We love animals: play with them, watch, comb fluffy fur. And you don’t need to be a genius to understand how great the gap between us, people, and animals. We are neither better nor worse, but simply made from another test. Why did man become man, at what moment did this happen? Although we also need food and shelter, we have a lot of differences from animals. A person thinks a lot about life, about why he lives.
In addition, people have aspirations, desires, set goals, try to achieve them. And why are people so different from each other if everyone has the same roots? Someone is smart, someone is beautiful, and someone is deprived of both of them. How to become happy and not miss your chance in this life? Let's talk about this in this article.
Oh, these people!
We will probably never know the answer to the question of why a person became a person. According to Darwin's theory of evolution, we descended from monkeys. But why did this happen? Imagine the following: even if the monkey changes, becomes upright and bald, will she think?
Will he wish wealth and success to himself, evil to his enemies, and health and happiness to his relatives? People differ from other creatures living on Earth in that they can think, work, set goals and strive to achieve them. However, here they differ among themselves: some think a lot, others do not, someone works, and someone parasites. People differ not only from animals, but also from each other, and so much that sometimes it seems that they were born in completely different ways. But are we not so much like relatives in fact?
About purpose and purpose
One of the most important properties that makes all people on Earth related is what we exist for.
It doesn’t matter what kind of God you believe in or even believe in, for sure you have thought at least once about the meaning of your life. Why were you born, what should you do and what should you strive for? Certainly not to work all my life on boring work and to engage in uninteresting affairs. And not in order to accumulate material values, and then die in one day and not take anything with you. But why then?
That is why we live - to find the meaning. It doesn’t matter whether enlightenment ever arrives or not, whether it is a clearly formulated thought or just a sensation. Gaining life experience, experiencing various feelings - that's what everything happens for. Why did man become man and become aware of himself? In order to improve, gain new knowledge about the world and become more wise and conscious. And in what family you were born, how you look, what you have a penchant for - these are just conventions. Live, do what you like, communicate with someone who is close and dear to you, and you will fulfill your destiny.
Why are we so different, but still together?
And who said that we humans are different? We are used to opposing ourselves to others, believing that we are different.
But how could it be otherwise if some people are good and others evil? Someone is wealthy, and someone is poor? One is beautiful, and the other is not very or even has a repulsive appearance. But in fact, these are just circumstances, and not what is given to us once and for all and which cannot be changed.
What else do all people have in common? The life of each of us makes the most unpredictable turns. Think about it! After all, there are many sayings about metamorphoses that a person can endure in his entire life. Remember the phrase "from rags to riches" or the tale of the ugly duckling. Whatever we receive at birth, this can change many times over our existence. Why a person became a person, science is not known for certain. But then one can speculate on why people differ.
Do not judge...
We cannot accept and understand other people only for the reason that we constantly compare them with ourselves. Our education clearly delineates the world into white and black, into good and evil. Meanwhile, there are many more options, and we clearly understand this when we grow up. People are not divided solely into good and bad.
For example, we all know that lying is bad, but if a lie saves a person’s life, then it’s a lie to save. Do not try to judge other people, not because you get a retaliation, but because it is an unnecessary activity. Each lives his own life, with his own experience and, of course, with his own mistakes. Therefore, do not ask questions about why people become evil or why someone is behaving wrongly. Give other people the opportunity to be the way they want to be, or the way it turns out. And, of course, be yourself, do not adapt to other people's desires and stereotypical ideas about correctness.
About Values
What is most valuable in the life of each of us? If you do not talk about life and health, then without further ado, many will say that these are material goods. But is it really so? “The rich also cry,” and the most important things for each of us are completely free. These are friends, love, peace of mind. Can I get them?
People are chasing wealth, but if it is achieved, then boredom and a desire to get what money cannot buy come. If you ask yourself why people become rich, then it is a matter of goal-setting, the pursuit of material wealth. But, you see, not everyone is hungry for money. Moreover, many examples are known when a person, becoming wealthy, refuses a condition and moves to the outback. When wondering why a young man has become successful, do not think that he is any special. It is created from the same test as everyone else. It is all about his desire to become successful and achieve something. Others simply do not want it. Here is something common that is common to all people: we all want something, consciously or unconsciously.
About good and evil
Well, let there be people who are rich, but there are poor people - here it is a matter of luck, luck or diligence. But what about the fact that some are kind and merciful, while others are like the devil in human form. Why do people become maniacs or saints? Isn't that what distinguishes them? In fact, it is also all a matter of environmental factors and human desires. If a child is abused or inflicted severe psychological trauma on a child from childhood, he can grow angry. But at heart it’s the same offended child. Do not ask a question: “Why does a person become aggressive?” - Better ask yourself what can be done to make it softer. Although we cannot change what happened in the past, each of us can do something in the present. It doesn’t matter if you believe in the devil or demons, most likely you have never seen them. But evil and cruel people - easily. Be the one who can do something. Sometimes an ordinary word can sober up a person and help him become better, no matter who he is.
Morals and Morality
Very often people, especially older people, complain that everything is changing for the worse. Why is sausage made from cardboard? Why is there so much debauchery on television? Why do people read less? In fact, the world does not change; the worldview of a person and his attitude to life are changing. When you are young, everything seems beautiful to you. You are welcome everywhere, people are friendly, the food is tasty, and the information comes from everywhere that you need. But life goes on, and a person is faced with a harsh reality. It’s difficult to get a job, and when it’s possible, the salary is small, the diseases attack, but the drugs do not help, the neighbors grumble. But life is not getting worse. Yes, systematic changes are occurring, but nothing more. If you do not like what is happening around you, it's time to change something. Change your place of residence or work, environment. Do you dislike TV shows on TV? Do not watch TV at all, go to the cinema or to the theater! Remember that the world is exactly what we want it to be. When you repeat every day that everything is bad, you get it. But as soon as you start smiling at life (let it be an artificial smile at first), you will soon feel positive changes.
Why do people become strangers
We came to a fairly important issue for each of us. Of course, I want all close people to be nearby throughout their lives. This is not about relatives, but about friends, comrades, lovers. Alas, a love marriage does not guarantee happiness for life. Years go by, and one day you realize that you live with a completely different person and, except for children and property, you have nothing more in common. Or a friend with whom it was so cool and interesting last year became completely uninteresting now. Why it happens? Is it possible to reverse this process of turning soul mates into strangers?
Learn to take
In fact, we are all developing. Each person changes throughout life. And do not believe those who say the opposite. It is for this reason that people "become strangers." That is, your close friend did not become a stranger, simply as a result of regular changes, you cannot or do not want to recognize the previous person in the new personality. Believe that no one can become a stranger to you. But we do not always like the changes taking place with someone, and we are not always ready to accept them. Hence, rejection and rejection. How to be in this case? There are only two options - accept or not. Either you put up with the inevitable changes and recognize the new person, realizing that he is no worse than your old friend, or communication is reduced to "no."