The structure of female behavior in recent decades has ceased to overlap with the nature of its essence. A woman became a breadwinner, a conqueror, an engine in the huge mechanisms of social movements. However, the thin, mental, deeply feeling female psyche was forgotten to explain that it should also become frosty and cower to the limits of a crude working unit.
What is studying psychosomatics
To answer the question of why the modern trend was not a healthy woman, but being treated, a science called up to now considered an alternative is called psychosomatics. Ovarian cancer, polycystosis, ovarian cysts, the inability to conceive or enjoy physical intimacy, any acquired pathologies of the reproductive organs, and even painful periods - all this finds logical justification in the depths of the subconscious, pushing the disease as a protective reaction of the body against distorted natural ideas. The well-known psychotherapist Valery Sinelnikov, who specializes in women's health issues, describes the effect of psychosomatic effects on the body as a determining factor in a person’s well-being, against which various predisposing conditions exacerbate the situation, such as infections, poor nutrition, and ecology.
Also, according to the therapist, it is impossible to derive any specific algorithm for solving the psychosomatic problem, as well as to build a single treatment regimen, for example, for all diseases of the abdomen. A person and the settings of his body are individual and each violation in the functionality of this complex structure is unique and inimitable.
The origin of female diseases in psychosomatics
The conflict of the huge difference in the upbringing that the modern woman has received and the real life that dictates its conditions is the main reason why the female body is unbalanced and cannot tune in to the right rhythm. One of the causes of cysts in the body (from psychosomatics) is considered to be a short, but reflected in the upbringing of several generations, era, condemning sexual relations as something unacceptable. This gave rise in the minds of people (mainly, of course, women) to the belief that physical attraction is a shameful fact that requires censure.
With a firm subconscious conviction of their own “wrongness,” women for many years entered into intimate relationships, gave birth to children and passed the immutable truth that “sex is evil” to their daughters, condemning them to the same fate. The current situation has changed somewhat - now the weak half of humanity is consciously suppressing the feminine within itself, defending the right to move forward along with a man for whom such conflicts do not exist at all. The reckoning for emancipation came not from the opponents of equality, but from within the woman herself — from the deepest layers of her pure mental essence.
Causes of female diseases
A woman’s rejection of her own character traits, or more simply - dislike of herself - as she is, fill the soul with contradictions and force her to make unwanted compromises. Charity often redeems the refusal to have their own children, inattention to their own children is offset by increased love for grandchildren, hatred of her husband often leads to loyalty in relation to the destruction of someone else’s marriage. As can be seen from the above examples, the problem itself does not disappear, moreover, sometimes it’s completely unacceptable actions to disguise and justify it, and as a result, internal conflicts.
If, having received an alarm signal in the form of a developing pathology, if you do not try to make contact with upset mental settings, a chronic condition develops. To understand the intricacies of the contradictions between the physical and subtle bodies will help a good psychotherapist or a frank and independent evaluative analysis of his consent with the committed acts and priorities.
Distorting the most important
If we talk about exclusively female diseases, such as a cyst and inflammation of the ovaries, the causes of conflicts should be sought psychologically for the male sex as a whole. At the same time, a specific representative of the sex, as a rule, does not play a certain role, since it is only the personification of what the male half as a whole is.
There are several main factors that affect the feminine through male energy:
- The lack of a sense of security that arises in the presence of men - often this aspect is a continuation of a failed relationship between a mother and her husband.
- The firm, convinced belief that physical intimacy defiles, belittles a woman, and elevates a man above her. This also includes the belief that enjoying sex is a sin.
- Resentment to the entire masculine gender for relations that did not once formed or even because of a symbolic resentment of male polygamy. One infidelity once transferred by a partner hangs a stereotype on all representatives of the gender, excluding any form of trust in advance.
- Physical abuse by a man - perhaps not even the woman herself, but her mother or grandmother, as such resentment is often stored in genetic memory. This gives rise to deep psychological trauma, aggravated also in the process of upbringing, which will necessarily bear the imprint of hatred.
- Fear of childbearing, which may accept a fear of the birth process itself, but at the same time has a deep subconscious rejection of taking maternal responsibility or a compulsion to depend on a man for a long stage of pregnancy and recovery.
The vast majority of installations that lay future diseases in a woman like ovarian cysts, psychosomatics clearly assigns to childhood, when information is received at the level of maximum inclusion of the senses. Therefore, psychotherapists and psychologists are particularly recommended not to express the accumulated resentment and disappointment in the presence of children even of a very young age.
Psychosomatic Ovarian Disease
Psychosomatics conventionally calls the causes of the opposite sex the causes of cyst disease in the body, but this is only the tip of the iceberg, since the basis of these problems is always the woman’s disagreement with her current position. The vocation of a woman is to create, create, give life. The loss of the ability to form a new one entails the destruction of all natural female attitudes regulating the cyclical processes in the body.
A woman convinced of her bankruptcy, unsure that the children born by her will be healthy, that the man next to her can be happy, in fact, is engaged in self-destruction.
How do ovarian diseases occur in psychosomatics?
What it is - an ovarian cyst in psychosomatics, can be well understood by the example of a simple tuning fork - a device with which musical instruments are tuned. When any force is struck, the tuning fork always makes the sound “la” of the 1st octave with a frequency of 440 Hz. This is constant and is the reference pitch for tuning any instrument.
