Who is such a fitman? This is a person who hides his true outlook on life and without any principles adapts to circumstances as he is comfortable at the moment. Very often, these are males.
Read more about all this in this article.
A little about the main thing
An opportunist is a person who does not have moral principles and tries to do what is convenient for him. The main thing for such a person is to ensure a conflict-free existence.
Very often opportunists change their outlook on life for the sake of personal enrichment and the achievement of selfish goals. Such people can be very difficult to recognize and many women for a long time do not notice the true interests of such a partner.
Here I would like to say once again that it is men who are most often opportunists. Although it also happens that they can be female persons (although for the latter this is permissible).
Male fittors
Here I would like to examine in more detail the cases when representatives of the strong half of humanity create an alliance with a woman in order to achieve and satisfy their own interests.
Can such men be called gigolos? The answer in this case will be ambiguous. In direct meaning, gigolo is a man who lives with a woman at her expense in exchange for sexual relations. Although now such a clear framework does not exist. A man can simply use the material resources and connections of a woman to build his business, purchase real estate (while not asking her for money, she gives them herself). When the lady’s resources run out, the couple’s relationship also ends.
An opportunist is a person who, contrary to his true outlook on life, adapts to the situation so that he is comfortable, and at the same time he can not take money from his partner at all, but simply create the appearance of a happy and harmonious relationship for his own benefit. For example, a man needed to get married not in order to create a strong family and have children, but to live on the territory of his wife so that she would take care of him (washing, cleaning, cooking, performing direct marital duties). In this case, it may not even be about material content. Just a man wants to satisfy his needs at the expense of a woman who believes that he loves her and wants to live with her.
In places of isolation from society
Here again I would like to return to the concept of "fittitude". Who is this? Who is so called in prisons?
Adaptives in the zone are those people who, contrary to their true views and convictions, take the point of view of their cellmates in order to live well in a colony and not conflict with anyone. Many inveterate "sitters" call such people fraudsters, because the latter most often put on a mask of someone they really are not.
Adherents in the underworld are not particularly respected. Because such persons simply do not have values.
Therefore, when answering the question of who the fittest is by concepts, we can say that this is the person who is ready to be a hypocrite, to change his true views only in order to settle down in places of deprivation of liberty and live comfortably there. Many of these dishonest personalities very often substitute their comrades and report on all other prisoners to the leadership of the colony.
What psychologists say
Many people believe that a person should be able to adapt to various life circumstances. But is it? Are many ready to sacrifice many years of friendship and even family for the sake of a career?
Psychologists say that the ability of a person to adapt to certain circumstances is not the worst quality of a person. This is primarily due to professional activities. For example, during an interview, many applicants cannot accurately answer the questions posed by a future leader, while others do so with ease. Of course, in this case we are not talking about betraying relatives and friends for the sake of achieving a goal and moving up the career ladder.
Therefore, “adaptation” and “ability to adapt” are two different concepts.
If we examine in more detail the psychology of an opportunist, then we can see that this person not only does not have moral principles, but also certain views on life, because his point of view on a particular situation changes depending on how convenient he is. The latter is always an egoist and can betray a loved one only because it became unprofitable for him to be near him.
To the above
So, in psychology, an opportunist is a person who, despite his true views, is assimilated in the circumstances. Many of us do not tolerate such people, because most of them simply put sticks in the wheels of the one who is stopping them. This applies mainly to professional activities.
If we talk about personal relationships between a man and a woman, here the opportunists are negative people who are ready to do anything, if only it would be good and convenient for them to live. Many representatives of the strong half of humanity even marry by calculation. The latter are also very often called opportunists.
Interesting
All people love and want to live well. The only question is that someone achieves everything himself, and the other at the expense of certain people or someone else's connections. Can such people be called opportunists? Definitely yes.
By the way, many men who have married a woman are much older than themselves (it is clear that not for the purpose of creating a family and having children, but because she has certain financial resources), they are not even shy about this. Most of these husbands do not have their own point of view, but do what the wife will say, and sometimes refuse what they promised to do earlier. The latter are also prone to betrayal and "love on the side."
Conclusion
Is it good or bad to be fit? After all, every person is by nature free, although sometimes circumstances are not in his favor.
The ability to adapt to life and move forward without breaking these promises and principles is good. But if a person deceives and betrays loved ones for the sake of his own goal and hides his true intentions, then you simply cannot call him decent.