to provide you is wonderful. However, this is not enough! The guarantee of a happy, lasting relationship is the compatibility of sexual temperaments. In addition to pleasant sensations, as well as health benefits, sex can resolve almost any conflict. Also, a curious theory that sexual compatibility depends on the zodiac horoscope enjoys a positive reputation. Perhaps you should pay attention to the date of birth of your partner?
The basic principles of temperament
Temperaments should be at least adjacent. For example, if a man has a high rate and a woman has a low rate, the relationship will be on the verge of failure. The same situation occurs when a man and a woman change roles. Partners will always feel uncomfortable. It will seem to them that something is wrong with them.
People with high temperament experience a constant desire. Usually their experimental sexual life begins at an early age, and the number of partners grows throughout life. Statistically, growth in a temperamental man is usually no more than average. It looks quite proportional. As for women, the owners of wide hips or curvaceous are also often very temperamental women. Ladies of short stature and short legs are also not bad in bed.
Researchers say that close temperaments are characteristic of people with similar growth. So miniature girls should not look for a partner among tall men. Such couples often face a variety of difficulties in sex.
For owners of a low type of temperament, intimate life always takes an insignificant place. The process of puberty in such people is usually late. They easily tolerate significant pauses in sex. Moreover, if once they chose a partner, then this is for life.
According to statistics, about 80% of humanity belongs only to the middle group. For example, high growth clearly indicates an insufficiently bright temperament.
What is absolute love?
The feeling of love is not limited only to the relationship of man and woman. It can be much wider. This is exactly how esotericism presents the love of a woman and a man. Most world religions are built on absolute love. Take, for example, Christianity in the image of Jesus Christ, where Love is one of the three virtues along with Faith and Hope. It can be called Agape, which in translation from the ancient Greek language means "gratuitous, selfless love." It does not manifest itself as a physical passion, but is based on a spiritual connection that lasts for years, or even to the death bed.
Mistakes of our time
In today's women, there is too much masculine energy. They forgot how to love! Through the fault of the weakened energy necessary for procreation, the fair sex did not inspire, but give. They forgot what love is, women and men! If a man wants to win the love of a woman, he must win the battle in her eyes. And a woman, in order to take possession of a man’s heart, needs to lose this battle.
For example, a woman’s destructive love for a man can be manifested in excessive care for her son. In this case, the mother interferes with the proper development of the male principle. Or a wife, confusing her relationship with her husband, turns into a compulsory “mommy”. This manifestation of energy is a masculine version of creation. A woman should be a faithful wife, a helper for her husband. Undoubtedly, the distortion of energies entails a violation of the correct interchange. Actually, therefore, there is so much disagreement between a woman and a man.
Energy interchange
If a woman accepts her lover without further reasoning, she awakens in him the desire to give the strength of her feelings. A woman’s love for a man is based on 4 energies: this is respect, patience, humility, tenderness. When a woman radiates appropriate energies, she inspires her man for generosity. In addition, an invisible energy-protective field literally forms around him, fueling forces. Such a field is able to protect the success of a man, his emotional balance.
A man’s true love for a woman is manifested in bestowal. He is obliged to give his beloved his care, means and shelter. However, when a man does not meet bestowal, he stops giving, starting to accumulate. A strong half of humanity urgently needs a woman not to educate, but to love and accept the chosen one as they are.
Man and woman are a reflection of each other. Such a crooked mirror reflects everything that no one wants to know about themselves.
Natural needs
A woman expects to see a man as a breadwinner, a defender, support. He, in turn, expects tenderness and care from her. In order to complement each other, each partner is looking for those qualities that he himself does not have. As the representatives of the fair sex do not recognize weak men, the strong people of this world also do not accept powerful women. So in what, in fact, is the true love of a woman and a man expressed? She needs protection, and he needs faith in him, only in this case we can feel loved.
The idea of nature is such that a man and a woman understand love in different ways, striving for a common goal. That is why it is extremely important to take into account our dissimilarity. Unfortunately, we rarely have the prudence to understand that we are two diametrical opposites. Therefore, we do not stop waiting for one from another mirror analogy in the opinions, assessments and explanations of everything that happens. So what to do? How to understand what a woman’s true love for a man is? You just need to notice extremely good qualities in the chosen one, paying less attention to the shortcomings. Be patient, do not break, but accept in your partner that essence that is inherent in nature. Love and be happy!