Imagine that this “la” vibration is the perfect setting for a woman’s healthy body. No matter how power and unpredictability circumstances arise around, a woman who answers her essence and does not contradict her will always sound the note “la” of the 1st octave. But the position of her personal perception has changed. With the tuning fork, that is, the body’s settings, no changes occurred, it continued to vibrate as “la”, because it was laid down by the creator in it. The woman’s consciousness stubbornly resists this, either assuming a masculine position and lowering the pitch of her own sound to a primitive “mi,” sometimes inflated with insults, helplessly breaking into a “re”.
Thus, there are already two vibrations, one stable and the other “walking”. Sustainable vibration - our deepest essence, transmitted to the forerunner, the primordial femininity and the ideal state of female health - unwittingly will constantly come into contact with unstable, and at the place of their coupling there will always be a dissonance. It is incomprehensible that this dissonance between our inherent “la” and the acquired one leads to a side effect in the form of a violation of the healthy vibration of the reproductive organs, including the ovarian cyst. Psychosomatics considers female diseases in this way - by the degree of deviation from the ideal sound.
Psychosomatics ovarian cysts Louise Hay
What does the author of numerous works on psychology - Louise Hay say? She explains the psychosomatics of ovarian cysts with a violation of the psychological stability of a woman. According to a specialist in psychology, it is the accumulation of grievances and disappointments, which for some reason remain unexpressed and unresolved, lead to the appearance of erosions, tumors and facilitate the penetration of infections into the female body.
The psychosomatics of ovarian cysts is the first indicator of a woman's protest against the existing situation in her life, so before contacting a gynecologist, a woman needs to reconsider her attitude to what she has emotionally and in life, and to what she really would like have.
Therapeutic treatment
Even if the introspection allowed you to understand the essence of the problem, it should be understood that treating ovarian cysts with psychosomatics is a method similar in action to the principles of homeopathy - the result is correct, but it is not possible to come to it right away and in general, it all depends on the attitude to therapy. Therefore, an appeal to a doctor who deals with women's health directly cannot be avoided, nor can one avoid a course of treatment with all prescribed medications.
Of course, to go to the operating table or not is the patient’s sole decision, but if the doctor reasonably insists on removing the ovarian cyst, psychosomatics should be considered as a method of promising treatment, and immediate measures should be relevant.
When to turn to psychosomatics
Of course, it’s good when even without visible health problems a woman tries to regulate her psychological comfort and does not miss the opportunity to talk with a psychoanalyst. In favor of preventing the disease of ovarian cysts, psychosomatics calls at least one reason - the lack of the need to subsequently take funds that distort the hormonal background of the woman.
Another thing is if the disease is already detected, and the question arises - is this a signal of a violation of mental settings? Here the conclusions are not as clear as it might seem - every woman can get a cold in her ovaries, accidentally introduce an infection or have a predisposition to cysts at the genetic level. A single case is not an indicator that problems are located deep in the psyche, but of course, only if these problems are not obvious.
Repeated ovarian cysts, according to psychosomatics, are already an alarming value, especially if they branch out with multiple complications or increase quantitatively. Actually, the second case of the disease is considered as a stable effect of negative psycho-factors mentioned above. In this case, an appeal to psychosomatics is necessary, although you will not receive such an appointment in the office of the attending gynecologist. Official medicine is not yet ready to recognize the impact on physiological disorders in the body as psychic components.
Self psychological assistance
Any intelligent creature, incapable of learning, eventually stops in development and degrades. It is possible to draw such a parallel with respect to our organism with you, in particular, our informative mental base. A focus on the initially received information that the relationship between a man and a woman is a shame, and a mother can work not only on a par with her dad, but also much more, clearly prevents the assimilation of a new information flow coming from inside us from the depths of the natural essence.
You can cross personal stereotypes only by opening up to new information and allowing yourself to realize that there are values that more closely correspond to our essence and bring real satisfaction. Change your habits, find a fulcrum where you will feel comfortable and confident. Do not let other people's values become yours. This is the very first thing you can do for yourself.
What qualities do you need to attract
It is wrong to say that the indicated qualities necessary to cure ovarian cysts by psychosomatics must be acquired, incorrectly, since all of them are already present in the original female nature:
- Listen to your intuition. She alone is not able to fool you.
- Accept yourself absolutely. Having done this, extract only those qualities that give you joy, give up the rest with a calm soul - they are not yours, they are imposed on you.
- Realize that you are ideal and unique - just imagine that there is no one like you anymore, which means it is silly and ridiculous to be someone - why be a copy if you can be original?
- Forgive those who offended you. It is impossible to understand the motives of another person, one cannot feel his pain - perhaps he was much worse than you.
- Be kind! Allow yourself to radiate light, and you will quickly notice how all the negativity leaves your life.
What emotions do you need to get rid of
It is very difficult to get rid of some personal qualities, even if it is known that they take away your health, because this is the same piece of your personality. Work for the future, that is, to prevent ovarian cysts in the future, requires you to get rid of:
- constant mental return to people or events that left a negative mark in your memory;
- obsessive desires that are contrary to your conscience;
- attempts to please everyone at once;
- relationships that drain you, not saturate you;
- constant self-flagellation, thoughts of how one could act in certain situations.
It is easy to notice that the advice of the last two sections is aimed at one goal - the restoration of mental balance by getting rid of the accumulated negative and activating a positive attitude.
Explaining the language of psychosomatics, a cyst of the left ovary or right, oncology, erosion, infertility - all these are fruits from one bunch - the loss of the feminine. And restoring her nature, a woman alone or with the help of a specialist, but will begin to sound in tone with her ideal tuning fork.