What does "notorious man" mean? Today, quite a lot of people can not afford to live a normal and full life due to the presence of any of their complexes. This is very detrimental both to the personality itself and to the perception of it by others. In other words, the worse we think about ourselves, the worse people around us think about us. This article will be about a notorious person. After reading it to the very end, you can better learn about the causes of various complexes, their manifestations (both for your part and those around you), as well as information on how to get rid of them. Have a nice reading!
What is a notorious person?
Firstly, such a person is quite easy to recognize by his attitude towards the people around him. He will always be quite generous in insults or any other remarks addressed to another person that were said to him not in person. More often than not, a notorious person will criticize another for what he himself is not sure about. If a man is constantly trying to hint to you that if you do not start to monitor your diet, lose weight, paint your lips more brightly or do not make another, more beautiful styling, then representatives of the opposite sex around will stop noticing you, and afterwards to wish at all as a woman. If such an event really happened to you once, then it would be worth considering ... Perhaps such a person is worried, most likely, not for you, but for his own suitability as a man?
The behavior of a notorious person
The most obvious difference between such a person and the rest is the desire to criticize others. But besides this, there are other signs of a notorious person. He is not used to praising other people for anything. Just like he wasn’t used to getting praise. Most likely, such a person himself is quite often criticized by the people around him, so this complexity and, perhaps, aggression in terms of harsh criticism is his response to this cruel world. Notorious people often slouch. As if something was crushing them on their back, they could not straighten it without making special efforts for this. The voice of a notorious person may be slightly loud or trembling in some situations. Such people are simply not accustomed to express themselves loudly and clearly, attracting the attention of the public. After all, subconsciously, a person understands that if he speaks loudly, they will pay attention to him, and if they pay attention, they will see his flaws. For the same reason, they are not used to expressing themselves, even if they really wanted to. All again due to the fact that they are afraid to attract attention. It is best, in their opinion, not to stand out from the crowd of their own kind and to follow any rules of an accessible fashion. They are afraid to look too beautiful and elegant, especially if there is no suitable occasion for this.
Self-criticism and self-digging as a cause of human complexes
Often the reason for the appearance of complexes can be picky about oneself, that is, perfectionism. We can evaluate our appearance, our ability in anything and constantly see in everything any flaws with particular meticulousness. In addition to self-digging, a person can engage in self-criticism, comparing himself and his successes with the achievements of others. Another not the best tactic of action. After all, you will never keep up with others, at the moment when you can become better for yourself ...
Children's memories as another reason for human complexes
This is the most common cause of the appearance of complexes in humans. The most difficult thing here is that the personality itself may not even remember how in childhood a mother shamed everything for all. Or as a father beat his son with a belt for the fact that he felt fear (although after this he could only experience even greater fear). Maybe neither children nor parents ever think about the consequences of such actions, but, in fact, this never disappears without a trace ... There are complexes about stoop or cowardice.
Love yourself to get rid of complexes
This is one of the most difficult, but the most effective ways to get rid of complexion. If you think you have flaws, then try to fix them. But at the same time, never forget that every person has good sides. You cannot be bad at everything. Love yourself and do not forget to praise as much as possible. Praise yourself for absolutely everything. Because we were able to wake up early or go to bed earlier, for working so well today, for taking the time out for our own relaxation. And then, when you begin to praise yourself, no longer thinking about it and not forcing yourself to it, this will mean that you are “getting better” and you should continue in the same vein.
Love other people to get rid of their own complexes
This may seem illogical to you; some people who have complexes consider this method to be some kind of savagery. But in reality, everything is completely different. When you find something positive in other people and praise that quality in them, you fill yourself with positive emotions. And if you also compliment people, it absolutely sets you up for something good. If you learn to find something good in others, you will be able to find positive qualities in yourself. And if you compliment people in the face, then, believe me, they will soon do the same to you. And such pleasant surprises will also affect your complexes, which will recede into the background, the third plan, and soon will completely disappear from your life! Thus, you will get rid of them and begin to live much better.
So, this is probably worth finishing. Now you know who such a notorious person is and how to deal with human complexes. Even if you think that you are not one of these people, try to live by complimenting yourself and other people. Your mood will always be good and your life will be better. Good luck in this difficult undertaking for many!